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On February 16, 2004, following a driving rainstorm, a long line of couples waited to enter San Francisco City Hall to apply for marriage licenses.

20 Years Later The Winter of Love From Stonewall to ‘I Do’: Celebrating San Francisco’s Winter of Love 20 Years Later

Stuart Gaffney and John Lewis It was 20 years ago this month when Gavin Newsom burst open the doors of San Francisco City Hall for all loving, committed LGBTIQ couples to marry, commencing the city’s historic “Winter of Love.” Over 8,000 queer people from 46 states and 8 countries flocked to City Hall to proclaim two words that reverberated around the world: “I DO.” With each wedding vow taken, we stood up boldly for our love, dignity, and equality like never before. The marriages continued for a month before the California Supreme Court put a stop to them. During those heady days, it felt almost as if homophobia had ended. One friend analogized it to the fall of the Berlin Wall, with as many LGBTIQ couples as humanly possible breaking through barriers of discrimination to come to San Francisco to marry. We were lucky to be one of the first ten couples to marry because we had come to City Hall on Febru-

In reflecting on the twentieth anniversary of the Winter of Love, our thoughts turned to another pivotal event in queer American history, the 1969 Stonewall Riots. On a hot and humid June night nearly 55 years ago, the queer patrons of the Stonewall Inn in New York City fought back against the police as the cops raided the bar. Like Stonewall, San Francisco’s Winter of Love was a profound act of defiance against government discrimination. Stonewall was a rebellion against brutal and unjust police harassment of gay people that destroyed lives. The Winter of Love was a revolution of love, proclaiming queer couples’ rights to

Right to left: Edwin Goei and Jeff Nisewanger, Marriage Equality USA activists who married during the Winter of Love; John Lewis and Stuart Gaffney; and long-time marriage equality leader Molly McKay-Williams with her daughter McKenzie at the Castro Theatre on February 2, 2024

giant coming out to the nation and the world of our loving relationships and families, and both an invitation and demand for society to accept and embrace them.

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The Winter of Love ignited the broader nationwide freedom to marry movement that had been operating relatively quietly before. The City of San Francisco shone a spotlight on the lives and love of LGBTIQ couples in all their diversity in an unprecedented way. We collectively won nationwide marriage equality at the U.S. Supreme Court just eleven years later in 2015. Bill Frist, Republican Senate Majority Leader back in 2004, warned that what took place in San Francisco could set off a “wildfire” of gay marriage that would spread across the country. It did.

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ary 12, 2004, to attend Marriage Equality California’s annual rally and demonstration for the right to marry—which by chance took place just as the city was just starting to marry queer couples.

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full dignity and equality in the face of the federal and state governments treating us as second-class citizens. It was, in a sense, Stonewall on love steroids. For over half a century, our community has commemorated Stonewall with annual Pride marches, parades, festivals, and celebrations. When a queer person walks down the main street of their hometown in an annual Pride parade, they celebrate their coming out as a beautiful LGBTIQ person with nothing to hide about who they are. The Winter of Love was a

The Winter of Love represented the fruition of our community’s tireless efforts since Stonewall in other ways as well. While Stonewall was an uprising against the police, the San Francisco Sheriff’s Department steadfastly protected samesex couples’ ability to marry during the Winter of Love. They maintained safety, including removing and arresting right-wing protesters who attempted to stand in the way of love by blocking the entrance to the Clerk’s office. The police raids at Stonewall in 1969 were part of an intensification of police raids against LGBTIQ

bars that took place in the context of then-New York City Mayor John Lindsay’s re-election campaign. The Winter of Love was the brainchild of San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom himself. Newsom put his political career on the line for the LGBTIQ community just 34 days after he had been elected San Francisco’s mayor. It marked the first time a big-city mayor had taken such a bold and risky step to support queer people. Newsom’s actions stood as a model for California Attorney General and then Governor Jerry Brown, who four years later refused to defend the anti-marriage equality Proposition 8. Kamala Harris, as California Attorney General, did the same when she took office in January 2011. A month later, President Obama directed the U.S. Justice Department not to defend the infamous Defense of Marriage (continued on page 4)

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Kate Kendell, Esq., was at the heart of San Francisco’s Winter of Love in nearly all respects. Now the Chief of Staff for The California Endowment, Kendell in 2004 was the Executive Director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights. She was, and remains, connected not only to San Francisco city Kate Kendall leadership but also to LGBTQ+ community leaders both locally and nationwide. Here, she shares her story of what happened during that fateful February two decades ago and reflects on the legacy of the Winter of Love. San Francisco Bay Times: On February 6, 2004, you received a call from then Mayor Gavin Newsom’s Chief of Staff informing you that, on the following Monday morning, the mayor was going to begin issuing marriage licenses to lesbian and gay couples in San Francisco. Did that come as a complete surprise to you? What was your reaction, particularly given what was happening legally in Massachusetts concerning same-sex marriage at the time?

then Mayor Newsom‘s Chief of Staff. My first reaction was one of worry because this was only a few months after the marriage win in Massachusetts by our colleagues at Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders. And it was only a few weeks after then President George W. Bush endorsed a constitutional amendment to ban marriage between same-sex couples in his State of the Union Address. Well, it turns out that Mayor Newsom was in the audience in D.C. during that State of the Union and was appalled and offended. He came back to San Francisco fired up and wanted to do something. My initial worry and reluctance quickly gave away to a sort of “bring it on!” perspective and away we went.

Kate Kendell: I was completely surprised and taken aback when I got that call from Steve Kawa, who was

San Francisco Bay Times: Please take us back to the time when you and then Mayor Newsom decided to ask Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin to be the first couple to marry during the Winter of Love. How was that decision made, and what happened when you approached Phyllis and Del? We’ve read that, in her characteristic easy-going way, Phyllis said something like, “Well, sure!” But we’re curious about

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your own recollections, including about the ceremony that followed.

to you about his values and leadership skills?

Kate Kendell: The decision to have Del and Phyllis be the first couple was the brainchild of me and the Mayor’s Policy Director Joyce Newstat. To us, it just seemed obvious that they should be the first couple to be married. I called them, and Phyllis answered the phone. When I told her what we wanted them to agree to she said, in a rather crotchety voice, “Well, let me ask Del.” I heard her put down the phone and I could hear voices murmuring. A couple of minutes later, she came back, picked up the phone, and said, “We’ll do it.” It obviously wasn’t a very romantic proposal, but it was perfect for that moment. I picked them up early the next morning, February 12, and we drove to City Hall. We went down into the underground garage and in through a secret entrance. It was sometime before the ceremony could actually be performed by then City Assessor-Recorder Mabel Tang. But when we finally gathered and Mabel spoke, and Del and Phyllis took their vows, it was, and remains, one of the most powerful moments of my career.

Kate Kendell: The decision by then Mayor Newsom to begin issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples was one of the most courageous, daring, and fierce I’d ever seen from an elected official. He received all kinds of grief from it—calls Susan Lowenberg, Joyce Newstat, and Kate Kendell at the from Dianne Feinstein Castro Theatre, February 2, 2024 for the 20th Anniversary of and Barney Frank, who the Winter of Love. told him he was going to as we have sadly seen, even though cost Democrats the election. It really we won marriage nationwide in was a profile in courage moment, 2015, our community is still under and something we should demand severe threat and attack. The antifrom all of our elected officials, to trans laws around the country, the stand up for justice, and for a country attacks on young trans kids, the viothat provides dignity to all. lence directed at particularly trans San Francisco Bay Times: What women of color is intolerable, and must be fought back against with all issues are of greatest interwe have. The ludicrous actions of est to you now concerning the so many far-right Republicans who LGBTQ+ community and in hold power is a threat to the humanlight of intersectionality with ity of so many. We really are in a other communities? After fight for the future of our nation, the Winter of Love, there was whether it will be steeped in racism, so much momentum toward cruelty, misogyny, and corruption, nationwide marriage equalor whether we will elevate values of ity. What issues that are still in belonging, inclusion, and full jusplay now do you hope gain similar momentum in the days and tice for all. This is a particularly perilous moment; the queer movement months to come? and other past civil rights movements Kate Kendell: There is no doubt have likewise faced past threats. Parin my mind that we won marriage ticularly in this election year, we nationwide on a much faster timeneed to do all we can to restore to line than we would have without the power individuals who value decency actions of then Mayor Newsom. But and humanity.

San Francisco Bay Times: How might the Winter of Love continue to inf luence future decisions concerning the LGBTQ+ community, now that 20 years have passed and Governor Newsom appears to be moving toward a run for President in 2028? What did that time reveal

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Kate Kendell, a Leader in the Fight for Marriage Equality, Reflects on the Winter of Love and Its Legacy

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Governor Newsom and Marriage Equality Activists Mark ‘Winter of Love’ 20th Anniversary at Castro Theatre

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An exclusive film screening event marking the 20th Anniversary of the Winter of Love was held at the Castro Theatre on February 1, 2024. Attendees included marriage equality activists, such as San Francisco Bay Times columnists John Lewis and Stuart Gaffney and Jeanne Rizzo and Pali Cooper, along with multiple notable leaders including California Governor Gavin Newsom. Rizzo and Cooper’s story is featured in the film, along with that of Christopher Bradshaw, who also attended the event. Sponsored by Salesforce and produced by veteran public relations consultant Mark Rhoades, the event included a showing of the 2005 documentary Pursuit of Equality, which was co-directed by Governor Newsom’s brother-inlaw, Geoff Callan, and Mike Shaw. The private event was attended by over 700 guests and included a welcome reception, opening remarks by Governor Newsom, the film screening, a surprise performance by the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus, and a post-presentation by the filmmakers and documentary subjects. Two decades ago, then San Francisco Mayor Newsom courageously issued marriage licenses to same-gender couples, sparking a nationwide movement for marriage emancipation. He teamed up with Callan and Shaw to document loving partners via film while they tirelessly advocated for equal rights during this historic moment. Pursuit of Equality originally premiered at the Castro Theatre during the 2005 San Francisco International Film Festival and has gone on to win multiple awards and accolades encompassing the

film’s unapparelled storytelling surrounding the intimate lives of those at the forefront of the marriage justice movement. Pursuit of Equality is a testament to the enduring fight for impartiality and offers a powerful reminder of the importance of advocacy and solidarity in the pursuit of justness and equitability. The filmmakers plan to bring the documentary to audiences everywhere, with a second screening scheduled for February 29, 2024, at the USC School of Cinematic Arts, and more to follow in the coming months. Others who attended the February 1 event at the Castro Theatre included Jennifer Siebel Newsom, First Partner of California; Hilary Newsom Callan, Producer (and wife of Geoff Callan); former San Francisco Assessor-Recorder Mabel Teng, who officiated San Francisco’s first same-sex wedding between Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon; Stephen Revetria, President of San Francisco Giants Enterprises; Jodi Goodman & wife Michelle, President of Live Nation, Northern California; Robert & Barbara Callan, Executive Producers; San Francisco Treasurer José Cisneros; former City Attorney of San Francisco Dennis Herrera; former National Center of Lesbian Rights Executive Director Kate Kendell; Joseph Cotchett & Nanci Nishimura, Supporting Sponsors; Tom Horn & Caesar Alexzander; the Honorable Richard Kramer; and international artist Bip Apollo.

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20 Years Later The Winter of Love

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Remembering the Day I Married My Husband During the Winter of Love

We heard on the news that Mayor Gavin Newsom had directed the County Clerk to find a way to change the marriage license application to be gender neutral. One newscast on Tuesday night had ended their report by saying that Mayor Newsom wanted to marry a same-sex couple by the end of the week. I had sent an email on Wednesday to the Mayor’s Office telling him that we would be glad to be that couple. During the Domestic Partner Commitment ceremony in March of 1999, Gavin Newsom, then a Supervisor from District 2, was the person who did our ceremony. I wrote we would be glad to stand with him, by standing before him, to be married. Fernando (Orlandi) had already planned to take this day (2/12/04) off because he had a dentist appointment to have his teeth cleaned. It so happens that for the past five years or thereabouts, February 12 had been declared “Freedom to Marry” by a group advocating for same sex marriage. The idea was for people to go to their local county clerks and request a marriage license. Even though they knew they would be denied, they went to make people aware of the inequity of discrimination against gay and lesbian people. Fernando told me he felt that if Mayor Newsom was going to marry people, he would do it before the marriage equality rally so it wouldn’t look like he was caving in to their demands. When we heard that the Mayor was planning on holding a press conference, we decided to go and make our case in person. We got to City Hall early and went to the City Clerk’s office. We told the gentleman behind the information counter that we were a same-sex couple and we wanted to get a marriage license. Everyone in the room just stopped what they were doing and looked at us. We didn’t know that the first same-sex weddings had already taken place and that everyone was on edge because they thought that some group would get a court injunction to stop the weddings so they had been sworn to secrecy. We were told to come back. When we went back outside to wait for Mayor Newsom to have his news conference about new London-style taxis being introduced to San Francisco, we were approached by a reporter from the local NBC affiliate who asked, “You are not really here about taxis, are you?” We laughed because I was wearing a large button that said, “Support Same Sex Marriage” around the outside with a large “I DO” in the middle. She

asked if we would mind being on film. We agreed. The last question she asked us was, “What would it be like to be married today?” Little did we know we were about to find out. After she finished interviewing us, she got a call on her cellphone. She told us that the mayor had cancelled his press conFernando Orlandi and Bill Wilson at the Castro Theatre, ference. February 1, 2024, for the 20th Anniversary of the Winter It was at that point of Love Amid the joustI noticed Roberta Achtenberg walking down the stairs from City ing camHall. I ran over to her and asked if she was here era crews, the Gavin Newsom officiates the Domestic Partner Commitment Ceremony, marrying Bill Wilson and for the marriage equality rally that was happenexpectant couFernando Orlandi (March, 1999) ing at noon. Roberta just stood there for a few ples, and their She asked us to hold hands and face her while seconds, which seemed more like a minute, and witnesses, we managed to find a space along she read a brief paragraph about love and comfinally she just blurted out, “I am here to witness the wall to fill out our paperwork. When we mitment and the solemnity of what we were the first same-sex marriage and it has already finished, we went back to the counter. The lady about to do. She then asked us to turn and happened and that is all I can tell you.” took our forms and our check for the license fee face each other as we took our vows. To look and gave us a number. A few minutes later, she I figured if the first one had already happened, into Fernando’s eyes was such an emotional then they must have figured out the changes came back with our license. We both had to moment. My mind was on overload. I wanted to the paperwork. So, I ran back to the Clerk’s raise our right hands and swear that the inforto remember the feeling forever. I knew with office. There was a different person behind the mation we had given was true. It was. We were no hesitation that Fernando was the person I counter, and when I asked for a same-sex marthen sent over to the Recorder’s office, which want to spend the rest of my life with. Lookriage license application, she said, “I cannot ing into his eyes filled my heart and my whole was at the other end of City Hall. There were confirm or deny that we have same-sex license being with so much joy. I struggled to contain two couples ahead of us in line when a person applications. I can only say that if we were to give came out and said that the first four couples it. Luckily, we have it on videotape. I know Ferthem out, we would not start until noon.” nando said, “I do,” in the right spot and then had to go back to the Clerk’s office because I said, “I do,” and we were declared “spouses there was problem with their license. We According to my watch it was 11:20 am. When for life.” I stood there, she said to me that I might want weren’t happy and were getting more nervous to come back. I replied, “You don’t understand. by the minute that we weren’t going to be marWhen the reporter asked us what it was like to When you start handing them out, I want to ried before the courts issued an injunction. be married, I said, “I’m just grateful to have be the first person you hand one to.” She said been at the right place at the right moment.” When we got to the Clerk’s office, Nancy we still had to not block the desk and we had to We finished our paperwork and it was Alfaro was collecting the licenses. When we move back beyond the door. I turned around recorded. asked her what was wrong, she said that the and realized that there were about twenty peoThe excitement and joy were like an electrical first four licenses were printed with Bride ple lined up behind me. We just all stayed in the current pulsing throughout City Hall. In the same order and stepped back to the door. and Groom instead of Applicant 1 and 2. She rotunda we ran into Mark Leno and had our said it would take about 15–20 minutes to fix As it got closer to noon, more news reporters, photo taken with him. them. While we waited outside the office, peocamera crews, and people who wanted to get ple came in from the freedom to marry rally. Having woken that morning with no idea the married showed up. It was both exciting and day would be our wedding day, we went to bed nerve wracking. The NBC reporter asked if they Everyone was so excited. a married couple still trying to understand why could follow us through the process and film After we waited about half an hour, Fernando that piece of paper we had thought wouldn’t us. That turned out to be a godsend in several went back into the Clerk’s office only to find make a difference turned out to make a very ways. Finally, the lady said, “We are ready.” Ferthe Clerk still doing interviews. When he got big difference. By allowing same-sex marnando and I went forward. I asked for a marriage a chance, he reminded her that she had said riages, Mayor Newsom just turned the argulicense. She handed us an application and told us it would take 15 minutes and it had now been ment around. We didn’t have to prove we were to fill it out. She told us that, when we were findeserving of our rights; our opponents had to ished, we should come back to her and she would half an hour. She apologized and went into her office and shut the door. About ten minprove they were harmed. We went to bed havgive us a number. utes later, she came out with our correct license ing been treated like anyone else. We had been and we then went back to the Recorder’s office. on both local and national news getting marThe NBC crew asked if it would be okay to ried. We were now “spouses” and no one had to ask us what that meant. We had tasted record our ceremony. The reporter agreed to equality. It was a moment I will always remembe our witness. (That probably violated jourber and treasure. nalistic ethics, but we agreed not to let anyone know.) William “Bill” F. Wilson is a San FranciscoDREW ALTIZER PHOTOGRAPHY

February 12, 2004: We didn’t know when we woke up that morning that it would be our wedding day, but it turned out to be the happiest day of our lives!

