San Francisco Bay Times - August 10, 2023

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LGBTQ News & Calendar for the Bay Area CELEBRATING FOUR DECADES (1978–2023)

August 10–23, 2023 http://sfbaytimes.com

Transgender History Month

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Amelio Robles Ávila Willmer Broadnax Teresita La Campesina Felicia Elizondo Christine Jorgensen Lou Sullivan Pao Crego Cecilia Chung Sean Dorsey Suzanne Ford Honey Mahogany
& Building on the
Aria Sa’id
Honoring
Legacy

Transgender History Month

About Our Cover

The San Francisco Bay Times commemorates Transgender History Month with a cover highlighting both past and present individuals who have made a positive difference in the trans and LGBTQ+ communities.

Amelio Robles Ávila: Born in Mexico and assigned female at birth, Ávila fought in the Mexican Revolution and rose to the rank of colonel. For his bravery and leadership, he received numerous awards, including from the Mexican Legion of Honor.

Photo: www.infobae.com

Willmer Broadnax: A highly regarded singer during the golden age of traditional Black gospel music, Willmer “Little Ax” Broadnax had a voice that music critic Ray Funk described as “sweet but almost vicious, dripping with emotion.”

Photo: www.transguys.com

Teresita La Campesina: Music trailblazer La Campesina was a ranchera singer who helped forge the queer Latinx Mission community.

Photo: www.spectrumsouth.com

Felicia Elizondo: LGBTQ+ activist Felicia “Flames” Elizondo was a regular at Gene Compton’s Cafeteria and later carried a torch for all who fought in the 1966 riot at Compton’s. As a longtime HIV/AIDS survivor, she also became a fundraiser for HIV nonprofits and friends in need.

Photo by Karyn Skultety/Openhouse

Christine Jorgensen: The first individual to become widely known in the U.S. for having gender reassignment surgery, Jorgensen was a successful actress, singer, and recording artist. She was an inaugural honoree of the Rainbow Honor Walk in San Francisco, and was also an inaugural honoree of the National LGBTQ Wall of Honor within the Stonewall National Monument.

Photo by Maurice Seymour

Lou Sullivan: According to the Seattle Gay News, Sullivan was perhaps the first transgender man to publicly identify as gay. The author and activist helped shape modern understanding of sexual orientation and gender identity as distinct, unrelated concepts. Photo by Mariette Pathy Allen

Pao Crego: Crego is the Executive Director of the Office of Transgender Initiatives for the City and County of San Francisco. Photo by Rink. https://sf.gov/profile/pau-crego

Cecilia Chung: Chung is the Senior Director of Strategic Initiatives and Evaluation at the Transgender Law Center. Photo courtesy of Cecilia Chung. http://www.ceciliachung.com/bio

Sean Dorsey: Dorsey, recognized as America’s first acclaimed transgender modern dance choreographer, is also a writer, teacher, mentor, and cultural activist. Photo by Rink. https://seandorseydance.com/

Suzanne Ford: Trans activist and public speaker Ford is the Executive Director of San Francisco Pride. Photo by Rink. https://sfpride.org/team/

Honey Mahogany: Mahogany is the Chair of the San Francisco Democratic Party and the SF Democratic County Central Committee. Photo by Rink. https://tinyurl.com/yc43w2ar

Aria Sa’id: Award-winning political strategist Sa’id is the former Executive Director of The Transgender District, for which she is also a founder. Photo by Rink. https://ariasaid.com/

Clearly the list of modern leaders could be much larger, so look for more on those mentioned as well as not in future issues. For a much more extensive list of transgender figures and events in history, see the timeline at the Transgender History Month website: https://www.transgenderhistorymonth.com/

2023 Transgender History Month Events

Transgender History Month has been celebrated throughout August in San Francisco since 2021, when Mayor London Breed signed a mayoral proclamation officially recognizing August as a commemorative month to honor the history and contributions of transgender people in San Francisco and around the world. August was chosen as the month to commemorate transgender pioneers and trailblazers in recognition of the historical importance of the Compton’s Cafeteria Riot of August 1966, when trans women of color and drag queens led a riot against police harassment in Compton’s Cafeteria at 101 Taylor Street in the Tenderloin district. As the history of the Compton’s Cafeteria Riot has become more widely known, it has been recognized as a turning point in the way trans and queer people are viewed in San Francisco, and as the beginning of their political power.

The Transgender District kicked off this year’s Transgender History Month with a flag raising at the Mayor’s Office on August 2, and with a showcase of transgender and nonbinary classical artists, Expansive, on August 3. Also, in the wake of the departure of Founder and Executive Director Aria Sa’id in early August, the District has announced the naming of Breonna McCree and Carlo Gomez Arteaga as the new Co-Executive Directors.

“Both McCree and Arteaga hold extensive experience in transgender human rights activism, as well as deep roots in community organizing in the Tenderloin and San Francisco, respectively,” said District Board Chair Diamond Collier. “As the district nears its seven-year anniversary, we’re excited to see both of them work together and [with] the organization’s staff to advance our continued mission of creating spaces for and by trans people that foster economic and cultural empowerment for our community.”

Transgender History Month Events

August 24 - Name & Gender Change Clinic

The Transgender Cultural District is hosting their Name & Gender Change Clinics again on August 24 and September 28, from 6:30 to 9 pm, at the Transgender District Office at 1067 Market Street, San Francisco. Members of the Transgender Clinic will be available in the office to help fill out the needed documents and give some direction on the next steps for name and gender change. https://tinyurl.com/TTDchange

August 26 - Compton’s Cafeteria Riot Celebration at Aunt Charlie’s Lounge

The Riot will be commemorated, keeping in mind that the historic site of Compton’s is currently operated as a halfway house by a private prison corporation. Projection activist Alan Marling will shine messages on the Turk & Taylor building, envisioning ways to reimagine a more just future for the historic site. After, stay for The Hot Boxxx Girls drag show at 10 pm ($5 cover). The Riot Celebration is free of charge; RSVP by emailing info@turkxtaylor.com

August 27 - Riot Party 2023, hosted by The Transgender District

This will be a free party featuring Peaches Christ, Helixr, Kipper Snacks, Melanie Sparks, Mia Munro, Papi Churro, Per Sia, and DJ Kkingboo, at Kapwa Gardens, 12 pm–5 pm. https://www.riotpartysf.com/

Community Treasures from the GLBT Historical Society Archives

Uncovering Compton’s

On an August evening in 1966, three years before the Stonewall riot in New York City, the patrons of the Compton’s Cafeteria in San Francisco’s Tenderloin district fought back against police harassment. This was among the first documented cases of LGBTQ resistance to police aggression, and a pivotal moment in transgender history. It’s a major reason why August is now celebrated as Transgender History Month in San Francisco.

The riot at Compton’s Cafeteria was largely forgotten for decades until a chance encounter in our archives led Susan Stryker to rediscover the event. It took her years of research to uncover the truth, using the scant documentary evidence that remained, paired with oral history interviews and word of mouth, to put the pieces together.

History is continually being rewritten and reevaluated as new evidence comes to light. This is especially true of LGBTQ history, which has been forcibly destroyed or hidden by zealots intent on erasing us from the landscape. That’s why the GLBT Historical Society exists—to ensure that we, and those who come after us, will have access to the truth of our history.

Two of the photographs here are extremely rare images of the interior of the Compton’s Cafeteria where the riot took place, part of the GLBT Historical Society’s extensive photographic archives. Today, these photos, the original paper that led Susan on the process of discovery, and the oral histories and evidence she collected throughout her research, are preserved in our archives.

Special thanks to Andrew Shaffer

There they join thousands of other archival objects that reveal a rich tapestry of LGBTQ history and culture. We make these community treasures available to all at our archives downtown and our museum in the Castro district. To book your visit, or to make a contribution to support our work, visit https://www.glbthistory.org/

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WWW.KQED.ORG/TRULYCA/43/SCREAMING-QUEENS Inside Gene Compton’s Cafeteria in San Francisco’s Tenderloin neighborhood, ca. 1966; photo by Henri Leleu, Henri Leleu Papers (1997-13), GLBT Historical Society Inside Gene Compton’s Cafeteria in San Francisco’s Tenderloin neighborhood, ca. 1966; photo by Henri Leleu, Henri Leleu Papers (1997-13), GLBT Historical Society

Transgender History Month

A Lifetime of Appreciating Doris Fish

Doris Fish was everywhere in the fall of 1991. Huge, colorful posters for her new camp drag movie Vegas in Space were plastered all over the neighborhood and all the queens and club kids were talking about the film. Years in the making, the movie was the culmination of a career that brought Doris from the gay clubs of her native Australia to the nightclub stages of San Francisco, where she became the city’s most famous drag queen beginning in the late 1970s along with her cohorts the Sluts A Go-Go. Their shows are legendary: Naked Brunch, Blonde Sin, The Bad Seed, Nightclub of the Living Dead, and The Happy Hour. A popular line of greeting cards from West Graphics spread their image far and wide as tourists snapped them up as souvenirs of San Francisco.