Jewelle Gomez: The Winter of Love Marked the ‘Beginning of a Struggle for Human Rights’

October 2008. Their wedding was announced in The New York Times: http://tinyurl.com/2tn835rb It was not until June 26, 2015, that the Fourteenth Amendment required all states to grant same-sex marriages. Throughout it all, and to this day, Gomez and Sabin have weathered the storms together.

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Author, playwright, activist, and San Francisco Bay Times columnist Jewelle Gomez and her partner Diane Sabin were active in the fight for marriage equality both during and after the Winter of Love. Like many Bay Area residents, they celebrated then San Francisco Mayor Newsom’s bold decision in 2004 to order city officials to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples.

Looking back on the years of the They were among the litigants Jewelle Gomez and Diane Sabin legal battles, Gomez said, “The against the state of California marriage equality campaign had suing for the right to legal marriage in 2008. other major outcomes, in addition to allowing The case was brought to the courts by the City queer people to get married. It forced an open Attorney of San Francisco, the National Cendiscussion of equal rights resulting in more peoter for Lesbian Rights, and the American Civil ple saying ‘gay’ out loud than ever before. And it Liberties Union. revealed a lot of people’s really ugly prejudices.” In May of that year, the Supreme Court ruled in favor of the litigants, allowing marriage between same-sex couples in California. Gomez and Sabin were among 18,000 couples who married in California before Proposition 8 (which banned further same-sex marriages in California) was approved by voters on November 4, 2008. Gomez and Sabin married in 4

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“Some queer and non-queer people mistakenly thought our equality was won when we could marry legally,” she added. “I believe more of us understood this was just the beginning of a struggle for human rights that was far reaching and one in which queer people, people of color, and lesbian feminists could have a powerful effect.”

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Minna Tao was the person who presided over our wedding. She was a Deputy Recorder/ Assessor. Her first question before we got started was, “Who has the rings?” When we said we didn’t have any rings, she replied, “That’s okay. When we get to that part, you can just exchange kisses.”

based photographer focusing on LGBT and civil rights-related events. He and Fernando Orlandi will be celebrating their 20th wedding anniversary this February 12. Watch the video of Bill and Fernando's wedding during the Winter of Love: http://www.billwilsonphotos.com

LEWIS/GAFFNEY (continued from page 2) Act (DOMA). In 2015, the administration threw the weight of the entire federal government in support of marriage equality before the U.S. Supreme Court. At a festive celebration of the Winter of Love last week at the Castro Theatre, Governor Newsom rocked the house when he reminded everyone of the extent to which the marriage equality “journey and conversation started quite literally right here in San Francisco.” But Newsom cautioned last week that equality was not a fixed place but a continuing effort, pointing to our need to stand up against what he termed a “full-on assault” taking place now against LGBTIQ rights, and especially against transgender people. The Winter of Love was a collective effort of countless queer people in love, advocating

for themselves through the truth of their lives with the full support of their friends and allies and San Francisco’s leadership. That love and commitment must not be static history but live on like Stonewall as dynamic inspiration to our community as we confront the struggles of today and together build an even brighter tomorrow. John Lewis and Stuart Gaffney, together for over three decades, were plaintiffs in the California case for equal marriage rights decided by the California Supreme Court in 2008. Their leadership in the grassroots organization Marriage Equality USA contributed in 2015 to making same-sex marriage legal nationwide.

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By William “Bill” F. Wilson

Creating Change and other administrative services. Being under the umbrella of an established fiscal sponsor can help attract donors and build the capacity of these projects.

In Case You Missed It Joanie Juster Last year, San Francisco had the honor of hosting Creating Change, this country’s preeminent skills-building, leadership, organizing, and networking conference for LGBTQ+ activists and allies, created by the National LGBTQ Task Force. The 2023 conference took place as the country was at the beginning of a tidal wave of anti-trans and antiLGBTQ+ bills that were being introduced in state legislatures around the nation. A year later, those battles have only intensified. The bills being introduced are more and more extreme with each passing week, not even bothering to pretend they are going to actually benefit the people. They are about revenge, fear, erasure, and hate. The work done at Creating Change is more vital than ever, creating a safe space where thousands of committed people can find the tools and support to develop, sharpen, and practice their skills as activists and community leaders. If you weren’t able to attend the conference in New Orleans this year, you can still watch the highlights and plenary sessions on The Task Force’s YouTube channel: http://tinyurl.com/CChange24

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Black History Month, Bayard Rustin, and the Oscars

Celebrating Local History on February 10

Cheers went up all over the internet when Colman Domingo’s performance as Bayard Rustin was recognized with an Oscar nomination for Best Actor. There was certainly cause to celebrate Domingo’s

As any good San Franciscan knows, the massive earthquake that forever transformed our city took place at 5:12 am on April 18, 1906. Every year city officials and history lovers gather at Lotta’s Fountain by Geary and Market Streets early on April 18 to remember the event that destroyed much of the city and took over 3,000 lives. The annual remembrance is also a reminder for us to prepare for the inevitable next one.

powerful performance in the film. But even more it was worth celebrating the fact that the life and work of Rustin was finally being highlighted on a mainstream platform that would reach many millions who might never have heard of him otherwise. As an unapologetically queer Black man, fighting for social justice in a time when people like him were simply not accepted, he has been largely overlooked by the history books. That time has now ended. Kick off Black History Month by watching the film, reading Rustin’s writings, and celebrating his life and legacy.

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Yet, oddly enough, in a city that loves to honor its history, there has never been a public plaque dedicated to this transformative event—until now. It has taken the San Francisco History Association seven years of planning and permits, but they are now proud to invite everyone to the dedication of the 1906 Earthquake and Fire Memorial Plaque, on the de Young Building at 690 Market, across from Lotta’s Fountain. The dedication will take place at noon on Saturday, February 10. The 45”x72” plaque features large photos and informative text, and a festive celebration of San Francisco’s resilience and colorful history is planned, including the San Francisco Lesbian/Gay Freedom

One local nonprofit, San Francisco SAFE, which has provided fiscal sponsorships to smaller organizations for many years, is now under investigation since a city audit revealed improper expenses of grant money on luxury items.

Band, Emperor Norton and Lola Montez, and much more. The San Francisco History Association hopes to see you there, and is encouraging folks to come in 1906 period costume. And don’t forget to save the date for this year’s annual commemoration at Lotta’s Fountain, on April 18. Speeches will start at 4:45 am, followed by a dramatic minute-by-minute recounting of the events of that tragic morning. At 5:12 am, the fire sirens will sound, providing a solemn reminder of San Francisco’s history. More info: http://tinyurl.com/SFHA1906 Community Organizations Impacted by San Francisco SAFE Many small community organizations, projects, and artists rely upon a relationship with a fiscal sponsor—a nonprofit organization that provides fiduciary services, including fiscal oversight, financial management,

Unfortunately, the turmoil there caused by the ongoing investigation has had a cascading effect on the smaller nonprofits and projects for which it provided fiscal sponsorship services. One such organization is Castro Community on Patrol (CCOP), which has had a fiscal sponsorship relationship with SF SAFE since 2006. The alleged actions of SF SAFE have left CCOP with unpaid bills totaling over $11,000, and no working capital to continue the important services they provide to the community. Despite this setback, CCOP’s Chief of Patrol, Greg Carey, said that CCOP is determined to continue carrying on their mission, of providing safety and security in the Castro neighborhood. The CCOP board is working to secure funding from a number of donors to cover the outstanding debts. For more information: www.castrocommunity.org Until next time, stay safe and start studying your sample ballot for the election on March 5. Joanie Juster is a long-time community volunteer, activist, and ally.

Claim Your Earned Income Tax Credit I want to highlight programs that could bring some breathing room to those who need assistance. They’re called Earned Income Tax Credits (EITCs). Both the state and federal governments each administer one to help struggling workers with potentially sizeable tax refunds.

Assemblymember Phil Ting The Biden Administration has done a tremendous job with easing inflation. I am confident their continued actions will keep the economy strong and result in the further decline of prices on most goods and services.

California’s version, CalEITC, is considered one of the most effective tools to help lift people out of poverty, putting thousands of dollars into the pockets of folks who need it the most. If you earned less than $30,950 last year, your check could be as much as $3,529, depending on the size of your household. There’s another $1,117 available on top of the CalEITC for each of the following:

• Young Child Tax Credit (YCTC): Families with young children under the age of six; • Foster Youth Tax Credit (FYTC): 18- to 25-year-olds placed in the foster care system when they were age 13 or up. For the 2022 tax year, nearly 3.5 million Californians were able to claim CalEITC, YCTC, and/ or FYTC, putting more than $1.3 billion back in their wallets. There is also the federal EITC, which can boost tax refunds even higher. Together, the combined cash back from both programs can be lifechanging—sometimes more than $12,000 for households with three or more children. (continued on page 18)

Uplifting and Strengthening Oakland’s Black Arts Movement and Business District significant role in the historic and cultural foundation for Oakland. The continued support in developing a greater recognizable identity of the BAMBD through signage and capacity building will help leverage community efforts to highlight, celebrate, preserve, and support the contributions of Oakland’s Black artists and businesses.

Out of the Closet and into City Hall Oakland City Councilmember At-Large, Rebecca Kaplan

Recently, Councilmember Carroll Fife proposed legislation to bring additional support and visibility to the BAMBD. The resolution proposes to implement a series of public streetscape improvements, including public banners along Oakland’s Fourteenth Street corridor, to honor, uplift, commemorate, and increase

public awareness of important Black cultural, sports, arts, and historical people and institutions. The resolution also seeks to help identify and uplift the corridor being known and recognized as The Black Arts Movement and Business District, and to provide resources to enhance existing cultural institutions—and to recognize and remedy the ways they have been challenged. It is important that we not only honor the important history, but also that we take action to build a vibrant future that supports the ongoing presence and vitality of Black arts and culture in our community. (continued on page 18)

Oakland has long been known for its rich and diverse culture, as well as its vibrant Black arts scene. Oakland was often referred to as “the Harlem of the West” due to the famous and talented headliners who performed in the city, and to the strong and vibrant local clubs and other arts-related businesses, including in the Seventh Street corridor in West Oakland, and beyond. In more recent decades, Oakland’s Black arts, music, and culture scene has been a major factor in the vibrancy of downtown, including the 14th Street corridor. In 2016, the Oakland City Council adopted Resolution 85958, which designates the 14th Street corridor from Oak Street to Frontage Road in Downtown Oakland and West Oakland as the “Black Arts Movement and Business District” (BAMBD). This district also includes the area of or within four blocks of 14th Street. The goal of the district designation is to “highlight, celebrate, preserve, and support the contributions of Oakland’s Black artists and business owners and the corridor as a place central historically and currently to Oakland’s Black artists and Black owned businesses.” The designation is intended to help support a critical mass of arts and entertainment establishments in the area, and to help promote and celebrate the region’s significant current and historical Black leaders, arts, political movements, enterprises, and culture. This effort continues, as does the work to bring resources to the area, including through grants and philanthropic funding. And for the City Administrator to continue considering other tools and incentives to support the implementation of the district, including streamlined permitting, funding, staffing, and new place-making elements. The BAMBD is the first designated cultural zone in Oakland and plays a S AN F R ANC IS C O BAY T IM ES

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Divas & Drinks @ The Acade Olivia Travel, known as “The Travel Company for LGBTQ+ Women,” was the focus of the January 26, 2024, Divas & Drinks @ The Academy SF, marking the first event of the series for the year. Olivia Vice President of Travel and Business Operations Tisha Floratos-Silano was a special guest for the evening that was emceed by Donna Sachet. After welcomes, they gave away a round of coveted door prizes, including travel opportunities for upcoming Olivia vacations. A vintage rare photo from the archives of lesbian activists Del Martin (1921–2008) and Phyllis Lyon (1924– 2020) was presented by City College Professor and film promoter Susan Berston, who will return on Friday, March 29, for Divas & Drinks to present preview footage from the forthcoming new documentary The Day the Curtains Came Down about the devoted group of caregivers who provided 24/7 care for Lyon during her final years.

Multiple Olivia stars were featured during the evening. First was trailblazing comic Marga Gomez, who was one of the nation’s first out lesbians in comedy. She performed from the stairway leading to The Academy’s Terrace, capturing her incredible energy and rapport with guests throughout her perceptive and hilarious set. Gomez is currently in the hit one-woman show Swimming With Lesbians, which has been extended through February at The Marsh in Berkeley before she takes it Off Broadway to

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Dykes on Bikes® (DOB) President Kate Brown took the stage to present a birthday cake to Michelle Cherry of UCSF and a DOB patch-holder, recognizing her dedication to the organization. Cherry also holds the distinction of having attended every in-person Divas & Drinks event over the past 3-plus years! (The first event in the series was virtual due to the COVID-19 pandemic.)

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emy SF: A Date With Olivia New York City. For more information: https://www.margagomez.com/ Next up was multi-disciplinary artist, musician, and activist Aïma the Dreamer, who captivated guests with her powerful words and music. The title track from Aïma’s new album, Femmenomenon, is featured on Queen Latifah’s CBS show The Equalizer. Aïma’s videos, singles, and EPs are at Apple Music: http://tinyurl.com/3uz4nwdu Throughout the night, DJ Rockaway—another Olivia favorite and a popular Divas & Drinks regular—kept the music going and headlined the After Party following the main program. (She is also a Digital Content Creator at Olivia and the wife of Floratos-Silano!)

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Special thanks from the San Francisco Bay Times to the entire Olivia team who helped make this event possible. In addition to those previously mentioned they included Event Marketing Manager Audrea Prysock, Senior Manager of Entertainment and Production Terri Lynn Delk, Vice President of Marketing Autumn Nazarian, and Touring Production Manager Kris Bergbom, They brought the excellence of Olivia’s legendary hospitality to Divas & Drinks. Thanks also to The Academy SF, Bacardí, Extreme Pizza, and the San Francisco Federal Credit Union.

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Join us at The Academy SF on Friday, February 23, when Divas & Drinks will celebrate Black History Month by honoring Black LGBTQ+ women with a lineup of special guests and entertainment, including a show presented by Beach Blanket Babylon legendary star performer Renée Lubin and jazz phenom Dr. Dee Spencer highlighting Black women composers. Special honors will go to Theodora Lee of Theopolis Vineyards, who is the first Black woman to own a vineyard in California, and to author, playwright, and activist Jewelle Gomez. For more info and reservations: http://tinyurl.com/54v7rhez

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Supporting Small Businesses in the Castro & Beyond

Cliff ’s Variety

The hardware, home goods, variety, and fabric store is both a destination for visitors seeking quality, distinctive goods of all kinds and is a mainstay for locals who rely on Cliff’s for essentials and more. Here, Cliff’s General Manager Terry

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stantly changing our selection based on what our community needs and wants. San Francisco Bay Times: What led to you becoming the General Manager of Cliff’s? Terry Asten-Bennett: I was born into the business. As the fifth generation of Cliff’s Variety, I didn’t really know this is what I wanted to do until I was doing it. In the late 1990s, I was working at the store and getting ready to pursue a teaching credential, when my parents were offered a huge amount of money from Save-On to sell the business. At this time, Save-On was trying to get into all of the neighborhoods where Walgreen’s was located.