Freshly out of the closet, I was a young transvestite new to the scene at Klubstitute, the genderbending nightclub hosted by Diet Popstitute. I didn’t know who Doris Fish and the Sluts A Go-Go were, but I was soon transfixed by their style and inspired by their artistry. I’ve been a devoted fan ever since.

Unfortunately, I had arrived too late to see Doris herself. In one of those tragic ironies fit for a star of her stature and legend, she had passed away in June, mere weeks before the film’s premiere.

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Transgender Pioneers Charley Parkhurst, Theodore Hoffman, and Felicia Elizondo

Faces from Our LGBT Past

In 2021 San Francisco made history and once again set an example for communities everywhere when Mayor London Breed declared August to be Transgender History Month in the city. Following efforts by Jupiter Peraza and other activists, her proclamation not only celebrated the 55th anniversary of the Compton’s Cafeteria Riot, but also the many trans people who have lived here and made contributions to the fabric of place that has been their home at least since the Gold Rush.

“San Francisco is a city that possesses so much trans history,” Peraza explained during the annual celebration in 2022. “I want trans history month to be an opportunity in which we truly celebrate with joy and happiness, the icons and the legends that came before us. I want to also let every trans person know that they are indeed special. They are incredibly valuable, and that this place, this world, this life would not be the same without them.”

Among those icons and legends is Charley Parkhurst (1812–1879), for some 15 years one of the most celebrated stagecoach drivers in California. Described as having a “stout, compact figure, sun browned skin, and beardless face with bluish-gray eyes,” Charley was “the boss of the road” on the routes from Sacramento to Placerville, Oakland to San Jose, and San Juan Bautista to Santa Cruz. Not until his death did anybody know that “Cockeyed

Charley” had been identified female at birth, the only such stager in state history.

Of course, as a woman Charley never would have been hired by a stage line or for any of the work he did after retiring as a driver. Always highly regarded, “He was known as one of the most skillful and powerful of choppers and lumbermen,” The San Francisco Call remembered in 1880, and “his services were eagerly sought for, and always commanded the highest wages, often as much as $125 a month, plus room and board.”

The state’s “crack whip” lived as a man for his entire adult life. He even registered to vote in 1867, more than 50 years before women’s suffrage was granted by the 19th amendment; “Parkhurst, Charles, 55, New Hampshire, farmer, Soquel,” reads his entry in the official ledger. If he voted—no record has yet been found—then he also was the first anatomically female citizen to cast a ballot in a presidential election in California.

Where Charley kept his birth gender a secret for his entire life, Theodore Hoffman did not. Perhaps the first San Franciscan to be publicly revealed as someone we would identify as transgender, Hoffman, née Mabel Edison, was “only 22 years of age” when he was arrested for “impersonating a man” in 1902. “I always wanted to be a boy,” he told The San Francisco Examiner. “I cannot remember the time when I did not detest petticoats. My hatred for them was what finally landed me in jail in San Francisco.”

Theodore knew who he was. “All the arresting and all the preaching in the world can’t change a person’s nature. It is my nature to hate skirts. As for the law that compels men and women to wear different styles of clothing, I do not propose to obey it ... . This is supposed to be a free country, and yet they arrest a person who is quietly minding his own business. I say ‘his’ business because I never think of myself as a woman at all.”

He had dressed in male attire before. “I can remember my mother telling me that when I was a year and a half old, I always wanted to wear my little brother’s clothes,” The San Francisco Chronicle reported.

“With boy’s clothes, boy’s voice and boy’s manners came a boy’s way of thinking, and it seemed to me that I was in my natural element.” Finally, “When I was 21, I decided to become a man—I was of age, so why not?”

Hoffman was only released from police custody after agreeing “to begin life over again under proper conditions and with a different name” as a woman. “The officers need not think that they have cured me of my liking for trousers, nor the folks who have preached to me about what they term my ‘bold behavior’ in masquerading as a man.” In fact, “I have my boy’s clothes handy ... and I shall have the pleasure of outwitting the officers in the future.”

Unlike Hoffman, Felicia Elizondo struggled to understand who she was. Born in San Angelo, Texas on July 23, 1946, she was identified at birth as male and baptized as Felipe. She soon realized she was different from the children around her, but did not yet understand what exactly that meant for her. Despite all the prejudice, inaccuracy, and obstacles put in her way, however, she came not only to realize her true self, but also to find the strength and the courage to live an authentic life.

“I thought I was gay, but I wasn’t,” she later said. At age 15 or 16, living in San Jose, she began seeing an older man who one day took her to San Francisco, where they visited the Tenderloin. “I noticed that there was a lot of people like me,” she later told Zachary Drucker of Vice News. She and a friend began to “play hooky from school and come into the Tenderloin on a Greyhound,” where Compton’s Cafeteria became “the center of the universe for us.”

By the time she graduated high school, Elizondo had decided she did not want to be gay any longer. What she wanted instead was “to be normal,” not yet understanding what normal was for her. She concluded that if it meant being “straight,” then military service would be her deliverance. It was not. After serving in Vietnam for six months with the Navy, she told her commanding officer that she was gay and was discharged. She then returned to the Bay Area, still unclear about her real identity.

The pieces of the puzzle of who she was came together not long after while living in Chicago. “What changed my life was when I went to see the movie, The Christine Jorgensen Story,” the socalled biography of the most famous transgender woman of her time, made by the gay director Irving Rapper. “I finally realized that this is who I am. I didn’t know how I was going to get there, but where there is a will, there is a way.”

Elizondo found a way. In 1972 she began living full-time as a woman. Two years later, when she completed her surgery, she finally was her true self. After retiring, she became an advocate for (continued on page 6)

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SAN FRANCISCO BAY TIMES LGBTQ News & Calendar for the Bay Area CELEBRATING FOUR DECADES (1978–2023)
Illustration including Charley Parkhurst from the 2017 book The Argonauts of California Mabel Edison/Theodore Hoffman, San Francisco Chronicle, 1902 Felicia Elizondo PHOTO BY RINK Theodore Hoffman, née Mabel Edison as a bellboy, San Francisco Examiner, 1902 Robyn Adams Miss X (left) and Doris Fish (right) at the Castro Street Fair in 1983 PHOTO © DAN NICOLETTA Sluts A Go-Go promotional postcard 1979–80. PHOTO BY EDDIE TROIKA FROM MISS X’S COLLECTION Doris Fish greeting card for West Graphics, 1980s COURTESY OF ROBYN ADAMS

Transgender History Month

Mayor’s Transgender History Month 2023 Flag Raising Ceremony

Photos courtesy of the Office of Transgender Initiatives, the City & County of San Francisco, and Juan R. Davila

Mayor London Breed on August 2 joined city leaders and community members to raise the transgender flag at City Hall in honor of San Francisco’s Transgender History Month. Transgender activist Jupiter Peraza, emcee, welcomed guests and expressed appreciation to Mayor Breed for her continuing support of San Francisco’s transgender community through strategic programs as well as establishing the Office of Transgender Initiatives, Transgender History Month, and more.

Acknowledged during the ceremony were activist Donna Personna and also Queer Youth Assemble, whose members were responsible for organizing the San Francisco March for Queer and Trans Youth Autonomy ( https://tinyurl.com/3a92ktz5 ).

For more information about San Francisco’s Office of Transgender Initiatives, visit: https://tinyurl.com/4e3w6srd

Learn more about The Transgender District: https://www.transgenderdistrictsf.com/

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Her co-star and roommate “Tippi” passed in August. Their estate sale was simply stunning. Mountains of drag, fabulous gaudy accessories, custom-painted furniture, and artwork. It was sad and fabulous all at the same time.

I became friends with her co-star, Miss X (who inspired a villain in the drag queen comic book I was writing, Homozone5 ), and I met Tippi’s boyfriend, Bob Davis, a dedicated collector of transgender memorabilia and publications. This began a lifetime of appreciation for transgender history and helped me understand myself as more of a “trans woman” than a “drag queen.” Today, that’s a very important distinction, but back then it wasn’t such a big deal. (I like to think of myself as “trans girl who was raised by drag queens.”)

Now, in 2023, it seems like Doris Fish is everywhere once again. She is the subject of Craig Seligman’s well-researched and widely reviewed biography, Who Does That Bitch Think She Is? A documentary is in the works from Portland filmmaker Scott Braucht. In partnership with her director, Phillip R Ford, I myself have jumped in with a new archival website

( https://dorisfish.com/ ) and I’m returning to comic books with an adaptation of Vegas in Space Doris continues to inspire us, and, in this awful time of state-sponsored hatred of trans people and drag queens alike, I really think we need her now more than ever. Doris lived her life fearlessly, from the very start. As someone who took years to finally accept myself for who I was, I find her endlessly fascinating. She was relentlessly creating the world she wanted to live in with her distinctive drawing and painting, outlandish interior decorating, unforgettable costuming, and theater. She wanted to be a famous movie star and she built a world where that came to be.

All of this was well before drag queens were stars on mainstream television shows or turning up at local libraries. Drag is an industry now,

and its pioneers should not be forgotten. If there is a Mount Rushmore of Drag, Doris Fish is on it. August 11 would have been Doris’ 72nd birthday. Do something fabulous to celebrate! The GLBT Historical Society Museum currently has an exhibit on view, Doris Fish: Ego as Artform, showcasing her art and artifacts from her career. On August 10, the museum will present a video lecture by Doris’ friend and director, Phillip R. Ford, entitled High Spots in a Low Dive: The Home Movies of Doris Fish 1981–1991

Robyn Adams is a designer and illustrator living in Oakland, CA. She is currently the Creative Director at the Louise Lawrence Transgender Archive and is the Social Media Manager for San Francisco Pride.

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the transgender community, especially trans women of color, who were often confronted with both racism and transphobia. Remembering the past was important to her, too. “Please don’t forget all who came before you,” she wrote in 2018, three years before she died. “You have to know where you have been to know where you are going.”

Her words are more imperative today than ever. As Pau Crego, Executive Director of the Office of Transgender Initiatives, said at the beginning of this year’s Transgender History Month in San Francisco, “It is especially vital now ... to remember and celebrate the trans community’s history, at a time when there are over five hundred anti-trans bills being proposed nationwide. San Francisco’s history is intertwined with trans liberation, and upholding dignity, safety, and well-being for our transgender residents is an inherent part of our legacy.”

Bill Lipsky, Ph.D., author of “Gay and Lesbian San Francisco” (2006), is a member of the Rainbow Honor Walk board of directors.

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PHOTO BY JUAN R. DAVILA PHOTO BY JUAN R. DAVILA

GLBT Fortnight in Review

Dog

Apropos of nothing, are we headed for successive generations named for letters of the alphabet? The “Greatest Generation” fought a world war to earn their moniker. Then came the “Silent Generation,” not a name I’d like for my cohort, and the “Baby Boomers,” of course, long the power players and now the senior set. Then, “GenX,” which had a certain ambiguous je ne said quoi. “ Millennials” sounded cool, but then, mysteriously, we skipped right over to “GenZ,” and now it appears that we are moving on to “Gen Alpha,” to be followed by “Gen Beta,” “Gen Gamma,” and on through the list. I don’t know about you, but I’d be annoyed if I grew up to learn that I was part of some nondescript “Gen Beta.” Who decides these things?

The Canicula is upon us, when the heat index soars and the news streams run dry. It’s not as if we have nothing to discuss, but must we delve into the grotesque policies out of Italy, where lesbian wives are being stripped off their non-biological children’s birth certificates? Do we have to report on the latest anti-GLBT law out of Russia that, according to the Associated Press, bans “medical interventions aimed at changing the sex of a person,” as well as changing one’s gender in official documents and public records, transgender marriages, transgender foster parents, and transgender adoptive parents? We have seen draconian laws out of Russia eventually make their way over to the post-Trump United States, so when once I would have shrugged this off as an isolated Putin-esque outrage, now I see it as a precursor to something dreamed

up by the Florida legislature. But it’s August. Can’t we talk about something else?

Did you read about “Toco,” the guy from Tokyo who spent the yen equivalent of $14,000 to obtain a realistic custom-made costume that allows him to pretend to be a collie? He’s on YouTube, where lots of people can watch him waddle down the street on all fours, or eat from his kibble bowl. The man claims he has always wanted to be a dog, and now his dream has come true.

He seems to operate in anonymity, telling The Mirror that he doesn’t tell friends about this project “because I am afraid they will think I am weird.” Speaking to The Daily Mail, he said his work colleagues are also in the dark. “I don’t want my hobbies to be known, especially by the people I work with. They think it’s weird that I want to be a dog. For the same reason why I can’t show my real face.”

Um, yeah, buddy. I hate to say it, but you are a little weird. Sadly, I imagine it’s just a matter of time before some rightwing state rep brings this man up as an exemplar of our inclusive and multi-lettered community, perhaps insinuating that many of the rest of us also indulge in jarring peculiarities on the down low. I know. He’s not harming anyone. But there’s nothing gay or trans about him and I don’t want distractions like collie guy upending our fraught politics.

And Another Thing

I also have a New York Post article, headlined: “Man electrocuted with ping pong ball up butt dur-

ing botched masturbation,” but I’m not sure I have the energy to dig into this rabbit hole. He was from the Czech Republic, and since his elaborate death was described in a medical journal, I’m assuming this is not breaking news. According to the Post, the 30-year-old’s “unorthodox selfstimulation methods involved body wrapping, cross-dressing, anal masochism, self-fetishism, and lower abdomen stimulation with an electric mechanical massage device.”

Talk about the kitchen sink! Are a few orgasms really worth that kind of effort? And the ping pong ball? It’s not as if I deliberately look up stories like this. It’s just that when I see them, I can’t resist clicking further.

Oh, but while we’re on bizarre anecdotes, there was a really good one from a few weeks ago, when South Carolina Republican Congresswoman Nancy Mace told an audience at Tim Scott’s prayer breakfast that she had to skip having sex with her fiancé in order to make the event on time.

“When I woke up this morning at seven,” she explained from the podium, “Patrick, my fiancé, tried to pull me by my waist over this morning in bed and I was like ‘no, baby, we don’t got time for that this morning, I’ve gotta get to the prayer breakfast.’” Nancy? TMI, girl! None of us can get that image out of our heads now, and I’m speaking not just for myself, but for the conservative crowd at the prayer breakfast. What possessed her to describe such an intimate moment in a public setting? She might as well have brought Patrick to the stage for an impromptu make-out session.

House Opens Floodgates in Must-Pass Spending Bills

Moving right along, the Human Rights Campaign has identified 45 anti-LGBT provisions embedded in all twelve of the appropriations bills that combine to fund the government. The House is supposed to pass final versions of these bills and send them to the Senate in the next several months in order to avoid a government shutdown. HRC’s July 26 report says our community has never been the target of so many legislative attacks in the history of the appropriations process. This combines with a number of stand-alone anti-GLBT proposals coming out of the House, and the record volume of anti-gay and anti-trans bills enacted in state legislatures, where some 575 attack bills were proposed and an astonishing 80 became law.

As an aside, I confess that I started to ignore state legislature news about a decade or so ago, simply because the states frequently tossed up some insane anti-gay proposals that were eventually shelved in committee or quietly scuttled by centrist leaders. Scare headlines would announce something like: “SB 67 passes house committee in Alabama. Will outlaw gay and lesbian public school teachers!” But nothing would come of it, or any of the other outrageous notions circulating around the country.

That was then and this is now, however. Measures that would have had no chance, or would have drawn national boycotts back in the day, are reaching the governors’ desks with ease. Even when a Democratic governor vetoes a bill, it is often overridden by GOP majorities in the legislatures. You know this, of course.

Now we are faced with these spending bills—omnibus authorizations that must pass Congress. All 12 are tied to different areas of government; agriculture, military, transportation, and so forth. And every one of them has two or more anti-GLBT riders, banning everything from drag shows on military bases, to transgender health care or raising a rainbow flag on a public pole.