San Francisco Bay Times: What are some items that you are featuring now at Cliff’s? Terry Asten-Bennett: We are a retail store that sells everything from hammers and nails to boas and tiaras. We like to say, “If we don’t have it, you don’t need it.”

My parents took my sister and I out to dinner and asked us if either of us wanted to take over the store or if they should consider the offer. My sister said, “Terry will take it over and give me money.” I thought about it a little bit longer than that. What it came down to

San Francisco Bay Times: Are most of your customers locals, from other parts of the Bay Area, tourists, or a mixture of all these? And are most of your customers repeat visitors?

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Terry Asten-Bennett: Our customers are a mixture of locals, businesses, tourists, and the wider Bay Area community. Our most regular customers are in several times a day. San Francisco Bay Times: You already hinted at this earlier with your mention of Cliff’s being a haven for drag queens, but how else does the business connect with the LGBTQ+ community?

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Ernie DeBaca (right) with his grandson Ernie Asten (holding pup) behind the counter at Cliff's Variety

for me was the community. I couldn’t imagine the Castro without Cliff’s in it. Was I sure this was what I wanted to do for the rest of my life? No, but I was sure I would never be able to show my face in San Francisco if I let the store get sold. So, I made the commitment and here I am.

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San Francisco Bay Times: Beyond its age and Legacy status, what do you think makes Cliff’s Variety such a unique business?

Terry Asten-Bennett: We depend on the community to stay afloat and it is our honor and responsibility to support our community in return. We are a safe place for people to be their authentic selves. We cater to the needs of the community by carrying the products they are looking for. We donate to a myriad of fundraisers that support the community. And I personally raise funds and donate a week of my time to volunteer as a Roadie on the AIDS Lifecycle to support the San Francisco AIDS Foundation and their work to end HIV/AIDS and the stigma surrounding it.

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Asten Bennet, who is also President of Castro Merchants, shares her thoughts about the business that her great-great grandfather Hilario DeBaca founded in 1936.

Terry Asten-Bennett: Cliff’s Variety is a one stop shop for everything you need and everyErnie and Martha Asten with thing you didn’t know you daughters Marian and Terry needed. Cliff’s is a fullservice hardware store, a housewares store, a toy store, a gift shop, a fabric store, and a drag queen haven. We are con-

San Francisco Bay Times: It is hard to think of Cliff’s without thinking of the Castro. What do you most enjoy about your business’ location?

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Terry Asten-Bennett: The Castro is such a special place. It isn’t just a neighborhood, or a shopping district, or a tourist destination; it is a community. It is a place where people gather to celebrate, to mourn, to protest, and to be seen and heard. It is a place where your neighbors know your name and they look out for you. It is the place that I call home.

San Francisco Bay Times: Please give a shout out to any members of your staff, repeat customers, mentors, or anyone else whom you wish to thank for their support. Terry Asten-Bennett: We are so grateful to our amazing staff. They work so hard to bring to life our vision. And they stay forever! Paul Ellis is one of my longest serving employees; he has worked with us since I was a teenager. Together we have seen and experienced the constant changing fabric of the Castro–the highest highs and the lowest of lows. We have laughed, cried, and pulled our hair out together. Without staff members like him we wouldn’t be who we are. (continued on page 18)

On Sunday, April 14, 2019, Cliff's Variety closed early for a community celebration of Ernie Asten’s life. Led, as he had requested, by a New Orleans style funeral band, the celebration included a large procession on Castro Street.

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Family members of Ernie Asten spoke to the crowd gathered at Jane Warner Plaza following the procession on Sunday, April 14, 2019, in the Castro.

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This issue of the San Francisco Bay Times launches a new page dedicated to small businesses in the Castro and beyond. Holding a place of honor as the first business to be profiled in the series is Cliff’s Variety. A landmark of the Castro, Cliff’s has been in business for 88 years and long predates the neighborhood becoming the first widely recognized gay mecca, which Terry Asten-Bennett started in the 1960s. Like the Bay Times, it is a San Francisco Legacy Business. Cliff’s is also one of the oldest family-run stores in the city.

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La Academia de AGUILAS Launches Advanced Leadership Trainings which provides educational opportunities for the Latinx LGBTQI community. Today we announce that on March 4, 5, 6, and 7, 2024, La Academia de AGUILAS will for the first time ever offer an advanced set of four, four-hour workshops designed by La Academia to further develop Latinx LGBTQI leadership skills.

2261 Market Street, No. 309 San Francisco CA 94114 Phone: 415-601-2113 525 Bellevue Avenue Oakland CA 94610 E-mail: editor@sfbaytimes.com www.sfbaytimes.com The Bay Times was the first newspaper in California, and among the first in the world, to be jointly and equally produced by lesbians and gay men. We honor our history and the paper’s ability to build and strengthen unity in our community. The Bay Times is proud to be the first and only LGBTQ newspaper in San Francisco to be named a Legacy Business, recognizing that it is a longstanding, community-serving business that is a valuable cultural asset to the city. Dr. Betty L. Sullivan Jennifer L. Viegas Co-Publishers & Co-Editors

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Nuestra Voz Eduardo Morales, Ph.D. 2024 marks the 30th anniversary of AGUILAS (Asamblea Gay Unida Impactando Latinos A Superarse), so this year for the San Francisco Bay Times we are highlighting achievements of the longstanding San Francisco-based nonprofit. For over a decade of those 30 years, AGUILAS has had La Academia,

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SF Sketch Randy Coleman Randy Coleman hails from New York, but has lived in San Francisco since 1975. Coleman shares that before moving to the Bay Area, he studied Art History and Architecture at Boston University while working as a resident artist for architectural rendering at a Massachusetts historical society. “All of my life I’ve been an artist,” Coleman says. “To know me is to know that I have a passion for art and architecture. I love this project for the San Francisco Bay Times, and hope that you enjoy my sketches.” © Randy Coleman, 2024

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Over four years ago, the ViiV Healthcare Foundation conducted a study throughout the U.S. with the goal of designing an initiative addressing the health of the LGBTQI community. Interestingly, they found that leadership development is a significant need for the community across various U.S. regions, including here in the Bay Area. The larger question posed by the study was, “Who in the LGBTQI community will assume leadership amid an aging group of leaders?”

The upcoming La Academia workshops will help pave the way for that emerging group of new leaders. La Academia originated over 13 years ago with funding from the Levi Strauss Foundation. AGUILAS revived the program with funding provided by a ViiV Healthcare Foundation grant. Now updated, the overall program offers two sets of four, four-hour workshops: a basic level and an advanced level. In partnership with Alliant International University, AGUILAS will give a certificate of completion to participants who attend the set of four workshops. To date, 55 individuals have participated in one or more of the basic trainings, while 15 people completed the basic set and therefore received a completion certificate. Both workshop levels provide useful skills and information on financial manage-

ment, communication tools, legal rights awareness, and effective strategies for advocacy. For more information and to reserve your place in the program for the upcoming workshops, go to https://www.sfaguilas.org/ Eduardo Morales, Ph.D. is a Professor Emeritus, retired Distinguished Professor, and current adjunct professor at Alliant International University. He is also a licensed psychologist and a founder and current Executive Director of AGUILAS, an awardwinning program for Latinx LGBTQ+. Of Puerto Rican decent, he has received numerous distinguished awards and citations, including being named a Fellow of 12 divisions of the American Psychological Association.

GLBT Fortnight in Review Plus How Many? Andrew Sullivan just wrote an essay headlined “The Meaningless Incoherence of LGBTQ+,” a sentiment with which I somewhat agree. I wasn’t on board with his entire polemic, but that makes sense considering he’s a conservative libertarian and I’m a center left Democrat. For example, Sullivan notes that the individual components of LGBTQ+ have different characteristics and goals, if you will. That’s true, but the entire array also has a commonality that Sullivan ignores; we are all gender minorities, with the possible exception of “+” that is, indeed, totally meaningless. I’m not sure I’d call the rest of it “incoherent,” but it’s awkward and pompous. The “Q” is already an all-encompassing term for, I don’t know, “gender non-conformist of undetermined nature,” or “non-straight person who doesn’t want to be labeled.” Fine, I guess. The “B” is not necessary from a legal or political standpoint, because bisexual discrimination is only litigated or legislated in the case of a samesex attraction or relationship, ergo a bisexual person is covered by “G” or “L” in these contexts. But what about other contexts, you ask? True, we can find people who are biased against bisexual people even when they are in opposite-sex pairings, but, well, we are all subject to social judgments, aren’t we? LGBTQ+, however, is a movement affiliation, theoretically designed to help us fight for civil rights as a coalition. That said, it feels like nitpicking to disparage the “Bs.” Many are in long-term samesex marriages and don’t feel like calling themselves G, L, or Q. So, B joins the gang.

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As for T, here’s where Sullivan and I really diverge, because I believe our entire future as a group depends on fighting for the transgender community and waging a war on many fronts as stalwart allies. Sullivan seems to fear, among other things, that children who are destined to be gay or lesbian are instead misidentifying as transgender and receiving dangerous interventions. I guess you might find an example or two of this phenomenon, much as you can find an example or two of almost anything. But this is simply not a thing. How do I know? I don’t. All I can say is I have covered GLBT news at least twice a month for well over a quarter of a century and I think I’m in a position to notice trends and oddities in our community. I also try to keep my mind open to a lot of information that I may not like. But hey, I could be wrong. (My housemaid, Myrtille, just said that this is pas possible!) Finally, Sullivan also notes that over half of LGBTQ+ people are bisexual, but that is to a large extent because kids these days like to identify as something other than straight. Also, it has become okay, or even chic, to be part of a minority group like ours. And finally, if anything this phenomenon cuts against the theory that all the gay kids are turning trans. Take out the Bs and Qs and the percentage of kids and/or adults identifying as L, G, or T remains fairly low. I wrote “finally” before that last paragraph because I could go on and on about this subject, but I think we’ve had enough. One last thing: I use “GLBT” because several years ago I just picked it. People were using this, that, and the other thing, adding letters and symbols right and left,

so I made a command decision to use “GLBT.” Now that it’s fallen into disuse, I feel a strange fondness for it. T and Company Part of the reason I could have gone on and on about our first topic is that I did not enlarge on one of the main points. Why are transgender rights so central to the GLBT community, or why should they be? Some of us remember the political debates of 20 years ago when “pragmatic” activists wanted to leave gender identity off our legislative agenda, figuring it would be easier to pass some useless piece of crap bill (description mine) if it only covered gay people or same-sex relationships. Update: it wasn’t easier, and we lost some integrity in the process. Then, gradually, transgender men and women were included in our civil rights battles and given more visibility and hope. It’s not surprising that their numbers increased and the issues of bathroom use, pronouns, and trans bias rose to the political surface. Then, as same-sex couples won the right to marry and seemed to settle into a victory formation, our adversaries began to target our transgender brothers and sisters. At first, we were reliable teammates. But when the going started getting tough, some of these gay and lesbian allies began drifting off to the sidelines. Oh, some transgender people aren’t gay! (So what? Some gay people go straight. Many bisexuals date the opposite sex.) And the questions are so complicated! Do pre-op transgender women belong on naked women’s beaches? (Not in my book.) What about bathrooms? (Of course,

there are stalls.) What about locker rooms? (Yes. Stalls and private showers.) Do they belong at women’s festivals and events? (Of course.) Should trans women compete against cis women? (In major competitions? Only if they have had hormone replacement therapy.) But what about trans girls in middle school? (They should always be allowed to play games and sports at school for fun.) When should transgender kids get medical treatment? What kinds? Should the state dictate how parents make these decisions? Should the state dictate what doctors should believe, recommend, or offer? After all, the state can pass a law against conversion therapy, right? Nothing is clear cut. Why should gays and lesbians care about these questions? Because for decades we were despised for our gender presentations and for flouting the most important gender stereotype of all—the romantic and/or sexual attraction between the opposite sexes. Vive la difference still applied, but the difference was always in our separate natures, not our genders. We were condemned to charades of “normal” behavior: fake marriages, fake boyfriends, and fake girlfriends, living in the closet, sneaking around in parks and underground bars. Our relationships were against the law. We were called perverts, degenerates, fired at will, hated. So now, when the full force of society’s rage against gender bending is focused on transgender men and women instead of us, is this really a good time to turn our backs and make superficial distinctions between trans people and gay people? The arc of history is long, and it’s not bending for the transgender community right now,

but it will bend faster if we help, along with our straight allies. Waiting for Myrtille I’m not sure how I got going on these serious topics. I’m not stoned, and it’s not late at night. In fact, it’s midday and Myrtille has just gone to fetch me a salade folle and a glass of PouillyFumé. Meanwhile, I just checked and I have a lot of important stories on my list. The Ninth Circuit has shut down yet another one of Idaho’s anti-trans laws as litigation continues. Russia has charged one woman with violating the new ban on GLBT “extremism” by posting a rainbow on social media. She possibly faces a couple of weeks behind bars for this, while some other people have also been nailed for this type of offense. Florida’s DMV has unilaterally barred revised gender markers on drivers’ licenses, which means that a trans-man could have a full beard on his ID photo, and an “F” under gender. Which serves what purpose exactly? Just a little gratuitous humiliation, thank you very much. And the Ohio state legislature has overridden the governor’s veto and restored a ban on hormone treatment and other therapies for transgender youth. Instead of developing these stories, I bring you the birth of a new gay men’s yodeling club, the Jodlerklub Mannertreu, founded by Franz Markus Stadelmann, whom I read is “well known in the yodeling scene.” I’ve also learned that the yodeling scene is conservative, so a gay men’s group is a daring step forward. All men are welcome, gay or straight, but Stadelmann predicts that the (continued on page 18)

Community Treasures From the GLBT Historical Society Archives

The Power of the Sun and the Sum

By Andrew Shaffer

In 1979, the State of California approved a proposal by the Stellar Arts Collective to create The Power of the Sun, the stained glass installation that would grace the entry and lobby of the state’s office building in San Francisco. The proposal noted “new ways of looking at the universe ... are being achieved daily,” and the artwork was intended to invoke these new possibilities. Visitors to the building were imagined as an important part of the installation; when combined with the varying hues of stained glass, visitors and pedestrians would form “a stream of color and shape” between the otherwise gray buildings of the plaza. As a founding member of the Stellar Arts Collective, Richard William Evans helped to propose, create, and install the artwork. His collection in our archives, which was recently digitized, includes photos and documentation that follow the conceptualization and installation of the artwork, as well as profiles on Evans and interviews that offer valuable insights into his remarkable life. Evans was a Black gay artist, community advocate, and participant in the “back-to-the-land” movement. Having grown up on the East Coast, he moved to San Francisco in the late 1960s, and drew inspiration from the revolutionaries around the world who were dreaming up new ways of being, and those seeking communal living outside the city. The Power of the Sun, his collective’s masterpiece, captured the various threads of his life and gestured towards the power of community to reshape the world.

Richard William Evans, photographed during the construction and installation of The Power of the Sun. GLBT Historical Society

Given the themes and messages of the artwork, its destruction was an ironic tragedy. In 1991, California Governor Pete Wilson vetoed AB101, a bill that would have banned discrimination in the workplace on the basis of sexual orientation. A protest was called in response, and a scuffle between protesters and police in front of the State of California building resulted in the destruction of The Power of the Sun barely a decade after its installation. The Power of the Sun was designed to invoke new ways of looking at the world, and the power of collective action. Even in its destruction, its message lived on; a year after AB101 was vetoed, another bill passed and was finally signed by the governor, banning discrimination against LGBTQ people in the workplace. The collective strength of advocates and activists—the power of the sum of us—finally succeeded in bringing a more just world one step closer. A collection of materials documenting the conceptualization and installation of The Power of the Sun was donated to the GLBT Historical Society’s archives in 2023, after Evans’ passing. This collection is now available online, along with dozens of other digital resources that enable people from around the world to explore our vast queer past. To learn more about our work, or to make a contribution to support continued online access, visit https://www.glbthistory.org/ Andrew Shaffer is the Director of Development and Communications for the GLBT Historical Society.