You may remember a few weeks back that several GLBT community centers were defunded under one of these measures, an attack that seemed to epitomize the pettiness of the anti-woke brigade. Apparently, however, those were just the tip of the iceberg. Seven of the bills include bans on money associated with transgender health care, some youth-based but others with no age limitation. All but one of the bills purports to “protect” those who disapprove of same-sex marriage against anti-discrimination laws that might stand in the way of their hostility. Two of them would bar colleges from taking action against religious clubs that might want to exclude GLBT members. Two spending bills include bans on drag shows, while seven restrict military and others from flying anything but the American flag, along with several exceptions that do not include rainbows. A couple of others block funding that would implement the enforcement of GLBT-friendly policies, and all but the transportation bill cut funds for advancing diversity and inclusion.

HRC’s 25-page report goes on to include the language of each these (continued on page 18)

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California’s New Budget

to ensure its conservation and protection for future generations.

On the health front, we continue funding to keep Mpox vaccines available and the AIDS Drug Assistance Program running. The new state budget also addresses inequities in Hepatitis C Virus treatment and services by bolstering outreach, testing, and engagement that focus on underserved Californians. State funds will additionally ensure health plans go through culturally competent training, so that proficient trans-inclusive health care is provided.

meals; grants are still available to help with pandemic-era learning loss.

• Higher Education: Nearly 12,000 more slots at UC and CSU; additional funding for Middle Class Scholarship program; housing grants for campuses to accommodate thousands more students.

• Transit: $5.1 billion lifeline to address fiscal cliff many agencies were facing; keeps buses and trains running but operators also must improve safety and cleanliness.

You may have seen that the United States’ Gross Domestic Product was 2.4 percent for the second quarter this year—better than what we considered, as we crafted the 2023–24 state budget that took effect this summer. But this is only one data point to consider when looking at California’s finances. We must look at things more cautiously and assume the next few budgets will likely present some challenges.

As Assembly Budget Chair for the last eight budgets, I’m glad to see that our years of fiscal responsibility have positioned our state well to deal with possible declining revenues. This enables us in the latest spending plan to protect the progress we’ve made in key priority areas, avoid cuts to core programs, and maintain a $38 billion reserve to safeguard against economic uncertainty in California’s new budget.

For the LGBTQ+ community, I’m excited to see that the new state budget will help the Center for Health and Social Justice in San Francisco become a reality with $1.5 million in funding. The vision is to have a cultural institution that will host exhibitions on the history of the HIV/ AIDS epidemic, social justice movements, and important modern-day issues. It will also permanently house the AIDS Memorial Quilt, which has grown to more than 50,000 panels,

And given the national efforts limiting kids’ books and transgender rights, we want to address the unique needs of California’s LGBTQ+ students. We’ve allocated $10 million over the next three years for support centers. By having an adult to talk to and resources on campus, we can address mental health needs that could increase academic outcomes. Statewide, the budget touches many lives, strengthening programs and services for those who need the most help and investing in a strong future.

Highlights include:

• Housing: Continued investments to help cities address homelessness; housing funding for certain foster youth living outside the home to help them afford the rising costs of living; renewal of the first-time homebuyers ($200 million) and financing programs ($50 million) that help property owners build backyard units, or ADUs.

• Early Childhood: Higher reimbursement rates for child care providers (pending bargaining agreement) and near elimination of fees for families that rely on subsidized child care; continued expansion of Universal Transition Kindergarten.

K–12 Education: 8% costof-living raise for public schools, maintaining historic funding levels; continuation of universal school

Stronger Safety Net: Previous short-term grant increase of 10% for CalWORKs families made permanent, plus adds another 3.6% increase in October; 8.6% COLA for SSI/SSP recipients effective January 1, 2024; more funding for Market Match program, increasing buying power at farmers’ markets for CalFresh recipients.

• Healthcare: Higher reimbursement rates for Medi-Cal providers to increase access to care; lower co-pays and deductibles for Covered California insurance plans.

• Environment: Led efforts to transition to clean vehicles; coastal resiliency to protect against climate change; lead removal from schools.

AAPI Communities: More resources to continue the fight against Asian American/Pacific Islander hate.

We are fortunate that the latest state budget is still improving the lives of Californians. We’ve only been able to do this through smart, responsible actions in years past.

Phil Ting represents the 19th Assembly District, which includes the west side of San Francisco along with the communities of Broadmoor, Colma, and Daly City, as well as part of South San Francisco and San Bruno.

Keeping the A’s in Oakland: Yes, We Can

ballpark could be built separately or in advance of related development opportunities. In addition, in Oakland, thanks to the great weather, no roof would be needed. As a result, building a ballpark in Oakland would be easier, faster, and less expensive than building one in Las Vegas. The cost of adding the roof in Las Vegas, in fact, adds more cost to that site, exceeding any benefit of the proposed state funding.

Out of the Closet and into City Hall

Oakland City Councilmember At-Large, Rebecca Kaplan

The future of the Oakland A’s isn’t set yet. There remain several hurdles to jump before the Las Vegas proposal could take place. With the increasing problems and extended timeline there, it would be faster and easier to build in Oakland.

Yes, Oakland, with perfect weather in the heart of a large media market, is a fabulous place for a new ballpark and could readily accommodate the latest proposal faster and for less expense than Las Vegas. The City of Oakland has approved two sites for development that include a ballpark. Projects on either Oakland site could be expedited, in that the

The City of Oakland has obtained environmental clearance for two development sites that include approvals for a ballpark, each of which had been demanded by MLB Commissioner Rob Manfred. First, the Coliseum site, which has over 120 acres of land, is readily accessible to the entire Northern California megaregion and beyond via BART, an interstate freeway, the Amtrak/ Capitol Corridor, a nearby airport, and more. This site and its surroundings have received approval for mixed use development including sports, entertainment, and substantial development, including commercial and more. For more information, see: https://tinyurl.com/2rew4yyh

In addition, the waterfront Howard Terminal site, next to a ferry dock and near the Broadway transit corridor, has also received environmental approvals for development, and hundreds of millions of dollars

of infrastructure funding. For more information see: https://tinyurl.com/y3m22aa6

We have heard that the effort to build a ballpark in Las Vegas has experienced multiple setbacks, including organized opposition and a potential referendum to block the deal, along with logistical challenges associated with the site, such as the small size and difficulty building a retractable roof. Since the A’s owners and MLB are now proposing a different, and smaller project than they had previously requested, some have asked about the opportunities in Oakland, and whether a revised project would be an alternative in Oakland.

Oakland can provide the A’s owners and MLB better options for what they are now seeking; whether they prefer a smaller site for just a ballpark, or a ballpark plus dining and entertainment, those would be included elements within the existing larger approvals, and therefore, could be advanced at Howard Terminal or Coliseum in a timely manner.

By choosing one of the options that Oakland provides, the MLB would be preserving a proud tradition of Major League Baseball that has existed in Oakland for many decades. Yes, we can!

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Assemblymember Phil Ting Councilmember At-Large and Council President Rebecca Kaplan, who is the Vice Mayor of Oakland, was elected in 2008 to serve as Oakland’s citywide Councilmember; she was re-elected in 2016 and 2020. She also serves on the Alameda County Transportation Commission (ACTC). Follow Councilmember Kaplan on Twitter @Kaplan4Oakland ( https://tinyurl.com/2dtjmazc ) and Facebook ( https://tinyurl.com/2p9dd5ta ).

More Love, Less Hate

ground on continuing to welcome not just the LGBTQ+ community, but also marginalized communities in general—a commitment they fulfill not just in words, but in their community work every day.

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I attended Sunday services on July 23 at Calvary Presbyterian Church, in Pacific Heights. This is something I really should do more often, because services at this welcoming, affirming church always make me feel better about humanity, and fill me with a renewed commitment to do better toward my fellow human beings.

I attended this particular service because my friends at Calvary had put out an all-hands-on-deck call for support. The previous Sunday, July 16, their services had been disrupted by protesters harassing and intimidating parishioners entering the church. They shouted hateful and homophobic slurs, angry about Calvary’s recent Drag Bible Story Hour, and their support for the LGBTQ+ community in general. How did Calvary respond to this attack? In a bow to practical concerns, yes, they increased security. But in typical Calvary fashion, they invited their congregation and the public to a special service the following week, focused on a loving response to hate. They stood their

The service was joyful, uplifting, loving, and thought-provoking. Guest preacher Michael Pappas, Executive Director of the San Francisco Interfaith Council, spoke powerfully on the need to counter hate with love. The choir, accompanied by Music Director Michael Conley, closed out the service with a moving contemporary hymn, “More Love, Less Hate.”

At the end of the service, we all gathered, full of joy and laughter, on the steps of Calvary on Fillmore Street, for a massive group photo celebrating Calvary’s 169th anniversary. Across the street, a small handful of protesters—not carrying signs or a microphone this time, but we knew who they were—watched us silently, scowling, and furtive. Frankly, they looked sad and miserable. This is what hate can do to you. The sight of our joy just seemed to make them smaller and more unhappy.

It was an uplifting and inspiring morning. But the line that really stuck with me was from Calvary’s Head of Staff, Reverend Marci Auld Glass, who quoted author Monica Guzman: “Whoever is underrepresented in your life will be overexaggerated in your imagination.” Stop and think about that for a moment.

I went diving into Google to find the rest of Guzman’s speech. Guzman is a senior fellow for public practice at Braver Angels, a cross-partisan grassroots organization working to depolarize America. The TED Talk

I found focuses on seeing people whose beliefs are different from our own as, well, people, rather than just as adversaries. She warns of the dangers of hating or fearing those who may be different from us, who vote differently, or see the world differently. “Instead of people, you’ll see monsters. Instead of possibilities, you’ll see disasters. This is the challenge of a polarized world.”

It is easy for us to demonize and dismiss those who are different from us, and whom we don’t know. The challenge is to reach out and get to know the “other” as a human being, with their own value, and their own challenges. This is hard work; it takes courage and persistence, and an open mind and heart. And here’s the thing: people on both sides of the aisle need to practice it. I am in awe of all those on the front lines of this kind of work; it is extremely challenging. But we can’t just leave the heavy lifting to the professionals. If we are going to have a world where we can truly be neighbors, we all have to do our part. More love, less hate.

Popular Self-Defense Class

Returning on August 19

The harassment and intimidation directed at Calvary Presbyterian Church on July 16 was a chilling reminder that we all need to take safety seriously. One practical way to act on that is to be prepared. In June, Castro Community on Patrol (CCOP), in collaboration with their safety partner Community Patrol Service (CPS), hosted a free beginners self-defense class for the LGBTQ+ community, in prepara-

tion for the San Francisco Pride festivities. They are now offering their popular “Beginners Self-Defense Training Class” again on August 19 from 1–5 pm at Most Holy Redeemer Church, 100 Diamond Street, SF.

Taught by martial arts Grand Master Ken Craig, the class takes attendees through a simple to understand, logical, and intuitive process to assess threats and escalate defensive techniques in response. The focus is on avoiding problems by remaining alert and walking away from trouble, if possible. De-escalation concepts are reinforced and tips for obtaining assistance and helping witnesses realize you need help are repeated to help lock them in. Finally, some simple physical defensive techniques are provided. The overriding focus is always to avoid physical defense, if at all possible. These popular classes are very low impact, easygoing, and fun. They provide logical and simple techniques, and these techniques are easy to remember and implement. The class is suitable for anyone 18 years or older. Necessary accom-

modations can be made for special needs if requested well before the class date.

Do yourself a favor and take this class. Beginner’s Self-Defense Training Class is free, but pre-registration is required. To register: https://tinyurl.com/SelfD8

Sally and Lunch at OpenHouse

Ever since it was announced that a documentary was being made about charismatic lesbian activist, educator, and author Sally Gearhart, anticipation has been building. The wait is nearly over; the film is nearing completion. On July 9, the San Francisco Public Library hosted an event that included clips from Sally, along with a panel discussion featuring Jewelle Gomez, Ruth Mahaney, Cherrie L. Moraga, and producer Deborah Craig.

If you were in San Francisco in the 1970s and 80s, Gearhart was a towering force of nature you couldn’t ignore. Her millionwatt smile and quick wit would draw you in, where you discovered a passionate, radical spirit and fierce intellect. She co-founded the

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San Francisco Bay Times & The Academy Invite You!

DIVAS & DRINKS x3 @ The Academy

Three months of live music!

Announcing the first ever Divas & Drinks concert series at The Academy SF! In addition to emcee Donna Sachet, DJ Rockaway and DJ Page Hodel presented by Olivia Travel, and the Bacardí team of talented mixologists, D&D will be featuring:

Friday, August 25 - Transgender History Month Celebration with The Klipptones

The Klipptones will make their Academy D&D debut on this special evening celebrating Transgender History Month! Numerous leaders from the transgender community will also be in the house on this night marking the 57th Anniversary of an historic act of trans resistance: the Compton’s Cafeteria Riots that took place just blocks away in 1966.

Friday, September 29 - Women’s Music Stars Shine for Linda Tillery

A galaxy of Women’s Music stars will perform at The Academy to honor legendary singer/songwriter and Grammy nominee Linda Tillery, whose career includes leading the psychedelic rock band The Loading Zone in the 1960s, being a pioneer of Women’s Music, co-founding The Cultural Heritage Choir, backing everyone from Santana to Huey Lewis, and so much more! This night will also celebrate the Bay Times Pride Parade contingent volunteers and participants who brought to life the theme of “50 Years of Women’s Music.”

Friday, October 27 - Halloween Party with Shake It Booty Band

A super group of top Bay Area women musicians, Shake It Booty Band will be making their D&D debut! These women comprise one of the most entertaining, rollicking, funky, disco-down dance bands to hit the scene. Mark your calendar and plan your Halloween outfit now!

Divas

The Academy

To celebrate the return of August 2023 and hosted by its title for the night of July Noted Cher impersonator tribute to her doppelganger. was announced earlier in the niment by Dr. Dee Spencer Sachet and Spencer incorporated Cam Cosindad and Paul Perretta cookie to be named after a tures “decadent chocolate topped with a dash of glitz!”

DJ Page Hodel—the first woman and kept the music going throughout Sachet, with Team Dykes on Surprise guest Dan Ashley, singalong for Jen Viegas, the Co-Producer of the Divas & ers by Urban Flowers, wines Bay Area’s Leslie Sbrocco (Sbrocco of cards and selected items

It was also the Birthday Week the event with his husband, month. Happy Birthday to Another Bay Times columnist, with birthday wishes and to The San Francisco Bay Times Extreme Pizza, and the San Don’t miss the next Divas & and featuring musical guests For More Information

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the popular event series Sunday’s a Drag (at Club Fugazi throughout by Donna Sachet), Divas & Drinks @ The Academy added “Drag” to July 28.

Christina Ashton began the musical portion of the program with a doppelganger. Sachet also performed a tribute to Tony Bennett, whose passing the week. During “I Left My Heart in San Francisco,” with accompaSpencer on keyboard, fireworks unexpectedly went off at another venue. incorporated the moment into their memorable performance.

Perretta of Hot Cookie then took the stage to reveal the first ever such living legend, Sachet! The cookie, available throughout August, feafudge dough packed with dried cherries and cream cheese chips and glitz!” The colorful cookies were then passed around to guests.

woman mixer on major market radio—was presented by Olivia Travel throughout the evening. She also helped lead “Name That Tune” with on Bikes® proving victorious, keeping their long winning streak going.

ABC7 News Anchor, accompanied by Dr. Spencer, led a birthday the Co-Publisher/Editor of the San Francisco Bay Times and & Drinks series. Viegas received a cake from Noe Valley Bakery, flowwines curated by Dr. Marcy Adelman, Kristen Green, and Check, Please! (Sbrocco is a wine expert and Bay Times columnist) and a gift bag full items from team members, friends, and guests.

Week for Pink Triangle project Founder Patrick Carney, who attended husband, Dr. Hossein Carney. Dr. Carney, in turn, celebrated a birthday last all with birthdays this summer!

columnist, El Cerrito Councilmember Carolyn Wysinger, was also on hand to celebrate the return of Sunday’s a Drag thanks the event’s sponsors The Academy SF, Bacardí, Olivia Travel, San Francisco Federal Credit Union. & Drinks @ The Academy, celebrating Transgender History Month guests The Klipptones, on August 25!