The Power of the Sun, looking out from inside the State of California building. Photo from the Richard William Evans Papers (2023-56), GLBT Historical Society. S AN F R ANC IS C O BAY T IM ES

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Black History Month

Opening Ceremony for Black History Month in San Francisco

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The San Francisco African American Historical & Cultural Society hosted the Opening Ceremony for Black History Month, which was held at the San Francisco City Hall Rotunda on Friday, February 2, 2024. This year’s theme for the month-long celebration in San Francisco is “African Americans and the Arts.” Mayor London Breed welcomed guests and spoke about the importance of the annual observance. San Francisco Arts Commission President Chuck Collins and Commissioners Suzie Ferras and Seth Brenzel also participated. Ralph Remington, who serves as the Arts Commission’s Director of Cultural Affairs, gave a keynote address. “The influence of Black artists, musicians, writers, and performers on American culture is undeniable,” Remington said. Performer Thea Rose led participants in singing “Lift Every Voice and Sing,” known as the Black National Anthem, and performed additional selections during the event. A closing ceremony for Black History Month will be held on Wednesday, February 28, 5:30– 9:30 pm at San Francisco City Hall. Opening Ceremony livestream at YouTube: http://tinyurl.com/mtw96sru

Jewelle Gomez As If It Were Forever - Audre Lorde (1934–1992)

Jewelle Gomez Audre Lorde’s voice was both imperious and seductive. At poetry readings, the music of her Caribbean and New York City tones drew me toward her as her cadence signaled she was saying something that must be remembered. Over time, I came to know her through her teaching at Hunter College where I audited her poetry class and then through her work as a co-

When I self-published my first chapbook of poetry in 1979, I boldly mailed a copy to her home on Staten Island (NYC). (Back when you could just look up someone’s address in a phone book!) Several days later, I came home from work, turned on my telephone answering machine, and her voice stunned me as it floated from the speakers. I played the tape repeatedly before I could hear her message: she liked my work and had editing notes! This was the beginning of my listening to every

message Audre shared, no matter the circumstance. One bitterly cold NYC afternoon, Audre gave me a ride home following a meeting and I told her of the vampire stories I was writing and wondered if she’d read them. She announced she didn’t care for short stories much or vampires at all; but said I could mail them to her. After she’d read them, she declared my collection of stories was really meant to be a novel and told me what was needed to make it work. I turned the collection into The Gilda Stories, which has been in print for more than thirty years. After she’d seen a photograph of me with my then girlfriend at a launch party for the novel, she shared, “Don’t ever stand behind anybody when the story is about you.”

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She always introduced herself as a poet, mother, lesbian, warrior, and delivered her message filtered through the prisms of her identity with a certainty that both comforted and challenged. Utilizing those many facets of my identity is a practice I’ve always sought to emulate, sometimes more successfully than others.

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The last time I saw Audre I was in her Manhattan hospital room. Having battled cancer for a number of years, she was about to make her final return to her home in St Croix. Not surprisingly for Audre, who was

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founder of Kitchen Table Women of Color Press. I was proud to become her student and colleague among the poets, lesbian/feminist community activists, and educators who surrounded her.

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always working, we were picking the winner of a poetry contest together. Audre had more energy and clarity in her final weeks of life than most people I know during their prime. The discussion of which poet should win and why was like a master class in poetry. I stood to leave and leaned in to kiss her cheek and Audre asked what was the scent I was wearing. I told her, “White Ginger, from Hawai’i.” “Lean over here again, I like that,” she said with that seductive sparkle. I then remembered I had a small vial of the oil in my purse, so I dotted her pillow with it and left the vial on her bedside table. “Oh good, you can haunt my dreams,” she teased. “Believe me I will,” I said laughing, even though I knew it was the last time I’d see her. Nothing does justice to her legacy, even the list of her accomplishments

from teacher, to human rights activist, to New York State Poet Laureate. Thirty years after her passing, I still conjure up her mellifluous tones as she shared a laugh or a secret or advice. In addition to her steady rhythm when speaking of lesbian power, the melody of flirtation and the eagerness of curiosity wrap themselves around me. One of her quotes comes to my mind when her February birthday rolls around: “Each time you love, love as deeply as if it were forever.” With Audre’s words and voice in my head, it truly is forever. Jewelle Gomez is a lesbian/ feminist activist, novelist, poet, and playwright. She’s written for “The Advocate,” “Ms. Magazine,” “Black Scholar,” “The San Francisco Chronicle,” “The New York Times,” and “The Village Voice.” Follow her on Instagram and Twitter @VampyreVamp

“Why become a Queen when you can become an Empress?” —José Sarria, Founder of the Imperial Court

By Donna Sachet

anuary’s Divas & Drinks, the San Francisco Bay Times’ monthly event at The Academy SF, was a celebration of Olivia Travel, the premier travel company for the Lesbian community for over 50 years. We started with a birthday salute to Melissa Cherry, a member of the Dykes on Bikes© and attendee of every single Divas & Drinks. Representatives of Olivia, including Vice President of Travel and Business Operations Tisha Floratos, Senior Manager of Entertainment and Production Terri Lynn Delk, and Event Marketing Manager Aundrea Prysock, welcomed the crowd and gave away door prizes. Susan Berston also gave away a door prize and discussed the upcoming documentary The Day the Curtains Came Down, inspired by the lives of the late Phyllis Lyon & Del Martin. Popular local comic Marga Gomez delivered a hilarious set, once again demonstrating her quick wit, perfect timing, and community connection. Aïma the Dreamer then amazed the audience with her fast-paced, infectious, and topical rap routine, leaving the crowd begging for more. DJ Rockaway closed out the night with dance music. Jason Brock is back! Popular local X-Factor finalist Brock moved to Japan some time ago, but returned recently to San Francisco, attracting a loyal crowd to Martuni’s for a show accompanied by the wonderful Dee Spencer. Among the audience were Gary Virginia, Danny Ferris, Jason Minix, David Landis & Sean Dowdall, Carolyne Zinko, and Don Berger. Jason sang crowd-pleasing songs and shared lots of personal stories from Japan and here, reminding us all of how much he has been missed. Thursday, February 1, Mark Rhoades hosted a screening of Pursuit of Equality: The Unfinished Work of American Freedom, the 2005 documentary about the ultimately successful fight for marriage equality that started right here in San Francisco. The Castro Theatre was packed with supporters of the fight, including many of those who played key roles, and we were thrilled to attend with Richard Sablatura, visiting from his new home in Dallas, Texas. We started at the upstairs reception, shoulder to shoulder with friends, including Thomas Horn & Caesar Alexzander, Steve Kawa, Leonardo DaSilva, Sister Roma, Kenshi Westover, Mary Conde of Another Planet Entertainment, Supervisors Ahsha Safai and Matt Dorsey, Mayoral hopeful Daniel Lurie, and filmmaker Geoff Callan and his wife Hillary Newsom Callan. The big surprise of the night was the appearance of Governor Gavin Newsom, the former San Francisco Mayor who took the first brave step to ensure marriage equality for our LGBTQ+ Community. Although surrounded by admirers and at least six security personnel, the Governor graciously reached out his hand and spoke with us. Once inside the theatre, we were seated with City Treasurer José Cisneros, BART Board President Bevan Dufty, and Supervisor Rafael Mandelman. Rhoades welcomed the audience, Callan introduced Governor Newsom to wild applause, and he introduced the film. We had seen the film years ago, but reliving this historic struggle in that iconic theatre with that enthusiastic crowd, watching the faces and hearing the words of so many familiar individuals, some no longer with us, was a profoundly moving experience. After the film, the SF Gay Men’s Chorus sang, key figures gathered on stage, including Dennis Herrera, Mabel Teng, and Mike Shaw, and others were acknowledged in the audience, including Kate Kendell, Imani Rupert-Gordon, and John Lewis & Stuart Gaffney. All in all, what a wonderful reminder of San Francisco’s history-making, courageous leadership role in advancing the civil rights of our LGBTQ+ Community! The wedding of Kelley Wagg & Charles Sanderson last Saturday was one of those only-in-San-Francisco gatherings, bringing together their families, friends, and associates from far and wide. Imagine a Gay wedding at a Gay bar (Beaux) in the middle of the day (noon)! Somehow, it all worked! From delicate floral displays and bundles of balloons to well-dressed guests, copious hors d’oeuvres, and free-flowing wine and champagne, this event brought together people who might not have ever met had it not been for this charming couple. Carly Ozard emceed, entertained, and performed the marriage ceremony and Veronika Klaus sang with Daniel Fabricant on strings, mixing traditions with camp. Max von Essen, Tony, Drama Desk, and Grammy nominated singer, took a short break from his starring role in Chicago on Broadway to bring Call Me Old Fashioned: The Broadway Standards to the Venetian Room of the Fairmont Hotel last Sunday and what a show it was! We attended with Patrick Rylee at the invitation of Jon Finck, running into many music-loving friends in the iconic performance space. How fortunate we are that Marilyn Levinson has revived the Venetian Room with her Bay Area Cabaret shows! Max took us down Memory Lane singing soaring Broadway melodies and tender Gershwin tunes with his rich voice, skilled control, and wide range. He was accompanied by the legendary Billy Stritch, who also joined in singing on a couple of selections and collaborated on several medleys. Don’t miss upcoming concerts in this series, March 24, 5 pm, Venetian Evenings: A Musical Tribute to the Venetian Room, and April 14, 5 pm, Standby, Me with Broadway’s Julie Benko. Finally, this week’s calendar is overrun with Imperial events because this is February, our traditional month to change from one reign to another. Get out there and support the new candidates for Emperor and Empress, attend the many events surrounding Imperial Coronation, and make it a point to thank Reigning Emperor Michael Anthony Chua and Reigning Empress Cameron Stiehl-Munro for a wonderful year of activities, fundraising, and pageantry.

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Donna Sachet is a celebrated performer, fundraiser, activist, and philanthropist who has dedicated over two decades to the LGBTQ Community in San Francisco. Contact her at empsachet@gmail.com

Thursday, February 8 Meet & Greet with Bob Glas Emperor candidate event The Lookout, 3600 16th Street 5–7 pm Free! www.imperialcouncilsf.org Saturday, February 10 Black & White Ball Empress candidate Linda Summers hosts Moby Dick, 4049 18th Street 4:30–7:30 pm Free! www.imperialcouncilsf.org Saturday, February 17 Voting Day for Emperor & Empress The Cinch, 1723 Polk Street, 11 am–4 pm Castro Muni Station, noon–6 pm Powerhouse, 1347 Folsom Street, 1–5 pm Valid photo ID for SF, Marin, or San Mateo County www.imperialcouncilsf.org Wednesday, February 21 Imperial In-Town Show & Awards Local stars perform Emperor Michael Chua & Empress Cameron Stiehl-Munro host Beaux, 2344 Market Street 6–8:30 pm Free! www.imperialcouncilsf.org Thursday, February 22 Anniversary Monarchs Reception Celebrate milestone anniversaries Hosted by John Carrillo & Misty Blue HaRa Club, 875 Geary Street 6:30–8:30 pm Free! www.imperialcouncilsf.org Friday, February 23 Divas & Drinks celebrates Black History Month Honoring Black LGBTQ+ Women Leaders & Allies: Imani Rupert-Gordon, Jewelle Gomez, Theodora Lee, Renée Lubin, Dr. Dee Spencer, and many more! SF Bay Times presents monthly party; Donna Sachet hosts Performance of a show highlighting Black women composers DJ Rockaway courtesy of Olivia Travel Bacardí cocktails The Academy, 2166 Market Street $15 http://tinyurl.com/54v7rhez Friday, February 23 Out-of-Town Show The best of Court performers Hyatt Regency SOMA, 50 Third Street 6 pm $25 www.imperialcouncilsf.org Saturday, February 24 Imperial Coronation 59: Seasons of Love Crowning of new Emperor & Empress Hyatt Regency SOMA, 50 Third Street 5 pm $70 www.imperialcouncilsf.org Sunday, February 25 Annual Pilgrimage to Colma Visit the gravesites of Joshua Norton & José Sarria Emceed by Donna Sachet Bus departs Hyatt Regency SOMA, 50 Third Street 8 am Free! www.imperialcouncilsf.org Sunday, February 25 Victory Brunch End of one reign, start of another Hyatt Regency SOMA, 50 Third Street 11 am $30 www.imperialcouncilsf.org

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During the years I was Chair of the Assembly Budget Committee, I fought to expand the program, raising the income limit for CalEITC because I knew how impactful a tax credit can be. I also pushed for the inclusion of young adults, seniors aged 65+ with no dependents, and self-employed workers. The Legislature additionally acted to make Individual Taxpayer Identification Number (ITIN) holders eligible to claim this state tax credit. These refunds not only raise the quality of life, but also stimulate the local economy when EITC tax refunds are spent.

Councilmember At-Large and Council President Rebecca Kaplan, who is the Vice Mayor of Oakland, was elected in 2008 to serve as Oakland’s citywide Councilmember; she was re-elected in 2016 and 2020. She also serves on the Alameda County Transportation Commission (ACTC). Follow Councilmember Kaplan on Twitter @Kaplan4Oakland ( https://tinyurl.com/2dtjmazc ) and Facebook ( https://tinyurl.com/2p9dd5ta ).

Unfortunately, not everyone eligible to claim the CaIEITC does so, leaving millions of dollars on the table. The key to getting this cash back is to file a tax return. Many people miss out on EITCs because they don’t typically earn enough money to have to file one, or they don’t owe taxes. But the paperwork is necessary to receive an EITC check.

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The money could be used to pay bills or meet everyday expenses. It can also be put into a savings account for emergencies, something that families living paycheck to paycheck can do. The tax credit also has proven long-term benefits. Research shows children whose families receive an EITC refund perform better in school and have better health outcomes. Now, that’s a great investment!

Terry Asten-Bennett: One of my newest favorite restaurants in the Castro is Tanglad. Not only am I lucky to have a great neighbor, but also their food smells amazing and is delicious. I am grateful to all of the businesses in the Castro. We know it has been tough, but every single storefront that keeps their doors open helps to keep the Castro vibrant and happening.

Are you or someone you know missing out? Nonprofits operating Volunteer Income Tax Assistance (VITA) programs can connect people with free tax preparation services. Filing as soon as possible means you can get your money back faster.

San Francisco Bay Times: What are some of the biggest challenges you have faced, in terms of your work?

For more information, please visit: https://www.caleitc4me.org/ You can see if you qualify and find the locations for free tax assistance near you or how to file a return yourself. Phil Ting represents the 19th Assembly District, which includes the west side of San Francisco along with the communities of Broadmoor, Colma, and Daly City, as well as part of South San Francisco and San Bruno.

San Francisco Bay Times: Outside of Cliff’s, what other businesses, including restaurants, do you recommend?

Terry Asten-Bennett: Work/life balance is a constant challenge for me. I am a selfprofessed control freak and perfectionist. I always want to put my best foot forward and I am not satisfied if I don’t live up to the standards I have set for myself. I often wake up in the middle of the night thinking about what I need to get and how I should re-merchandise a counter. I think it is fair to say that the COVID-19 pandemic was especially challenging. I worked very hard to make sure I was taking care of my staff first and foremost, while also taking care of our customers and community. It was very important to me that the people who depended on me the most knew I was doing absolutely everything I could to take care of them. San Francisco Bay Times: What are your plans and goals for Cliff’s this year? Terry Asten-Bennett: This year is really just about staying afloat. There is a lot of uncertainty in the world right now and that impacts how people shop. So, we will be conservative in our purchasing, while as fun and edgy as ever. Without our community, what’s the point? Shop local; it really does make a difference right here in your community. Cliff’s Variety 479 Castro Street, San Francisco https://cliffsvariety.com/ 415-431-5365 ROSTOW (continued from pg 15) closeted guys will avoid the club. Stadelmann and the handful of men who have joined him in this venture have designed a rainbow coaster that reads, “Where Gays Jodeln,” with the last word in rainbow colors. Just don’t try using that in Russia, guys! Bless Your Heart I was checking out some of the latest words of warning from Million Moms, one of my favorite sources of information, as you all know. I was going to skip the diatribe against the Pandora jewelry company that “blatantly throws homosexuality in the viewer’s face with the lesbian couple’s intimate embrace.” I also had planned to ignore a rant about TurboTax, which “should be ashamed of attempting to normalize sin in their 2024 commercial ‘Boater Home,’ which features a gay couple buying a houseboat.” But I was so intrigued by the Moms’ abject fear of a new Amazon Prime adult cartoon called Hazbin Hotel, a show about a rehab center in hell that aims to fix up souls and get them accepted into heaven, that I put them back on my list. The star of the show, which includes musical numbers, is Satan’s daughter, Charlie Morningstar, who has come up with the idea for the hotel after watching angels from heaven regularly descend and destroy souls in hell, or something like that. “Urgent warning for parents,” the Moms begin! “Amazon Prime has taken a dangerous step into the darkness with its new animated series Hazbin Hotel ... . This wicked cartoon portrays Lucifer (Satan) and demons as the ‘heroes’ and angels (elders) in heaven as the ‘bad guys.’” I immediately turned it on and got pretty bored within five minutes. I was unhappy because it didn’t seem to provide much fodder for an amusing write-up. In fact, I was ready to point out that no one is forcing anyone to watch a subscription-only streaming service and then trash the show for being tiresome. But before I started, however, I did some further research and learned that all kinds of people, including a New York Times reviewer, consider this show a big deal, full of flair and creativity. New York Times! Well, that clarifies things! Am I really the sort of person who changes their mind about a presentation based entirely on critical reviews from others? The question is unavoidable, and it appears the answer is yes. Well, I haven’t changed exactly. I’ve just recognized that my verdict of “tiresome” might have been a little hasty, and that other viewers who have put some effort into their analysis might be better positioned to opine on the value of this show. And meanwhile, there are the Moms! “We must put a stop to this series because Amazon Prime is introducing viewers—especially children who might stumble across this series—to a world of demonic content and imagery.” How exactly are kids going to stumble upon Amazon Prime shows? If indeed they are allowed to watch whatever they like on streaming services, they are going to find far more alarming viewing choices than Hazbin Hotel. “The show makes light of Satan, hell, and the dangers of the demonic realm,” Moms continue. “2 Corinthians 11:14 (ESV) tells us that Satan ‘disguises himself as an angel of light,’ but remember the apostle’s instruction in 1 Peter 5:8— “Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.” Ruh roh! Before I go, did you see The Washington Post article about the little mouse in Wales that comes out every night and tidies up the area on his friend’s worktable? And there was another mouse story I saw—a mouse that lived in someone’s car and was caught on camera after the car’s owner set up a surveillance system to check it out. Personally, I think mice are adorable. I’m just killing time now because it’s been nearly an hour and there’s no sign of my lunch. Oh, my wife just said Myrtille isn’t around and suggested leftover Thai food and iced coffee. How very disappointing. arostow@aol.com

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dark. Hundreds of cars zoomed by. Not one stopped.