Events Calendar: https://www.academy-sf.com/calendar

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Before traveling abroad to new and unfamiliar destinations, be sure to do research on the countries you will be visiting to determine what their legal positions are regarding LGBTQI+ community members. Many countries do not legally recognize same-sex marriage. Even worse, approximately 70 countries consider consensual same-sex sexual relations to be a crime—sometimes carrying severe punishment including the death penalty.

In many cases the laws apply specifically to gay men, but 38 countries have amended their laws to include lesbians in their definitions.

Countries such as Saudi Arabia, Iran, Yemen, Brunei, Nigeria, and Mauritania can enforce the death penalty for those who engage in same-sex sexual relations. On May 29, 2023, Uganda’s President Yoweri Museveni signed a bill, despite widespread criticism, to include the possibility of a death sentence. It is called the Anti-Homosexuality Act of 2023. Although same-sex relationships were already illegal in Uganda, the new law, which passed with the support of 341 out of 389 members of

parliament, includes harsher punishments for “promoting” homosexuality and engaging in same-sex relations. Uganda last carried out an execution in 2005.

On August 1, 2023, the United States assumed the presidency of the United Nations Security Council, presenting an opportunity to bring additional focus to issues that are important to the U.S. and that are essential to the Security Council’s mandate of maintaining international peace and security. U.S. Ambassador Linda Thomas-Greenfield is now the new U.N. Security Council’s President. In an interview with Lawrence O’Donnell of MSNBC in July, she indicated that she plans to address the threats impacting LGBTQI+ travelers. Although the U.S. provides funding to Uganda to address HIV/ AIDS in that country, she plans to urge the President of Uganda to stop enacting penalties for those who are LGBTQI+.

According to the Council for Global Equality, countries in Africa where homosexuality is (or was recently) criminalized include Angola, Benin, Botswana, Burundi, Cameroon, Comoros, Eritrea, Ethiopia, Gambia, Ghana, Kenya, Lesotho, Madeira, Malawi, Mauritania, Mauritius, Mayotte, Melilla, Mozambique, Namibia, Nigeria, SADR/Sahrawi Arab Dem. Rep., Sao Tome & Principe, Senegal, Seychelles, Sierra Leone, Somalia, Somaliland, Sudan, Swaziland, Tanzania, Togo, Tristan da Cunha, Uganda, Western Sahara, and Zambia.

In the Middle East/North Africa they include Algeria, Iran, Kuwait, Lebanon, Libya, Morocco, Oman, Palestine, Gaza, Qatar, Saudi

Arabia, Syria, Tunisia, United Arab Emirates, and Yemen.

In Asia they include Afghanistan, Bangladesh, Bhutan, Brunei, Burma, Indonesia, Kiribati, Malaysia, Maldives, Nauru, North Korea, Pakistan, Palau, Papua New Guinea, Philippines, Singapore, Solomon Islands, Sri Lanka, Tonga, Turkmenistan, Tuvalu, and Uzbekistan.

In Europe they include the Turkish Republic Northern Cyprus and Chechnya/Southern Province. And in the Americas and the Caribbean they include Antigua and Barbuda, Barbados, Belize, Dominica, Grenada, Guyana, Jamaica, St. Kitts and Nevis, St. Lucia, St. Vincent and the Grenadines, and Trinidad and Tobago.

Authorities in Russia, India, and Indonesia also tend to prosecute LGBTQI+ individuals. Late last year, for example, Russian President Vladimir Putin signed into law a bill that expands a ban on supposed LGBTQI+ “propaganda.”

Interventions and support by the U.S. are limited by the relationships and connections U.S. representatives have with the particular country. And even here in the U.S., approximately 500 bills restricting the rights of LGBTQI+ community members have been introduced in 2023 so far alone. As for Central and South American countries, there is still persecution of LGBTQ+ people despite some counties there legally permitting same-sex marriages. The same holds true for some of the other aforementioned countries.

Be sure then to do sufficient research on the countries you plan to visit, and also refer to the U.S. Department of State, which has compiled information for LGBTQI individuals who plan to travel abroad: https://tinyurl.com/4m7m2nkf

Eduardo Morales, Ph.D. is a Professor Emeritus, retired Distinguished Professor, and current adjunct professor at Alliant International University. He is also a licensed psychologist and a founder and current Executive Director of AGUILAS, an awardwinning program for Latinx LGBTQ+. Of Puerto Rican decent, he has received numerous distinguished awards and citations, including being named a Fellow of 12 divisions of the American Psychological Association.

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Not every one of these columns has had a theme, but this one is definitely centered around gratitude. What can you say when the popular Hot Cookie on Castro Street dedicates a cookie to you? Ryan Jones of Hot Cookie notified us of this honor a few weeks ago and we discussed his thoughts about flavors, visual presentation, broad appeal, salability, and more. Later, we visited the kitchen of his second location on Polk Street to delve into the creative process. He showed us posters for the past Cookies of the Month and we sampled a few ideas, eventually creating the Donna Sachet Cookie, now available at Hot Cookie, both on Polk Street and Castro Street, for your purchase and enjoyment. Early feedback indicates that the cookie is very sweet ... and why shouldn’t it be? And a portion of all sales will be donated to the charitable cause of our choice, the Rainbow Honor Walk! Thank you, Ryan, for creating the first Cookie of the Month named after a living person.

The cookie was unveiled by Paul Perretta and Cam Cosindad at last month’s Divas & Drinks & Drag at The Academy. This Bay Times party also marked the birthday of Co-Publisher Jennifer Viegas with cake, singing, and a special appearance by ABC7 television personality Dan Ashley. The word Drag was added to this month’s party since we were reminding people of the much-anticipated run of Sunday’s a Drag at Club Fugazi, every Sunday in August. On hand was Christina Ashton, who performed two numbers as Cher and we sang a couple of songs with Dr. Dee Spencer on keyboard. The inevitable and hilarious Name That Tune match pitted champion Team Dykes on Bikes with a new challenger, Team Ad Hoc, for a rowdy game. The longtime champions won out.

Throughout the evening DJ Page Hodel kept the crowd happy with a wide range of musical selections. We are so grateful that this monthly event has continued for three years. Few events fill us with more joy than Flagging in the Park at the AIDS Memorial Grove in Golden Gate Park. On July 29, we accompanied our little puppy Peanut into the park, but got so turned around, we thought we would never find the right spot. During a short break, perched on a deck chair in the shade, a bicycler stopped by, drawn by our hat; it was Julian Marshburn. With his welcome guidance, we soon found the grove, filled with perfect weather, glorious flagging, and hundreds of happy people, as DJ Fernando Delas Carnevalli spun high energy music. We caught up with Suzan Revah, Xavier Caylor, Race Bannon, Jouke Lanning, and so many more, full of love and gratitude.

And finally, Sunday’s a Drag at Club Fugazi opened on Sunday! Khmera Rouge, Holotta Tymes, and Mini Minerva joined us for this first presentation at the iconic Club Fugazi for an exhilarating show with a packed house. To say it took months to get there would be an understatement. We had lunch with Patrick Rylee at the first of the year and he asked about Sunday’s a Drag, which had ended at Harry Denton’s Starlight Room when the COVID pandemic hit. He proposed the idea to David Dower at Club Fugazi and we began to assemble the many pieces necessary to revive the success of this 15-year drag brunch, including a partnership with Tony Gemignani of Tony’s Pizza. Working with the professionals at Club Fugazi was a delight; from sound and lights to serving and house staff, this place runs like clockwork. After brief and sometimes grueling rehearsals, extensive promotional efforts by New Deal Hospitality, and dynamic promotion by our Media Sponsor, the Bay Times, the show opened and suddenly all the work was worth it.

Out front on Green Street, renamed Beach Blanket Babylon Boulevard in honor of the decades that show ran there, was a colorful carnival styled wall you could put your head through and be a drag queen for a moment!

Once inside, a huge projection on the stage read “Donna Sachet presents Sunday’s a Drag at Club Fugazi.” Guests chatted excitedly, noshed on Tony’s Pizza Italian brunch, and sat for the show. The special VIP Tiara Balcony offered special seating for Kerry Eagan and his guests. Even Board of Supervisors President Aaron Peskin stopped by to offer a proclamation in honor of the inaugural event. Then, it was on with the show! We won’t go into great detail here since three Sundays remain for you to see it for yourself. Suffice it to say, those who enjoyed Sunday’s a Drag at The Starlight Room will find the show comfortably familiar, but bigger, grander, and better. New attendees will be treated to the best of Drag in San Francisco in a gorgeous theatrical setting in a show full of glamour, laughter, and positive messaging. In this time of so much negative news and such readiness to give up on San Francisco, Sunday’s a Drag at Club Fugazi couldn’t be more relevant. Come and enjoy it for three more Sundays with the possibility of a renewal early next year, if this run is successful. We couldn’t be more grateful for this unique opportunity and we are so grateful to the many people who showed up for this first show and have already purchased tickets. Best seats are still available August 13 and 27. Don’t miss it!

Donna Sachet is a celebrated performer, fundraiser, activist, and philanthropist who has dedicated over two decades to the LGBTQ Community in San Francisco. Contact her at empsachet@ gmail.com

Sundays, August 13, 20 & 27

Sunday’s a Drag at Club Fugazi Classic San Francisco Drag

Italian brunch by Tony Gemignani of Tony’s Pizza

With Donna Sachet, Holotta Tymes, Mercedez Munro & more Club Fugazi, 678 Green Street 11 am doors, Noon show $75 www.sundaysadrag.com

Friday, August 25

Divas & Drinks @ The Academy

Celebrating Transgender History Month The Klipptones, DJ Page Hodel, Emcee Donna Sachet, the Bacardí Team of mixologists, Transgender community leaders, and more The Academy SF, 2166 Market Street $15, free for Academy members https://www.academy-sf.com/

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Aaron Peskin, President of the City of San Francisco Board of Supervisors, presented a proclamation honoring Donna Sachet "for her lifelong commitment to LGBTQ+ causes and her work to preserve the precious art form of drag, most notably in reviving the 'Sunday's a Drag' brunch cabaret at the historic Club Fugazi, in defiance of the 'doom loop' narrative and in celebration of everything that makes San Francisco fabulous, glamorous, and alive." Donna Sachet with Khmera Rouge, Holotta Tymes, and Mini Minerva at the finale of Sunday's A Drag 's opening performance at Club Fugazi. PHOTO BY JOANIE JUSTER
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Sunday’s a Drag Returns

The audience for the sold-out opening Sunday’s a Drag brunch at Club Fugazi—relaunching the 15-year tradition formerly at Harry Denton’s Starlight Room—applauded with vigor during their standing ovation for the brunch’s show on Sunday, August 6. Following a hiatus due to location closures during the onset of COVID-19, legendary drag artist and San Francisco Bay Times columnist Donna Sachet and producer Patrick Rylee relaunched the event with the first of four performances this month.

Joining Sachet were drag stars Khmera Rouge, Holotta Tymes, and Mini Minerva, each of whom brought their signature personalities and performance styles to the stage. By all accounts, the standing-room-only crowd gave hearty approval to the renewed program, the brunch food service directed by noted restauranteur and chef Tony Gemignani and his team, and the décor of the classic venue that was for decades the home of Beach Blanket Babylon

Pink Triangle project founder Patrick Carney and his husband Dr. Hossein Carney were among those in attendance. Patrick told the Bay Times : “Sunday is no longer a drag; it’s a delight! Donna Sachet and her ladies liven up each Sunday in August with a show stopping good time. It’s glamorous, it’s witty, it’s fun, it’s charming, plus it’s heartwarming and emotional. Hostess Donna Sachet deftly delivers a program with spectacular performances by all. This is drag at its best; an ‘only in San Francisco’ experience!”

Longtime community ally and activist Joanie Juster, who is also a Bay Times columnist, shared, “Donna’s passionate devotion to San Francisco is evident in every moment of the show. Her heart is so big; Sunday’s a Drag is just wonderful.”

The brunch series may be extended next year if there is sufficient interest for the performances scheduled this month. Tickets are available for the remaining three on August 13, 20, and 27 at: https://www.clubfugazisf.com/sundaysadrag

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Women’s Studies Department at San Francisco State in the 1970s, was the first out lesbian to receive tenure at SF State, fought alongside Harvey Milk to defeat the hateful Briggs Initiative (which would have banned homosexuals from teaching in California’s public schools), wrote fantasy novels, and changed minds and our culture.

If you missed the July 9 event, don’t worry: come to OpenHouse on Sunday, August 20, for what promises to be another lively event—“Lesbian, Bisexual, and Queer Women’s Sister Circle Lunch & Sally Documentary.” The director and co-producer of Sally will be on hand to show most of the rough cut, talk about future plans for their film, and talk about how this fascinating, unforgettable, groundbreaking and sometimes controversial woman made history.

The filmmakers describe Sally as “both a wild lesbian safari and a timely and deeply moving meditation on the tensions inherent in revolutionary movements.” Sounds like a don’tmiss event: Sunday, August 20, 12–2 pm, at 75 Laguna Street. RSVP at rsvp@openhousesf.org

Save the Date: Russian River Pride

Pride is not just a week, or a month, or a season. It is celebrated throughout the year in different locales. Locally, it will continue in the Russian River this fall, with Russian River Pride on October 13–15. Organized by the Russian River Alliance, the collection of events will include dance parties, a health fair, art exhibits, films, a parade, and more. Additional details will be coming soon.

One Last Thing: Pippi Needs Our Help

One of the beautiful things about this community is that when someone needs help, the community responds. This became evident when Scott Coker Free, aka beloved drag performer Pippi Lovestocking, suffered a life-altering series of traumatic health issues over the past few months. The response to date has been heartwarming, but his recovery will be a long and expensive journey. Let’s all pitch in and do what we can to help him through this challenge. Cards, letters, supportive messages, and financial support are all needed and welcome. Donate here: https://tinyurl.com/GFMPippi

Until next time, folks. Enjoy Fogust! Joanie Juster is a long-time community volunteer, activist, and ally.

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provisions, but I didn’t have the stomach for that level of detail. I’m no expert, but I do remember “I’m Just a Bill” from Schoolhouse Rock, so I suppose some of these can be excised in the Senate, and better versions of these bills will be returned to the crazy House members who have pledged intransigence at every turn.

Our national credit rating was just downgraded as a result of the games played over the debt limit. What will happen if we can’t keep the government running for weeks or months this fall or winter? And how many of these anti-GLBT measures will survive the messy process and become entrenched in American law?

Oklahoma, Not Okay!

That rundown of Bad Things in The Appropriations Bills was just the sort of news I was hoping to sidestep this week, but in the end, it was unavoidable. Sorry I had to put you through it.

I was reading a number of other story possibilities and stumbled onto one heartwarming tale of a small town in Oklahoma that held a successful Pride festival with the help of a group called Rural Oklahoma Pride. The local press put the event in context, noting that the Oklahoma legislature filed at least 40 anti-GLBT bills in the last session. I then noticed some of the other news links at the bottom of the page; “Nearly half of Oklahoma’s rural hospitals are at risk of closing down,” and, “Experts say money alone can’t solve mental health access issues in Oklahoma’s rural jails.” Another story discussed a shortage of rural doctors, reporting that “the majority of counties are designated as Primary Care Health Professional Shortage Areas by the Oklahoma State Department of Health.”

I had to wonder how much time the Sooner lawmakers spent deliberating on some of these statewide issues, and what they did about any of it while they were busy passing a law against transgender youth health care (which they did last April) or while the Governor was composing an executive order mandating two genders. A good newshound might find the record of the previous session to get a sense of the answer. But I wouldn’t put myself in that category. Remember, it’s August.

Non Sequiturs

Finally, a professional gay dancer was brutally murdered on July 29 while dancing to Beyoncé at a gas station in the Bronx. O’Shae Sibley, 28, was voguing with his friends after a day at the beach, and drew the attention of some violent young men, who told the group to stop dancing and called them homophobic names. One of the men, a 17-yearold who is now in custody, then stabbed Sibley to death. According to The New York Times, some 80 people joined a vigil at the Stonewall Inn in the West Village on August 3, while a memorial was planned for August 5.

In Texas, the ACLU has filed suit on behalf of several GLBT groups and businesses, as well as a drag performer, in a challenge to an anti-drag law set to go into effect September 1. The bill, like many others, does not mention “drag,” but nonetheless bans the “exhibition or representation, actual or simulated, of male or female genitals in a lewd state” as well as “the exhibition of sexual gesticulations using accessories or prosthetics that exaggerate male or female sexual characteristics” on public property or in front of anyone under 18. It effectively outlaws cross dressing and drag performances in most venues. We’ll see. So far, our court cases against these sorts of cleverly worded drag bans have been successful.