Dr. Tim Seelig

All that pain sparked a counterculture, “Make Love Not War.” In 1968, my church youth choir traveled from Fort Worth, Texas, on a mission trip all the way to San Francisco. Our goal was to save the hippies from their wicked ways. When I first saw

Even though the world was falling apart around us, we still managed to be a “kinder, gentler” people. We were taught to respect fellow humans. We weren’t afraid to walk down the sidewalk or drive on the roads. I often picked up U.S. Marine Corporal Billy Winn in Vietnam hitchhikers on my trip to and from college. encing life challenges and issues One was heading to a comwe would have never ignored in mune where he lived. As decades past. We turn away from I dropped him off, he people dying and starving—here invited me to stay for communal dinner. My at home and in the middle of wars. Unlike the ‘60s, we’ve also lost or mind was blown by have become numb to such words the love dripping all as gentler and kinder. Just this over that place. They invited me to join them. week, our political leaders crucified tech companies for killing children It was tempting, but while ignoring guns altogether. instead, I drove on to my rigid, rule-ridden Baptist colThis past week, my husband Bobby lege. Life would have been so differJo was on tour all over the counent if I had sold all my try doing his thing. He is a singer/ worldly goods and joined them. I wouldn’t be writ- songwriter/poet—a bit of a Bob Dylan of our time, but with a beting this story. ter voice. He was enroute in his That’s a very cursory rental car from Fort Lauderdale to overview of the dichotOrlando. About midway, he ran out omy of the ‘60s. Now, on of gas on the Toll Road at around to the 2020s. We have 1 pm. been divided into tribes The closest gas station was an hour (a word used differently and fifteen-minute walk. These at that time). It is a culdays, one should not leave an abanture created by righteousness on both sides doned car on the freeway for very with too many factions long. He started making phone to count. There seems to calls. No gas stations would help. be no common ground. Tow trucks declined a service on a On the one hand, we are Florida turnpike. They gave him challenged to be more the number for a “road ranger,” a “woke,” more sensitive, highway patrol service that helps more empathetic. On stranded motorists. They said, the other, empathy is “yes,” but they were very busy. gone, and we are ruled The rental car company would by disrespect, namecalling, and hate. We’ve send roadside help for $400. He turned deaf ears to the decided to wait for the road ranger cries of people experito save him. Hours passed. It got

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Lessons were learned. The obvious one is to check your gas tank, or battery meters, often. The larger lesson is for us to work at regaining empathy, even in a time when people have put on blinders—or blindfolds—to the needs of others. We need fewer blinders and no blindfolds. Looking at these two decades, do I long for the “good old days”? No. Do I long for the days when people cared for each other instead of screamed at one another? Yes. Do I miss a time when we talked to each other—even across a fence? Yes. Do we have incredibly rough days ahead? Oh boy, do we. Bob Dylan’s lyrics, “the times they are a-changin’,” are truer today than ever. We still need to find a glimmer of hope that they will change for the better.

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To say the 1960s were rough is an understatement. The decade began with unimaginable tragedy. The Great Chinese Famine cost an estimated 76 million lives—impossible to grasp. That was followed by worldshattering political assassinations, the civil rights movement, riots, the Vietnam War, and antiwar protests.

them from our bus window, I didn’t want to save them. I wanted to join them. Over 40 years later, I moved to San Francisco and was now happily outside that bus. I was apparently the one that now needed saving.

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Some might argue we are experiencing the greatest period of social upheaval in our nation’s short history. Some of us, including Mr. Dylan, might argue it was the 1960s! I was alive for that one, too. It was a mess. I think the 2020s may have eclipsed the ‘60s and we’re not even done yet.

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You know how ear worms pop up randomly? Well, I’ve had one buzzing around for several weeks. It’s the 1964 hit “The Times They Are A-Changin’” by the legendary Bob Dylan. Singing along reminded me, once again, of my senior status. I decided more of my future articles need to embrace that. Thinking about that, I swapped out Mr. Dylan for the Flintstones singing, “We’ll have a gay old time.” Emphasis on gay and old. I’m working on titles for the series: “Thoughts From my Recliner,” or just, “Get Off My Lawn.” This is the right of all septuagenarians. We earned it.

The road ranger arrived at 8:30 pm, 7 1/2 hours after his first call. The times they have indeed changed. In the before times, there is no way a person could sit stranded by the road for 7 1/2 hours and not have a single person, or policeman, or tow truck stop to see if they could help. We don’t trust anyone. We fear everything. We have become numb to the needs of others.

See you from my porch soon. Dr. Tim Seelig is the Conductor Laureate of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus. http://www.timseelig.com/

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LGBTQ News & Calendar for the Bay Area CELEBRATING FOUR DECADES (1978–2024)

In contemporary ballet, where athleticism meets storytelling, few productions stand out as boldly as Michael Smuin’s Zorro! This captivating story ballet introduces audiences to the fantastical world of a beleaguered movie theater usher who longs to emulate the swashbuckling masked California folk hero. Fortunately for Bay Area audiences, Zorro! will return to the stage for the first time since 2006 in Smuin Contemporary Ballet’s upcoming program, Celebrating Michael Smuin, performing one week only (February 29–March 3, 2024) at the Blue Shield of California Theater at YBCA. On the bill with Zorro! will be Michael Smuin’s beloved Sinatra tribute Fly Me to the Moon, revived for its 20th anniversary.

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Swashbuckling Splendor: Michael Smuin’s Zorro! Ballet

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For its 30th anniversary, Smuin Contemporary Ballet celebrates Michael for his innovative approach to ballet, blending traditional technique with contemporary flair. With a career spanning decades and filled with accolades, he possessed a rare talent for crafting visually stunning narratives through movement.

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Celebrating Michael Smuin both commemorates the company’s 30th anniversary and honors its dynamic late founder. A consummate ballet choreographer, as well as a Tony Awardwinning Broadway dancemaker, Smuin was equally renowned for his incandescent, heartbreaking ballets, his magnetic storytelling, and his bold, athletic, audience-pleasing choreography that expanded the boundaries of traditional ballet.

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A brilliant showcase of his inimitable pizzazz, Zorro! emerged from Smuin’s imagination in 2003. Central to its success is its masterful choreography, which incorporates thrilling fight choreography by fencing master Richard Lane. Enhancing the drama of Zorro! is a captivating original score by Grammy, Emmy, and Golden Globe Award-winning composer Charles Fox. With its evocative melodies and driving rhythms, the music serves as a powerful backdrop to the ballet’s electrifying choreography and delightful narrative. (And when was the last time you saw dashing men in tights crossing swords on stage—not to mention equally irascible women joining in the melee?) This charmer was declared “Delicious. Irrepressible. Broadway meets ballet in the greatest terms,” by the San Francisco Chronicle, and a “sword fighting, whip cracking spectacular” by Talkin’ Broadway. Paired with Zorro! is Smuin’s joyful tribute to Ol’ Blue Eyes, Fly Me to the Moon. Performed against a twinkling backdrop of glowing stars, the ballet brings to life an array of warm and witty Sinatra favorites including “I’ve Got You Under My Skin,” the funny and charming “I Won’t Dance,” the brash and brassy “That’s Life,” and many more, culminating in a full chorus, high kicking “New York, New York” finale. Smuin Contemporary Ballet’s Celebrating Michael Smuin will perform February 29–March 3, 2024, at the Blue Shield of California Theater at YBCA (700 Howard Street, San Francisco). Tickets are available by calling 415-912-1899 or at https://www.smuinballet.org/ S AN F R ANC IS C O BAY T IM ES

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Oscar Viewing and Dishing Together

Off the Wahl Jan Wahl

It might not sound humble, but watching the Oscar telecast with me is incredibly fun. For my third year in a row, I will go up the red carpet—hopefully with you!— to the gorgeous Art Deco Orinda Theatre, enjoy the non-ending champagne with commemorative glass and gift bag, sit in plush seats, and watch the pre-show and show itself on a fabulous big screen. During the commercials, I will have the microphone asking: “What did you think of that dress?” “He said what?” “That was weird.” We will also have Oscar trivia for prizes and surprises for you to win. It will be a blast. Did I mention that there will be a full bar and food? VIP tickets are $100; regular tickets are $60. If you would like to join me, call the theatre at 925254-9060 or check for updates at https://www.orindamovies.com/ My colleague and friend Derek Zemrak of the Orinda Theatre also puts on terrific film festivals for the LBGTQ community, as well as holding a variety of fundraisers and featuring foreign films. For Black History Month, the theatre has an event spotlighting the late great Juanita Moore (not to be confused with the still very much thriving Juanita MORE!): http://tinyurl.com/2zfr4mbu Another colleague, Ruthe Stein, created the Mostly British Film Festival, which will this year take place February 15–22. Wonderful and innovative films from Englishspeaking countries worldwide will be unspooled at San Francisco’s Vogue Theatre, 3290 Sacramento Street. The Opening Night will include a showing of How to Have Sex, a film I’ve been curious about! For more information about the festival and to purchase tickets: https://mostlybritish.org/ Every year there’s at least one movie nominated many times for various film awards that has me scratching my head and saying, “What?!” This year that would be Poor Things, a tale of a young woman brought to life by an unorthodox scientist. As she embarks on whirlwind adventures, there are many surrealistic visuals that I enjoyed, but I found the movie itself to be derivative, pretentious, and exploitive. I am at a loss at how Emma Stone won a Golden Globe for her performance, given that her character seemed like a straight guy’s idea of heaven. Of course, we all know movies are subjective, so you might have loved it. 22

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I’ll instead root for American Fiction, Barbie, Air, Killers of the Flower Moon, Maestro, The Holdovers, The Zone of Interest, Oppenheimer, Nyad, Boys in the Boat, and Past Lives. In addition to the Orinda Theatre event, you can also catch me at The Academy SF on February 29, when I will be previewing the Oscars and will be interviewed by Frameline’s Director of Programming, Allegra Madsen. For more info and to register: http://tinyurl.com/4sd5925v Jan Wahl is a Hollywood historian and film critic on various broadcast outlets. She has two Emmys and many awards for her longtime work on behalf of film buffs and the LGBTQ community. Contact her at www.janwahl.com

Victor/Victoria Sing-Along Packs Castro Theatre for Final Program Before Closure for Renovation Photos by Andrew Rosas

Crowds braved one of the stormiest of San Francisco winter evenings on the night of February 4, 2024, for the final program held at the Castro Theatre before the 101-year-old landmark venue’s closure for an estimated 14–16 months to allow for renovation. The inclement weather, and bittersweet feelings about the closure, seemed to match the opening scenes of the film with penniless English soprano Victoria Grant ( Julie Andrews) shivering in the cold as she sings—breaking glass during an impressively high note—and struggles to survive. With help from her friend Carroll “Toddy” Todd (Robert Preston), she blossoms into “Victor/ Victoria” in a queer-centric story that reminded many in the theatre about the importance of friendship and community. That energy was palpable, as audience members filled the historic Spanish-Baroque theatre with cheers, laughter, hisses, and applause. Getting help from friends saved the event behind the scenes too, as the bad weather prevented at least two planned entertainers—film and stage star Lesley Ann Warren (“Norma Cassidy” in the movie) and drag artist Matthew Martin—from attending and participating due to canceled flights. San Francisco’s Inaugural Drag Laureate D’Arcy Drollinger stepped in for Martin, performing the show’s hit number “Le Jazz Hot” and also serving as host of the event. Katya Smirnoff-Skyy helped kick off the night by introducing legendary Castro Theatre Organist David Hegarty, who performed to rousing applause. Laurie Bushman and Toby Moore helped host the sing-alongs and looked dashing in red tailcoat jackets, as did the rest of the on-stage performers. Drag artist Snaxx was eye-catching in a pink dress—and then a skimpy bathing suit. She performed one of the songs that Warren did in sexy fashion in the film, “Chicago, Illinois.” As the curtain went down on the 1982 Blake Edwards’ comedy, members of the audience reminisced about the theatre. It is now managed by Another Planet Entertainment, which will renovate the theatre over the next year-plus. A post from the theatre on February 5, 2024, stated, “What an unforgettable last pre-renovation show last night at Victor/Victoria. Thank you to everyone who joined and made it so special. BRB! Getting a glow up. See you in 2025!” The post added that renovation updates will be shared via social media and at https://www.castrotheatre.com/ The San Francisco Bay Times will also continue to report on any updates about the Castro Theatre, which remains a landmark of the neighborhood and has served as a home away from home for many, and especially for the LGBTQ+ community.

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LGBTQ News & Calendar for the Bay Area CELEBRATING FOUR DECADES (1978–2024)

Queer Filmmaker Addresses Sexual Consent in Her Powerful New Feature Molly Manning Walker: I have had experience with sexual assault myself, and I felt there wasn’t really the conversation on screen that I had experienced. I wanted to open the conversation up in a different way that wasn’t super-violent and oversexualized.

Film Gary M. Kramer Out writer/director Molly Manning Walker won the Un Certain Regard Award at Cannes for her feature debut, How to Have Sex, which screens at the Mostly British Film Festival February 15 and opens February 16 at the Alamo New Mission 5 in San Francisco. The film has an almost documentary feel to it as Walker immerses viewers in the lives of three female friends who are on a summer holiday where they plan to drink, dance, and have sex. As they arrive at the hotel, Tara (Mia McKenna-Bruce) is hoping to lose her virginity, Skye (Lara Peake) is sizing up the possibilities, and the lesbian Em (Enva Lewis), is mostly practical. When Tara meets Badger (Shaun Thomas), who is staying in the room next door, she fancies him. Skye is keen on Badger’s “fit” friend, Paddy (Samuel Bottomley), while Em has her sights on the guys’ friend, Paige (Laura Ambler). As the characters drink, party, vomit, and pass out, Tara does lose her virginity in a fraught encounter of sexual assault.

Gary M. Kramer: The party setting is very deliberate. Can you talk about the holidays Tara and her friends take? Molly Manning Walker: In British culture especially, we go on these holidays to break free and experience stuff away from home. There is a lot of pressure on these holidays to have sex. The idea is you go to sleep with as many people as possible. This is kind of a crazy concept to me now as an adult, whereas as a teenager, it was sort of an unsaid rule that we all followed. I also wanted to make a cinematic film and talking about sexual assault in the U.K., or a domestic space, is harder to make fully immersive.

in, so as not to blame anyone, but more blame the way we are taught how to have sex. Gary M. Kramer: What decisions did you make in depicting the male characters? Molly Manning Walker: It was about asking people to engage with the conversation. Badger was always meant to be the male character that men see themselves in. He is kind of bumbly, and joyous, and you kind of want them to end up together. Paddy was very complicated. It was hard to navigate that role through the shoot and throughout the edit and not make him too aggressive— to understand where his motives

Gary M. Kramer: The camaraderie among the friends is at the heart of the film. Can you talk about I guess it’s not the best relationship on screen, but it was a navigation through the film about whose story to focus on, so we had to pare back the other stories, so viewers fully connect with Tara and track her emotions throughout the film, otherwise it gets quite messy. So, maybe there is a sequel based on Em. [Laughs] Gary M. Kramer: You deliberately avoided depicting nudity and the scenes of a sexual (and sexually violent) nature are discretely filmed. Can you discuss this decision?

Manning Walker deftly captures the wild parties and debauchery, leaving viewers with a contact hangover. McKenna-Bruce gives a knockout performance as Tara, who processes several painful emotional moments over the course of what should have been a good time. The filmmaker recently spoke with me for the San Francisco Bay Times about her remarkable coming-of-age film, How to Have Sex.

come from or where his lack of education and understanding of other humans comes from. It was a really intricate balance. Gary M. Kramer: I was a little disappointed that Em and Paige’s relationship was not more prominent. Can you talk about including the queer storyline, especially in this setting?

Gary M. Kramer: The film starts out as a freewheeling party, but gets more serious over time, packing an emotional wallop by the end. Can you talk about creating How to Have Sex? Molly Manning Walker: It was always this fine line of not making it too dark and basing it in a reality where everyone has this kind of gray area. There was lightness and fun, and not everyone was realizing what was happening to them. It was about trying to create the complications. Gary M. Kramer: The film is not about sex, but about sexual assault. It is about consent or lack thereof. It is sure to resonate strongly with female viewers who have experienced not dissimilar situations. What prompted you to tell this story and in this way? 24

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creating the female friendship dynamics? Molly Manning Walker: On reflection, there were a lot of friends who were almost lying and pushing us in situations, pretending that they were more experienced than they had been, and I think that is so destructive. I wanted to make a film that didn’t lock out the male point of view. We wanted to talk about how the pressure comes from all angles, from female friendship, to men, to even the environment that you are FE B RUA RY 8, 2 02 4

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Molly Manning Walker: When we did research for the film, originally, the Em and Paige storyline was a straight couple. What we realized was that, although the conversation on consent hadn’t moved on that much, the conversation around being queer had—especially in Gen Z, where there is an openness to it that I did feel when we were growing up, so I wanted to include the queer character to represent a better relationship, and one that goes a little bit smoother. But they are still awkward teenagers, and

Molly Manning Walker: There was this constant hope for sex, and no one knew what they were in for at that age. There is definitely no discussion around female pleasure. The idea was to make it kind of uncomfortable but also unseen. Gary M. Kramer: You have made a powerful cautionary tale. Do you think your film will change minds? Molly Manning Walker: What has been powerful in the response is when men especially react and say, “Oh, I’ve been in situations that make other people feel very uncomfortable, and I haven’t read the space right.” I think that’s quite a radical response to the film. That is what we could only have hoped for. It is not a cautionary tale on clubbing and partying because I think some of the best times in my life have been in those parties. Hopefully, we can create a space where people can party without having to worry about sexual assault. © 2024 Gary M. Kramer Gary M. Kramer is the author of “Independent Queer Cinema: Reviews and Interviews,” and the co-editor of “Directory of World Cinema: Argentina.” He teaches Short Attention Span Cinema at the Bryn Mawr Film Institute and is the moderator for Cinema Salon, a weekly film discussion group. Follow him on Twitter @garymkramer

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San Francisco Pride Theme for 2024 Announced Francisco Pride,” said Suzanne Ford, Executive Director of SF Pride. “As we prepare to welcome millions of participants from around the world, we invite everyone to join us in celebrating love, diversity, and the ongoing fight for justice. Together, we will light the way toward a more inclusive and equitable future.”

“Beacon of Love” is the theme for the 54th annual San Francisco LGBT Pride Parade and Celebration, June 29–30. More than 50 themes suggested from the community were considered. “We are proud to unveil ‘Beacon of Love’ as the theme for this year’s Pride celebration,” said Nguyen Pham, Board of Directors President. “In the face of adversity, San Francisco continues to shine as a beacon of hope and progress for the LGBTQ+ community and beyond. This theme reflects our commitment to love, acceptance, and the ongoing fight for equality.” Graphic designer Nicole Bloss created the 2024 SF Pride graphic with the pink triangle as the centerpiece presented atop Twin Peaks,

overlooking the city skyline and framed by the rainbow hues of the Progress Pride flag. The design pays tribute to San Francisco’s role as a sanctuary for LGBTQ+ individuals and a bastion of progress. “The ‘Beacon of Love’ theme encapsulates the spirit of San

“Beacon of Love” merchandise, featuring Bloss’ captivating design is now available from SF Pride: http://www.shop.sfpride.org For more about SF Pride and the “Beacon of Love” theme, visit https://sfpride.org/ Information about the Pink Triangle Project founded by Patrick Carney is at http://www.thepinktriangle.com

Lit Snax Dinner on Monster Island: How We Named the Stars Essays by Tania de Rozario by Andrés N. Ordorica These personal This lyrical, essays weave dreamy, and together the author’s compassionate experiences of grownovel follows ing up as a “fat, the transforqueer, brown girl mative first in Singapore” with romance of a astute horror film young, first criticism in order to generation explore the nature of monsters and Mexican American man. what it means to be different. https://www.fabulosabooks.com/

Nothing Ever Just Disappears: Seven Hidden Queer Histories by Diarmuid Hester Hester examines queer creatives including E.M. Forster, Josephine Baker, James Baldwin, and London’s suffragettes, among others. Most exciting for local readers will be his chapter on the late Kevin Killian and his literary community in San Francisco.

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John Lewis In Search of the Beloved Community (nonfiction - hardbound) by Raymond Arsenault In Search of the Beloved Community is the first fulllength biography of civil rights hero and congressman John Lewis. In it, Arsenault recounts Lewis’ lifetime of work toward one overarching goal: realizing the “beloved community,” an ideal society based in equity and inclusion. Lewis never wavered in this pursuit, and even in death his influence endures, inspiring mobilization and resistance in the fight for social justice. The New Life (fiction- paperback) by Tom Crewe In the summer of 1894, John Addington and Henry Ellis began writing a book arguing that homosexuality, which was a crime at the time, was a natural, harmless variation of human sexuality. Shortly before the book was to be published, Oscar Wilde was arrested. John and Henry must then decide whether to go on, risking social ostracism and imprisonment, or to give up the project for their own safety and the safety of the people they love. 26

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Greta & Valdin (fiction- hardbound) by Rebecca K. Reilly For fans of Schitt’s Creek and Sally Rooney’s Normal People, Greta & Valdin is an irresistible and bighearted international bestseller that follows a brother and sister as they navigate queerness, multiracial identity, and the dramas big and small of their entangled, unconventional family, all while flailing their way to love. Upcoming Events Tuesday, February 13 @ 5:30 pm (free - SF Ferry Building store) Bella DePaulo, author of Single at Heart Acclaimed social scientist Dr. Bella DePaulo, the leading expert on single life, will discuss her groundbreaking book, Single at Heart. In it, she comprehensively confirms that a powerful, healthy, happy life is possible not in spite of being single, but because of it. After her presentation, DePaulo will field questions from the audience. Saturday, February 17 @ 4 pm (ticketed online & in-person at the Corte Madera store) Alex Michaelides, author of The Fury The New York Times bestselling author of The Silent Patient, Alex Michaelides, will be in conversation with Luisa Smith, who is the Editor in Chief of Mystery Press. The two will discuss Michaelides’ (continued on page 36)

Hope, Healing, and Joy - San Francisco’s Singers of the Street Is Back! The country’s first choir for people who are homeless and those who support them is now seeking new members and performance opportunities. “Considering the devastating number of people who died on the street in San Dr. Kathleen McGuire Francisco in 2023, SOS is needed more than ever” said Founder, Dr Kathleen McGuire. Singers of the Street (SOS) originally started in September 2010, with McGuire (Conductor Laureate, San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus) (SFGMC) as its first director, with support from the Metropolitan Community Church of San Francisco. Over the years, SOS has had several conductors and supporting organizations, including the

City of Refuge United Church of Christ and SF Cares, among others. The choir was on hiatus during the COVID-19 pandemic, but has now found new life. Once again supported by SF Cares, Music Minister Ashley Wai’olu Moore— who had previous leadership involvement with SOS on several occasions—has taken the helm. A graduate of the Berkeley College of Music, Ashley also holds a Master of Divinity degree from the Pacific Lutheran Theological Seminary. Ashley is well-known in the Bay Area. She founded the

Transcendence Gospel Choir in 2001, and was a member of the Praise and Worship teams for the City of Refuge UCC, Congregational Church of San Mateo UCC, Metropolitan Community Church of San Francisco, New Revelation Church of Berkeley, and the Pacific School of Religion, before becoming Music Minister at the First Congregational Church of Oakland in 2012. Ashley served as music and program director for SOS from 2015 to 2016, and served as choir coordinator for the Oakland Interfaith Gospel Choir from 2020 to 2022. An accomplished audio engineer, singer, and multi-instrumentalist,

Ashley also produced many of the SFGMC’s albums from 2002 to 2010, and played lead guitar in the queer rock band Critical Bliss. SOS is a choir that provides an essential sense of “home” and “family” for members, while also helping to educate the community. “Singers have told me this is the only time in their week when someone knows their name or cares if they show up,” McGuire recollected. “I visited their rehearsal last week and was inspired. I urge everyone reading this to help spread the word, or better yet, book SOS for an event or join up and sing with them!” SOS meets each Wednesday at 11 am at St Paulus Lutheran Church, 2325 Polk Street, San Francisco. After rehearsal, a free meal is served. Singers of the Street 510-985-9966 sos.info.sf@gmail.com https://www.soschoir.org/

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Sister Dana Sez: Words of Wisdumb from a Fun Nun

By Sister Dana Van Iquity Sister Dana sez, “It’s time to celebrate BLACK HISTORY MONTH. Of course, Nikki Haley will not get it. Nor will Florida textbooks even mention ‘SLAVERY’!” BLACK HISTORY MONTH began this year on February 1, and ends March 1. Black History Month is an annual observance originating in the U.S., where it is also known as African-American History Month. It has received official recognition from governments in the U.S. and Canada, and more recently has been observed in Ireland and the U.K. The civil rights and Black Power movement advocated for an official shift from Black History Week to Black History Month. And in 1976, on the 50th anniversary of the beginning of Negro History Week, the ASSOCIATION FOR THE STUDY OF AFRICAN AMERICAN HISTORY made the shift to Black History Month. On February 2 in the War Memorial Veterans building, Mayor London Breed joined elected and city officials, HUMAN RIGHTS COMMISSION leadership, and supporters for the convening of BLACK 2 SAN FRANCISCO (B2SF), an initiative led by the Human Rights Commission to host Historically Black Colleges and University (HBCU) programming in San Francisco. Later that day, in the City Hall’s rotunda, Mayor Breed joined the AFRICAN AMERICAN HISTORICAL & CULTURAL SOCIETY, elected and city officials, and community members for the 2024 Black History Month kick-off celebration. Vice President Kamala Harris began her nationwide FIGHT FOR REPRODUCTIVE FREEDOMS tour on January 22 in Wisconsin with an impassioned defense of women’s right to choose an abortion. Part of her emotional speech drove right into the MAGA crowd: “The idea that someone who survived a crime that is violence to their body, and then would not have the authority to decide what happens to their body next, that’s immoral!” Next on her tour, prior to welcoming President Biden onto the stage in Virginia, she said, “And let us all agree that one does not have to abandon their faith or their deeply held beliefs to agree the government should not be telling her what to do with her body! If she chooses, she will consult her pastor, her priest, her rabbi, her imam— but not the government telling her what to do!”

The amazing Chita Rivera passed away on January 30 at the age of 91. We drama fags have lovingly witnessed all of her performances on stage and screen, with Chita acting and dancing up a storm. I will quote one of her truly meaningful bits of advice: “We should have two lives—one to try out and one you’re judged by. But we don’t. We have one life, and we have to live it as best we can.” Rest in peace and dance off to heaven, dearest Chita! Out skater Amber Glenn has won the U.S. Figure Skating title at the medals ceremony at Nationwide Arena on January 26 in Columbus, Ohio. She draped herself in the “Progress Pride Flag” as she posed with the gold medal. Glenn, who came out in 2019, identifies as bisexual and pansexual. She is the first queer woman ever to win the prestigious title. Sister Dana sez, “Congratulations, Amber, you make us and the U.S. so proud!” The House passed a $17 billion bipartisan tax bill that could help 16 million low-income children and restored some business tax breaks on January 31 by a huge vote of 357–70. The bill expands the child tax credit to most of the 19 million children in low-income households that make too little to receive the full credit. It could lift as many as half a million kids out of poverty, according to the CENTER ON BUDGET AND POLICY PRIORITIES. Sister Dana sez, “Now it’s the Senate GOP’s turn to NOT pass a bill, because they don’t want President Biden to look good. How revolting!” The current Congress has passed fewer bills than any other Congress in history. Of the more than 700 bills voted on, only 27 have passed and been signed into law. Sister Dana sez, “Hey Congress, are you just lazy or maybe quite constipated?!? You can’t pass anything!” In the Good News Department, an observation from Sarah Longwell, publisher of conservative website The Bulwark, says that among antiTrumpers like her, “there’s more of us” now than there were in 2020. MSNBC political pundit Jonathan Lemire adds to the good feels, saying: “There’s a whole swath of the Republican electorate and a good chunk of independents

who appear firmly committed to not voting for him in November if he becomes the nominee.” Sister Dana sez, “Chant along with me: No Trump! No Trump! Nooo Trump!!!” Nominations for the ninth SAN FRANCISCO POET LAUREATE are open. The Poet Laureate will develop and participate in community-based poetry programs that reflect and honor the diversity of San Francisco and will be a beacon of hope for the city. Nominations are open now through February 16. https://sfpl.org/ Elmo, the lovable, furry red puppet from Sesame Street, asked via social media: “Elmo is just checking in. How is everybody doing?” And in response, folx wrote back some heartbreaking, some depressive, and some just plain negative answers. I am heartened to say that my President Joe Biden wrote back: “I know how hard it is some days to sweep the clouds away and get to sunnier days.” He continued, “Our friend Elmo is right: We have to be there for each other, offer our help to a neighbor in need, and above all else, ask for help when we need it.” The President concluded, “Even though it’s hard, you’re never alone.” Sister Dana sez, “I am imagining at a totally fake-believe press conference with the Trump GOP campaign replying to Elmo: ‘Everything is fine because we have our own ORANGE puppet in charge.’” The monthly CASTRO ART WALK happened on February 2. Of all 16 galleries, I want to specially promote my favorites: 2358MKT (2368 Market Street); ART HOUSE SF (2324 B Market Street); and WELCOME CASTRO (525 Castro Street). Go visit them! GROUNDHOG DAY was February 2 in Gobbler’s Knob, Pennsylvania, when Punxsutawney Phil failed to see his shadow and “predicted” an early spring. This marks the first time since 2020 that Phil foretold an early spring, and the 21st time since records were kept. Sister Dana sez, “Did everyone celebrate GROUNDHOG DAY? Me neither. I don’t rely on a rodent’s prediction and prefer my local weatherman give me the weather news. Although I DO really enjoy the 1993 rom-com movie starring Bill Murray and Andie MacDowell!” LUNAR NEW YEAR is a celebration of the arrival of spring and the beginning of a new year on (continued on page 36)

Harris concluded, “And note while these extremists say they are motivated by the health and the wellbeing of the women and children of America, in reality, they ignore the crisis of maternal mortality! The top 10 states in our country with the highest rates of maternal mortality all have abortion bans. The hypocrisy abounds! So, this is, in fact, a healthcare crisis.” Sister Dana sez, “The Republican, so-called ‘Freedom Caucus’ is ironic—because it is 28

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far from the freedom of basic human rights.”

A POEM for Valentine’s Day 2024 Love New, Love Old, Love Remembered

Poet in Residence Kit Kennedy Kit Kennedy is the Poet-in-Residence of the “San Francisco Bay Times” and at herchurch Ebenezer Lutheran http://www.herchurch.org/ She has published 5 poetry collections, and for several years hosted the poetry series at Gallery Café. For more information, please visit her blog: http://poetrybites.blogspot.com

Love never goes out of season, out of fashion. Now and in memory everything and everyone is touched by the blush of love. But how do a magnolia bud, swan, and two otters weigh in about love? What’s more sensual than a magnolia bud unfurling, breaking through its furry cap? Harbinger of Spring and Spring the epitome of new life, new love. Go no further than the elegant and graceful swan, reflecting inner beauty, transformation, commitment. Commitment is love, aging well. Those two otters? Above all, otters are curious and isn’t love a curious state of affairs. Remember otters symbolize friendship, one of the most enduring, oldest forms of love. Indeed, love is sensual, serious, silly, occasionally recalled by a swan song. Can’t you just hear those two otters cracking oyster shells and chuckling, “Love? That’s simple, kick back, give a shout-out to supercalifragilisticexpialidocious.”

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Valentine’s Day - Plus Cooking With Chef Martin Yan

David Landis It’s time once again to celebrate love. In our LGBTQ+ community, isn’t that the message we preach every day? But on Valentine’s Day, it’s time to celebrate with that special someone. As I like to say, that might be a girlfriend, a boyfriend, or a theyfriend. The Gay Gourmet has a multitude of Valentine’s recommendations, so stay tuned for more on that later. First, I’d like to regale my loyal readers with an unrivaled experience in which I participated this past month. I was invited to take a cooking class with James Beard Award-winning TV chef Martin Yan at the Culinary Artistas cooking school in Ghirardelli Square. His big news? He’ll be reopening his restaurant in San Francisco, hopefully soon in Chinatown. I have to be honest. Leading up to the cooking session, I was a nervous wreck. Why? Because

Valentine’s Day So, where to go and what to do on Valentine’s Day? The Gay Gourmet has some ideas.

City Experiences’ Valentine’s Premier Dinner Cruise

From February 8–18, Eataly Silicon Valley’s La Pizza & La Pasta is preparing a heart-shaped Pizza Cupido (slow cooked cherry tomato,

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mozzarella di bufala DOP, burrata, fresh basil, and extra virgin olive oil). A special Lettera D’Amore dessert will be available at both La Pizza & La Pasta and Eataly’s rooftop restaurant and lounge, Terra, from February 10–14. This flourless chocolate cake will have a customizable edible “letter” for your Valentine, along with semisweet chocolate mousse, apricot gelee, chantilly cream rice biscuit, and chocolate glaze. The folks at SPIN SF, SOMA’s ping pong social club/restaurant, tell me, “To ensure that sparks fly, SPIN SF is hosting Love Pong on Saturday, February 10, from 8 pm– close. [The event features] a ping pong show, heart-fluttering tarot card readings, heart-shaped pizzas, cocktails that sip like love potions, live tunes, and red mood lighting to set the electric atmosphere ... . Additionally, from Friday, February 9, to Saturday, February 17, SPIN SF will offer love-laced party packages, specialty cocktails, and themed bites for groups and dates to celebrate Valentine’s Day on their own schedule.” How about some crafty Valentine’s drinks to put you in the mood? Try Dirty Habit’s “Dirty Affair”

cocktail, and PLS on Post’s “Why Can’t This Be Love?” decadent, over-the-top milkshake. The Dirty Affair is a smoked Old Fashioned crafted with Dirty Habit’s exclusive Savage and Cooke Burning Chair bourbon, with a touch of ginger syrup, tobacco bitters, and smoked with barrel-aged wood chips. Lead Bartender Steven Marshall says, “With a unique blend of bourbon, spices, and smoke, the Dirty Affair is pure seductive temptation.” PLS on Post’s decadent, over-the-top Valentine milkshake Why Can’t

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This Be Love? is a strawberry, chocolate brownie shake with French macarons, cream puff, rolled cookies, chocolate sauce, and Valentine sprinkles topped with a cherry. It is available throughout the month of February. At Mattina, Chef Matthew Accarrino’s casual Italian bistro on Bush Street, walk-ins are welcome on Valentine’s Day. Instead of those over-priced, extensive, fixed price tasting menus, he’s serving lasagna, brasato, filetto, fritelle, crespelle, and pie, all à la carte. Tired of going to the same restaurant every year for Valentine’s Day? For those looking to shake things up and try something new this year,

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The Gay Gourmet is great at making reservations, but a lousy cook. The class helmed by Chef Yan celebrated the Year of the Dragon in an innovative partnership with the American Pistachio Growers. You might ask, what do pistachios have to do with Chinese cooking? Well, as it turns out, a lot. Chef Yan promulgated the health benefits of pistachios to us. They have more antioxidants, and they’re a complete plant protein as well. Chef then showed us how to cook and decorate with them to make a traditional Chinese meal, including his signature Firecracker Kung Bao Chicken and Five-Flavored Long-Life Noodles. First, he cut an entire chicken in an astounding 50 seconds. (Editor’s Note: Watch for video of this soon at the San Francisco Bay Times website!) Further intimidation ensued. Then he demonstrated how to julienne vegetables, so they’re paper thin. Worrying that I’d be commandeered for that task, I decided to volunteer for the one role I could master: namely, noodle chef. I’m quite pleased to say that even Chef Yan thought I cooked the noodles to perfection. (Did you know that in Chinese cooking, unlike Italian cooking, you want to cook the noodles all the way through instead of al dente?). Sadly, I had to leave before enjoying our meal. Luckily, Chef Yan was kind enough to give me an advance copy of his new book, Best of Yan Can Cook, which is now available pre-order to the public directly from the Chef’s own website.

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City Experiences’ Valentine’s Premier Dinner Cruise

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The Story of Ramen, located in the heart of the Mission, is a cooking experience that teaches you how to make noodles from scratch, and artfully assemble the perfect bowl of ramen. At the end of the class, you get to enjoy your homemade ramen. This is perfect for the couple who loves to cook, or is always looking for an interactive, hands-on experience to bring them closer together. The class is two hours and costs $70 per person. What could be more romantic than a city escape under the stars? City Experiences is offering a Valentine’s Premier Dinner Cruise. This evening on the water includes dancing, delicious cocktails, chef-designed menus, and San Francisco’s most stunning views. The three-hour excursion starts at $160 per person. This is perfect for the couple who is looking for an elegant and romantic evening away from the city, or for the San Francisco natives who’ve never cruised around the bay. For locals looking for an intimate, yet elevated, setting for a romantic evening of indulgence and luxury, why not cross the bridge? You can have a complete date night with a stroll down the Tiburon waterfront, and dinner at The Caviar Company Champagne and Caviar Lounge. Executive Chef Sharon Li has crafted a menu that highlights five distinct caviars that will take dates on an unforgettable culinary journey. To impress loved ones, guests can also elevate their dining experience with champagne pairings curated from special club grower producers, exclusive houses, and sought-after vintages. Graton Resort & Casino has a great Valentine’s Day cocktail, courtesy of Jessica Christensen, mixologist for Graton’s lounges and bars (Sky Lounge, G Bar, Lobby Bar, Pool Bar, 8 Bar and 630 Park Bar). You can make it yourself, or even better, go visit the casino in person. The Lovers Lane cocktail consists of Charbay vodka (3/4 oz),

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Mozart chocolate liqueur (3/4 oz), Chambord (1/4 oz), heavy cream (3/4 oz), and 4–5 fresh raspberries. In a shaker tin, add your raspberries, and mudLovers Lane Cocktail from Graton Resort & Casino dle. Then add all other ingreChef Martin Yan: dients, ice, and shake. Strain into https://yancancook.com/home/ a chilled coupe glass, and garnish with dried rose petals. Then, don’t forget to kiss your partner!

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Culinary-first brand Appellation (co-founded by Healdsburg locals Chef Charlie Palmer and former Four Seasons President Christopher Hunsberger) just announced its winter/spring 2024 calendar of Crafted at Appellation classes for Sonoma County locals and visitors to experience. Valentine’s Cookie Decorating takes place February 10, 2024. Set inside the stunning Vintner’s Room at Bacchus Landing, this class offers a unique blend of culinary art, and social enjoyment. Amy Hunsberger, renowned for her skillful and artistic approach to baking, will guide you through the fun, as well as the intricate process of decorating Valentine-themed cookies. From elegant icing techniques to whimsical designs, you will learn how to transform simple cookies into edible art.

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You can indulge the Mediterranean way at Estiatorio Ornos this Valentine’s Day. The MINA Group restaurant invites guests to go on a culinary journey through the Greek Isles with a tasting menu featuring dishes like ahi tuna crudo, spicy lamb hummus, seafood manta, and a choice of spiced quail, pink snapper plaki, or surf & turf featuring rib eye and carabineros shrimp. Dessert honors the Greek God of Love with the “Heart of Eros,” featuring white chocolate, passionfruit, and gold leaf. The fixed price is $149 per person, with an additional $95 wine pairing.

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AsiaSF to Close on the 2024 International Transgender Day of Visibility, March 31

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Ending a storied career with style, grace, award-winning cuisine, and legendary internationally-acclaimed entertainment, AsiaSF—the San Francisco dinner theatre and cabaret featuring the world-famous transgender Ladies of AsiaSF—has announced that it is closing. The last dinner show will be Sunday, March 31, which is the 2024 International Transgender Day of Visibility. “It’s been an extraordinary run and an incredible privilege to work with our transgender Ladies of AsiaSF,” said Larry Hashbarger, CEO and a Founder of AsiaSF, who cited a changing nighttime environment post COVID-19 with the venue’s subsequent financial challenges as the reason for the closure. “We look forward to a lively last few weeks in which we continue to entertain, educate, and enliven. The legacy of AsiaSF will live on, having led the way in entertainment which celebrates everyone being their authentic selves.”

cabaret, and nightclub quickly became an iconic entertainment landmark that gained worldwide attention.

Kreations of Los Angeles. Mendez has designed for Beyoncé, Kendall Jenner, Megan Thee Stallion, and other well-known individuals.

“AsiaSF has been a visionary pioneer in supporting the transgender community through empowerment by creating a safe space and unique employment opportunities that showcased our beautiful transgender stars, the Ladies of AsiaSF, said AsiaSF President/COO, Aaron Nelson. “For almost 26 years, The Ladies of AsiaSF, our star performers, have made audiences laugh, blush, and say, ‘Wow!’”

Voted “One of the Top 100 Hottest Restaurants in America” and “Best Ambiance” by OpenTable, AsiaSF has hosted over one million patrons since it opened its doors in 1998. COVID-19 and the need for a seismic building retrofit created challenging conditions. Additionally, the pandemic changed the dining landscape.

Under the direction of show director and choreographer Ronnie Reddick, guests have delighted in choreographed dance routines, lip sync numbers with beautiful costumes, and state-of-the-art sound and lights, which electrify AsiaSF’s dramatic runway stage. “This sisterhood of diverse performers has mastered the art of celebrating,” said Young. “By being their own authentic, welcoming selves, the Ladies of AsiaSF have always provided a warm, welcoming atmosphere that has made AsiaSF ‘Celebration Central’ for the Bay Area.”

While the AsiaSF signature brickand-mortar business at 201 9th Street in San Francisco’s South of Market District will close, the intellectual property of AsiaSF will continue. “It’s very possible that pop-up editions of AsiaSF might come forth,” said Hashbarger. “This is very much a transition, and the end of an era. However, hopefully, it is the beginning of new opportunities for our vision and the Ladies of AsiaSF.”

With Vegas commercial style choreography by Reddick and award-winning Cal-Asian cuisine, AsiaSF is a unique, interactive cabaret and dinner entertainment experience. From the moment one enters, the internationally acclaimed Ladies of AsiaSF entertain and enlighten you, complete with stand-out-performances featuring original creations by Julian Mendez Couture and Prime

AsiaSF was founded by Hashbarger and Skip Young in 1998 as a small business celebrating diversity and multiculturalism. The restaurant,

“AsiaSF is a complete entertainment, food, and cocktail experience,” says Hashbarger, the Creator/Producer of Passport—America’s premier fashion show and HIV/AIDS fundraiser—during his three and a half decades as Director of Special Productions for Macy’s. “Our beautiful and talented transgender cast bring our guests into their world from the first second they enter the space. They serve drinks. They serve food. They AsiaSF entertainers and staff surrounded co-owner Larry Hashbarger holding a proclamation from Mayor London Breed on the venue’s 20th Anniversary. (2018) dish up a song and dance experience that will have you applauding ‘til your hands are sore. They literally create a transformative experience. I couldn’t be prouder of these inspiring women.” Hashbarger said, “One of our missions of AsiaSF has always been to create a trans-positive environment that educates and raises awareness about living your truth and being your authentic self, while at the same time providing our guests with a ‘time of your life’ experience.” All prices are inclusive of dinner and the shows, with cocktails priced separately. For individual reservations, groups, and special events, call 415- 255-2742 or go to https://asiasf.com/

Mayor Ed Lee with the AsiaSF team during a party held in the mayor’s honor (2017)

Elected officials Scott Wiener, Evan Low, and Mark Leno with Larry Hashbarger at the AsiaSF 20th Anniversary Party (2018)

Owners Skip Young and Larry Hashbarger received a proclamation from Mayor Ed Lee at a party held in the mayor’s honor. (2017)

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Asia SF entertainers Bionka, Miss Gay Universe, and Nya at a benefit for San Francisco Pride (2016)

AsiaSF’s Aaron Nelson (left) with representatives of the San Francisco Transgender District at Divas & Drinks at The Academy (2023)

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Larry Hashbarger (second from left) with the AsiaSF team at a rally in Dolores Park held in conjunction with the annual Trans March (2019)

Golden Gate Business Association (GGBA) President Dawn Ackerman welcomed AsiaSF’s Larry Hashbarger to the GGBA VIP Reception held at San Francisco City Hall (2018)

Larry Hashbanger and entertainer Nya at the GGBA Power Lunch (2018)

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This Month at the Farmers’ Market

Celebrate the Foods of the Lunar New Year By Debra Morris

It’s the Year of the Dragon! On February 10, 2024, the Chinese New Year begins and is celebrated for 14 days. It’s a time to welcome longevity, wealth, and prosperity and to eliminate any negative “chi” or energy. Make a trip to the farmers’ market to pick up the ingredients that dispel the negative and turn 2024 into positive energy. Food traditions are important to the overall festivities of the Lunar New Year. It’s customary to eat jioazi (a type of Chinese dumpling) at midnight as a symbol of wealth and prosperity in the New Year. The seventh day of the festivities is reserved especially for farmers and is also considered the birthday of mankind. People generally eat noodles on this day to ensure a long life. Tangerines and oranges are a big part of the celebration and represent happiness and abundance. These are displayed in the home and given as hostess gifts. Giving tangerines, whose stems and leaves are intact, represents lasting friendship. Giving a whole tree in a pot to display at your front door is even better! Candied fruit is displayed in homes as a “Tray of Togetherness” and promises a sweet New Year. After enjoying several pieces of candy, the adults place red envelopes called lai see in the center of the tray. The lai see contain money and signify luck. Each of the candied fruits has meaning. For example, kumquats are for prosperity. Other traditional New Year foods include: (continued on page 36)

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4 large oranges, 3 grapefruit, 6 lemons or limes, halved through stem ends 3 cups sugar, divided 8 to 10 tablespoons lemon juice Tear out flesh from orange halves, careful not to create holes in peels. It’s okay if you can’t remove all of the pith. Save flesh for another use; cut peels into 1/4-inch strips. Bring orange peels and 4 cups water to a boil in a large saucepan and cook 5 minutes. Drain and return peels to pan. Repeat process twice more, using fresh water each time. Return peels to pan; add 2 cups sugar and 2 cups water. Bring to a boil and cook until peels are soft, translucent, and vibrant looking, 30–40 minutes (about 10 minutes longer for grapefruit, or 10 minutes less for lemons or limes). Drain and transfer peels to a wire rack set inside a rimmed baking sheet; chill until cool, about 15 minutes. Whisk lemon juice and remaining 1 cup sugar in a medium bowl. Add peels; toss to coat. Return to rack; let sit at room temperature 1 hour. Toss peels again in sugar mixture. Return to rack; let sit 4–12 hours to dry out.

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millions and millions of people, I headed out of town, out of state, and out of the country. I turned into an insatiable force, hungry to devour brand new experiences as often and as much as I could. With so many places to choose from, I thought I would share with you some historic, utopian, fun, adventurous, unique, and even scary destinations (in Part Two). Cartagena, Colombia

2023 was an exciting traveling year for me. The pandemic finally ended so it was time to breathe some fresh air, see and hear new sights and sounds, and smell lots of roses! Like

Although modern Cartegena is known for beautiful beaches, exhilarating nightlife, and an abundance of shopping, we opted to immerse ourselves in the history and culture of old Cartegena and toured the San Felipe de Barajas Fort and the “old walled city.”

John Chen’s selfie with Ted Maylath at Nim Li Punit, Belize

The San Felipe de Barajas Fort, originally a castle, is perched on the highest grounds with a commanding view of the trade-rich Spanish colony, the Walled City of Cartagena. The fort was the most formidable among a network of fortresses defending

Today, the Old Walled City is a major tourist attraction. Old Cartagena retains the beauty, character, and charm of a historic Spanish colony frozen in time with scores of cathedrals, churches, museums, and colonial architecture lining every street and alley.

Although we made a pitstop at one of the many gorgeous resort

Nim Li Punit Mayan Ruins, Belize

(above and below) Colonial architecture of Old Walled City, Cartagena

islands, Harvest Caye, our main destination in Belize was Nim Li Punit Mayan Ruins. Nim Li Punit, or Big Hat, is named after the large elaborate head pieces the ancient Mayan kings wore. These head pieces were carved on large stone slabs called stela. The Mayans inhabited the area called the Mayan Mountains of Belize. The on-site museum documented that the Mayans migrated to the area approximately 2,000 years ago and flourished until sometime in 1200 Common Era or A.D. Their disappearance is still somewhat of a mystery, but the most popular theory is overcrowding. The number of

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The “Old Walled City” was an extremely wealthy colony and the pride of the Spanish empire Cathedrals and churches in Old Walled City, Cartagena in South America. Interestingly enough, Cartagena gained its original riches and notoriety from discovering treasures buried in tombs of the Zenú Tribe (also known as the Sinú). In the 1700s, Cartagena became the hub of slave trade that led to further economic prosperity. For all its wealth, Spain realized Cartagena required extra fortification, defense, and protection. After every attack and battle, the city constructed higher, thicker, and stronger walls, making it nearly impenetrable.

Belize is a country known for its stunning beaches, pristine rain forests and jungles, wildlife, and the second largest barrier reef in the world: the Mesoamerican Barrier Reef System. A former British colony, Belize has as its national language English, and is by far the least populous country in Central America at less than half a million.

Harvest Caye, Belize

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Cartagena against pirates and invaders from the 15th to the 19th centuries. Although suffering several major damages over the years, the fort remains. Along with the Walled City, it was refurbished and revitalized after UNESCO recognized both as World Heritage Sites in 1984.

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My Manic Travels in Review, Part One

By John Chen

Mayan people greatly exceeded their farming capabilities. Panama Our tour guide in Panama halfheartedly joked, “If it wasn’t for the canal, no one would know about or visit Panama.” The Panama Canal and its locks are the most important

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monkeys, exotic birds, and coati, a Central American “racoon” in the surrounding rainforest. George Town, Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands Like most Caribbean Islands, Grand Cayman has stunning beaches, exhilarating water sports, diverse wild sea life, and excellent hospitality. What I didn’t know was that George Town, capital of the Cayman Islands, has a lively nightlife and is dubbed the major financial banking hub for truly economic elites around the world. Additionally, the Cayman Islands are also known for their wild sea life conservation efforts and strange landscape. While visiting George Town, we toured the nearby Cayman Turtle Centre, a giant green sea turtle conservation, advocacy, and education park. According to the centre, at one point there were over two million sea turtles living, breeding, and nesting on and around the Cayman Islands. The green sea turtles have always been an important part of the local ecology, culture, and economy, becoming the national symbol of the people. However, by the early 1900s, the green turtles were hunted to near extinction, prompting the government to begin conservation and protection efforts. At the centre, we were excited to be given the opportunity to interact—see, touch, and swim— with these gentle giants.

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Another noteworthy, but completely unexpected, attraction near George Town is Hell. The Cayman Islands tourism proudly introduces this unique, but small (only half of a football field in size) topography as “From the Depth of Hell. In the Cayman Islands, tourists can go to Hell. This uniquely named attraction ... is well known for a small patch of black limestone formations that can be seen poking out from its lush surroundings.” At Hell, we purchased Hell postcards and sent them immediately to friends and family from the on-site Hell Post Office. in valuable time and money savings. In 2016, much larger new locks at Gatun East (Atlantic Ocean side) and Miraflores West (Pacific Ocean side) were completed to allow the largest modern cargo and cruise ships to pass through the canal. We were fortunate enough to watch a giant cargo ship go through the Gatun East new locks at the Agua Clara Locks Visitor Center.

While in Panama, we also took the opportunity to visit John Chen and Ted Maylath at the Old Walled City in Cartagena, Fort San Lorenzo, Colombia a UNESCO World economic driver of the local economy Heritage Site as well as a major player in world approximately eight miles from the mercantile trade and are touted as Colón, Panama. Built at the end of one of the Seven Modern Wonders the 1500s, the fort was designed to of the World. Completed in 1914, protect the main waterway entrance the canal connects the Atlantic and and exit to the Americas with limthe Pacific Oceans through Gatun ited effectiveness. Apparently, the Lake in Panama. And the canal locks fort was under constant attack from enable merchant and cargo ships to pirates and is now a ruins site. Our pass through varying elevations of short journey to the fort included land, saving thousands of nautical stops along the roadside to observe all types of wildlife, such as howler miles translating into quantum leaps

East Gatun New Locks, Panama Canal

San Lorenzo Ford, Panama

Hell, Grand Cayman

Look for Part Two in the next issue of the San Francisco Bay Times when we leave Hell and visit Yankee Stadium, Hershey’s Chocolate World, Amish Country, and more! John Chen, a UCLA alumnus and an avid sports fan, has competed as well as coached tennis, volleyball, softball, and football teams.

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BOOK PASSAGE (continued from pg 26) new book, The Fury, which is a masterfully paced thriller about a reclusive ex–movie star and her famous friends whose spontaneous trip to a private Greek island is upended by a murder.

On Friday, February 2, 2024, rainsoaked streets and umbrellas were seen in images from San Francisco’s Cvic Center, contributed by Juan R. Davila, and from the Castro, via Castro Street Cam #1’s view toward the Castro & Market intersection.

Sunday, February 18 @ 2 pm (free - SF Ferry Building store) Dr. Akilah Cadet, author of The White Supremacy Is All Around White Supremacy Is All Around addresses the ongoing racial reckoning in the U.S. that has left readers searching for

voices they can trust. BIPOC, disabled people, and other intentionally ignored Americans want to feel heard and empowered; organization leaders and allies invested in dismantling white supremacy want a framework for how best to contribute. For the presentation, Founder and CEO of consulting firm Change Cadet, Dr. Akilah Cadet, will share her powerful, incisive look at where we are in the fight to dismantle white supremacy. https://www.bookpassage.com/

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SISTER DANA (continued from pg 28) the luni-solar calendar. It is the most important holiday in China, and it is also widely celebrated in South Korea, Vietnam, and countries with a significant overseas Chinese population. In 2024, Lunar New Year here starts February 10, and ends February 24. The number of days of celebration varies depending on the country. Those celebrating consider it the time of the year to reunite with immediate and extended family. It is a fifteen-day celebration, with the fifteenth day of the holiday celebrating the LANTERN FESTIVAL.

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Sister Dana sez, “So in this ‘Year of the Dragon’: Slay, queens!” On February 3, Mayor London Breed gathered city officials, Chinatown community members, and local merchants for the Chinese New Year Mini Parade and Flower Market Fair. The festive parade began at Chinatown Rose Pak Station, Upper Plaza, 943 Stockton Street, and ended at Pacific Avenue and Kearny Street. Welcome the “Year of the Dragon” with the SAN FRANCISCO SYMPHONY! Their annual Lunar New Year event draws upon Asian traditions, past and present, in a celebration of music and community. February 17, 5 pm, Davies Symphony Hall. https://www.sfsymphony.org/

While Sister Dana is loath to write sports news, he will take exception for Taylor Swift. The Kansas City Chiefs won the AFC Championship against the Baltimore Ravens, meaning they will be facing off against our San Francisco 49ers in SUPER BOWL LVIII in Las Vegas on February 11. It also means that superstar Chiefs Tight End (heeheehee) Travis Kelce and his gorgeous girlfriend Taylor will keep dominating the news. This has FOX-TV faux news et al. in an uproar, calling Swift some sort of deep state witch casting spells for the Democrats—or even more MAGA maniacally made Swiftian conspiracies. But it is such a comfort to recall that last year, Taylor singlehandedly inspired over 35,000 new voters to get registered! Sister Dana sez, “Dearest Taylor, please endorse our President Biden to your ‘Swifties’ and everyone. This nun will so be a ‘Sister Swiftie’ for you!” On February 5, SAN FRANCISCO PRIDE was proud to announce BEACON OF LOVE as the theme for the 54th Annual San Francisco LGBTQ Pride Parade and Celebration. In a crucial election year when LGBTQ rights are under assault across the country, San Francisco Pride wanted a theme that expressed the undiminished spirit of our great city as a global leader in

the fight for LGBTQ liberation and fundamental human rights. Sister Dana sez, “EssEff is a beacon of love—shining our bright light everywhere!” SQREAM, a ‘90s drag musical scary parody, returns to Oasis for Valentine’s Day and beyond! From the clever production team that brings you the immersive The Rocky Horror Show experience comes SQREAM, a drag horror “Scream” parody set to all your favorite hit songs of the 1990s. It’s a queer whodunit with the mandatory frightening Ghost-face masked murderer. Go scream along! February 14 to March 23, 298 11th Street. https://www.sfoasis.com/ VALENTINE’S DAY is February 14. Who is this Saint Valentine anyway? Apparently, Emperor Claudius II of Rome executed two different men named Valentine on February 14 (in two different years) during the third century. One account of St. Valentine says that he was a priest who was arrested for defying a Roman decree that forbade soldiers from marrying. Both Valentines were martyred—one was brutally beheaded. Sister Dana sez, “So this year, don’t lose your HEAD over trying to find the perfect Valentine’s gift. Martyrdom is no longer chic!”

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• Won Ton Soup; • Song Gao, a cake that is made from rice that is ground loosely; • Jiu Niang Tang, sweet wine-rice soup that contains small rice balls; • mustard greens, often eaten on one of the last days of the celebration to cleanse the body;

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• long noodles, to ensure a long life;

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• and chicken, pork, and spring rolls are also important. It’s not just food that is significant during the Lunar New Year. Flowers play a meaningful role as well. Plum tree buds are bought the day before the New Year and are hoped to blossom on New Year’s Day. Chrysanthemums symbolize longevity, narcissus represents prosperity, and sunflowers mean “have a good year.”

Bringing together family and friends on the New Year is also an important aspect of celebration. They help to clear out the bad energy and bring in the good. So, gather everyone around you and celebrate good luck and prosperity this year with lucky foods from the farmers’ market. At the Divisadero Farmers’ Market, beautiful citrus can be found at Allard Farms from Westley. The Castro Farmers’ Market is closed for the season and is scheduled to reopen on April 3, 2024. In the meantime, please visit the Divisadero Farmers’ Market at 1377 Fell Street or the Inner Sunset Farmers’ Market at 1315 8th Street. Both are in San Francisco on Sundays year-round from 9 am–1 pm. For information about additional local farmers’ markets, as well as on recipes and more, visit the Pacific Coast Farmers’ Market Association website: https://www.pcfma.org/ Debra Morris is a spokesperson for the Pacific Coast Farmers’ Market Association.

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• Eight Treasures Rice, which is a mixture of rice, fruits, and nuts;

Fitness SF Trainer Tip “To perform a plank, start by assuming a push-up position with your arms straight and shoulders directly above your wrists. Engage your core, keeping your body in a straight line from head to heels, and hold the position for as long as you can while maintaining proper form. Planking helps strengthen your core muscles, improves posture, and enhances overall stability, making it an effective and accessible exercise for building a strong foundation of fitness.” — Warwick Bentley with Castro Fitness SF

Aaron Zamarron, Customer Service Manager for Fitness SF, provides monthly tips that he has learned from colleagues, professional trainers, and more. For additional information: https://fitnesssf.com/

Take Me Home with You! “May the force be strong within you to resist the charm of our Yoda, who is a clever and wise beyond his years type who is looking for a home! He may be small, but Yoda is ready to conquer any adventure with his trusty people at his side, but what he loves more than adventures in the galaxy is snuggling. Not all dogs want to explore the whole galaxy once they find their safe harbor and that is how Yoda may like it. Yoda is hoping to be the only dog in your home, and is working at learning that other dogs can walk by Yoda without him having to say something. During his time at the shelter, we have been successful teaching (and learning from!) Yoda about what his comfort level is and working to expand it each day through slow interactions filled with lots of treats and love. Having a safe space is important for any dog and especially so for Yoda. Set aside an area just for him when you have company over so that he doesn’t have to meet everyone and can choose to share his wisdom with only you! Are you ready, young Padawan, for an adventure through the galaxies? Come on in to meet Yoda today!” To meet Yoda in person, visit the SF SPCA Mission Campus @ 201 Alabama Street. Visitors are welcome from 11 am–6 pm (Wednesday–Sunday) and 1 pm–6 pm on Tuesdays. The SF SPCA is closed on Mondays. For more information: https://www.sfspca.org/adoptions/

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Here are two of the many pets now available for adoption at Oakland Animal Services (OAS): Butterscotch Curious and adorable bunny Butterscotch is our longest-term bunny resident at Oakland Animal Services and we aren’t sure why! She’s adventurous and sweet once she feels comfortable, and loves to climb into laps for some good snuggles. This loving girl is looking for a home to call her own.

Zac

Zac Zac is an adorable 50-pound bundle of joy with a heart as big as his love for treats! Zac is a social butterfly, enjoying the company of both humans and doggie friends alike. This playful adventurer is ready to go home with you! The OAS adoption process focuses on matching you with a pet who is a good fit for you and your family. Come by during open adoption hours Thursdays 12–7 pm and Fridays/Saturdays/Sundays 12–3 pm to adopt your new best friend, or to learn more about the OAS adoption process. Please see the OAS website to learn more about how you can help by adopting, fostering, volunteering, and donating: www.oaklandanimalservices.org S AN F R ANC IS C O BAY T IM ES

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On Friday, January 26, 2024, Congresswoman Nancy Pelosi joined Mayor London Breed, State Senator Scott Wiener, and Port of San Francisco leaders at the Ferry Building, Gate G, to announce the results of the San Francisco Waterfront Study by the U.S. Corps of Engineers. The draft plan calls for new flood defenses along the 7.5 miles of waterfront in preparation for expected additional sea level rise. In making the announcement, former House Speaker Pelosi said, “In some ways, we’re planting a tree future generations will enjoy. But we owe it to them to make sure we do it right.”

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For more information, see this ENRCalifornia report: http://tinyurl.com/4m2unhrr

As Heard on the Street . . . What San Francisco restaurant do you recommend for a special Valentine’s Day dinner?

Troth Irwin “Café Mystique”

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Chris Eden “Poesia”

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Melissa Cherry

“Hi Tops sports bar for some of the best hamburgers and sandwiches in the Castro”

Mindy Oppenheim “Chotto Matte”

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Kim Drake “um.ma sf”

Round About - Season of Love Photos by Rink

As one of our favorite days approaches, San Francisco Bay Times photographer Rink has Valentine’s Day on his mind as evidenced by the collection of images from his latest walking tour of locations in the Castro, on Polk Street, and beyond. Our team wishes you and yours a happy and safe Valentine’s Day. Please watch for Rink and say hello as he continues his decades of walks and visits all over town.

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Cozy up by the “fire” with the Konwin Stove Heater! This 20-inch heater has two thermostat-controlled infrared heat settings and a log flame effect. The flame is dimmable and independently controlled so you can add a warm glow to your home whether the heat setting is on or off. $149.99

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Who says practical cannot be beautiful? Cliff’s now has this colorful, sustainable 18”x30” Rainbow Coconut Fiber Door Mat and many other door mats available. $69.99

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Since our founding in 1936, Cliff’s Variety has been constantly growing and evolving in response to the needs of our customers. Our buyers strive to keep our selection fresh, on-trend, and competitive. We carry the best of everything from hardware & tools to cookware, garden supplies, toys, crafts, and gifts.

Cliff’s Variety

We also offer re-keying and lock repair, knife sharpening, glass, acrylic & wood cutting. Light fabrication, pipe threading, and cable crimping are among the many other services we offer at Cliff’s Variety. If your project has gone a little beyond your abilities, we’re here to help. https://cliffsvariety.com/

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