And sadly, a manatee has died after having rough sex with his brother at an aquarium in Sarasota. I know. I too thought the gentle sea cow had little to fear beyond speedboat propellors, but it appears that kinky antics are not limited to Czech men with ping pong balls. Hugh, the 38-year-old manatee, suffered a fatal 14-centimeter tear in his colon after his incestuous tryst with brother Buffett. His keepers attempted to separate the pair with “high value treats,” but it seems the damage was done.

Like you, I also thought 38 was kind of old for a manatee, but I see that the creatures live up to 60 years in captivity. Still, I think Hugh and Buffett were too old for these shenanigans and should have known better. Personally, I would have taken the high value treats.

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Celebrating 50 Years of the Grand Ducal Council of San Francisco

When a candidate campaigns to become a Grand Duke or Grand Duchess, there is always a representation of colors that allows voters to know whom they are voting for. In most cases, candidates will also have a “catchphrase” and a coronation theme for their step-down. We have taken a look at the last 44 Royal Houses and have gotten to know a little about each of them. Now, I am featuring the remaining

45th Royal House

Royal Houses one at a time with each leading us to the current Reigning Monarchs and to the candidates of The Grand Ducal Council’s 50th Reign. Here is a spotlight on the 45th

Royal House:

2017–2018

The 45th Royal House of The Sacred Golden Beavers.

Grand Duke XLIV: The Reluctant

Grand Duke Madd Dogg 20/20

Colors: teal and gold

Symbol: golden beaver

Always saying: “Go big or go home.”

Grand Duchess XLV: The Lady of the Bodacious Latkas Miss Shugana

Colors: teal and gold

Symbol: golden beaver

Always Saying: “Gimmie your money.”

Coronation Theme: Russian Mafia

Their Court consisted of:

Royal Crown Prince: Jimmy McConnell

Royal Crown Princess: Miso

Hornay

Prince Royal: Scroto T.

Bagginz

Princess Royale: Kai Kai B.

Michaels

Debutante: Loma Prieta

White Knight: Sean

Royal Babies: Scott Rice & The One and Only Rexy

King of Hearts: Zak Franet

Queen of Hearts: Alabama Slama

Jill of Hearts: Samantha

Royal Bunnies: Gareth Gooch & Menorah Manischevitz

Royal Daddy: Ken Harper

Royal Dominatrix: She Ruhn

California Gold: Dusty Porn

California King: Buster Rite Open

The 45th Royal House has always been one of my favorite Royal Houses. From the very beginning, their campaign was filled with robust excitement, laughter, and tons of bodacious love. After successfully winning their campaigns, members of this Royal House followed up with a year of record-breaking fundraising, electric campiness, and unforgettable fun! The Sacred Golden Beavers proved that all walks of the LGBTQI+ communities are welcomed and embraced within the Grand Ducal Council of San Francisco.

The Sacred Golden Beavers made history with several council records. For example, under the reign of Grand Duke Madd-Dogg 20/20 & Grand Duchess Miss Shugana, they featured the first women monarchs who reigned together. Madd Dogg

20/20 was the first Drag King to hold the title of Grand Duke. And finally, The Sacred Golden Beavers were the first Royal House to raise over $100,000!

The Sacred Golden Beavers presented a court full of diversity to the Ducal Court: trans people, more people of color, women, people who live with neuro divergent conditions, and much more. Also, we can never forget their partic ipation in the SF Pride Parade, where they showcased the Council’s oldest members, whom we all value so highly for their guidance and inspiration: Grand Duchess XVII & XXXIII Collette Le Grand and King Father 2 of California, Grand Duke V Fred Townsend (may he RIP).

Grand Duchess Miss Shugana and Grand Duke Madd Dogg 20/20 both began their journey with the Grand Ducal Council in 2015. I asked the Grand Duchess on behalf of the San Francisco Bay Times what inspired her to join the GDC. She said, “Peter Griggs (Grand Duke 43) asked me to run for Queen of Hearts and Madd Dogg 20/20 to run for King of Hearts. We both agreed and then we were hooked on all the good we could do for the community, how we could bring awareness to causes, and how we could raise funds for much needed organizations.”

I also asked, “Why Beavers?” The Grand Duchess replied, “Well, King Father 2 of California Grand Duke V Fred Townson told us that the sky is the limit and to ‘put it in their face’ ... so we did ... and all of you joined us with your big hearts and your fierce determination to make a difference.”

She added, “We are so proud of the court that we assembled. Each of you will forever hold a special place in our heart and we are here to support you in your dreams.”

Grand Duchess Miss Shugana and Grand Duke Madd Dogg 20/20 have been together for 8+yrs. Together they have produced many shows and have inspired a new generation of performers. They are now the new producers of WWRR 2024 (Women’s Weekend Russian River 2024). Both of these extraordinary women consistantly give support and guidance to our communities and I am extremely blessed to call them my friends and chosen family.

On September 22, 2023, the Grand Ducal Council of San Francisco will celebrate 50 years of Camp and Fundraising. The celebration will take place at the Academy of Sciences in San Francisco. Please consider becoming a sponsor.

Inquiries: 50thanniversary@sfducal.org

Ticket sales for this event have been extended to September 1, 2023, ($60) and are on sale now through September 1, 2023, with a hard stop on that final date. Save the dates both for your ticket purchases and for this once-in-a-lifetime historic event!

https://www.sfducal.org/

Kippy Marks is Grand Duke XL of The Grand Ducal Council of San Francisco. He is the first ever elected African-American Grand Duke.

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The Dynamic Duo Behind Iconic Visions, a New Public Art Installation at Presidio Tunnel Tops

Iconic Visions, a new public art installation being created at Presidio Tunnel Tops as part of the Ancestral Futurism Art Mentorship, will be celebrated on Sunday, August 13, 2023. It is the work of Native American fine art painter Felicia Gabaldon, who is being mentored by fellow artist, Favianna Rodriquez. Rodriquez, a queer woman who is an environmental justice activist as well as an artist, created the first installation of the art project that was unveiled in July of 2022 at Tunnel Tops located at 210 Lincoln Boulevard in San Francisco.

“Through this collaboration, we aim to promote inclusivity, cultural exchange, and the vital role that art plays in shaping our relationship with the land,” Rodriguez said. “Together, we can create a powerful platform for Native American artists like Felicia to share their perspectives, challenge existing narratives, and inspire us all to be better stewards of the earth.”

Gabaldon is originally from Santa Fe, New Mexico, and currently resides in Oakland where she is the resident artist at Faultline Artspace. She uses nostalgic illustrations to manifest the natural beauty of the American Southwest while also reexamining it. Influenced by desert landscapes drawing from her identity as an American Indian of the Choctaw Tribe with Spanish Heritage, her paintings represent a distant reverence of self-discovery, culture, and history. Her art can be seen in galleries in San Francisco or as far away as the ARTSCAPE SAGA urban art project in Gothenburg, Sweden.

“Moving to the Bay Area was very inspiring in terms of the art landscape in a big city,” Gabaldon said. “I started to gather inspiration from this space as well as New Mexico. Finding my voice allowed me to express myself culturally and indigenously. I hope that when people see my art, they also feel welcome to express themselves.”

Building on the long tradition of art in the park, Ancestral Futurism is part of the Partnership for the Presidio’s efforts to create a more welcoming and inclusive park through public art that speaks to diverse communities. Since the inaugural installation in July 2022, Rodriguez’s colorful ground murals have become platforms for imagination and play, prompting discussion and learning about biodiversity, climate change, colonialism, and the repressive history of the Presidio. For Iconic Visions, Gabaldon is creating large-scale ground murals of images of Presidio creatures like coyotes, quails, and monarch butterflies at the Outpost Plaza, located between the Field Station (601 Mason Street) and the Outpost playground at the Presidio Tunnel Tops. The celebration on August 13, as part of the Presidio Sunday Afternoons series, is called “Harmony Unleashed: Music and Art for Mother Earth.” It will take place from 1 pm–5 pm and will feature music from Rene y Familia and Audiopharmacy, DJ Sizzle Fantastic, and more. Visitors will also get to meet both Gabaldon and Rodriguez.

“This event celebrates the vital role that art plays in shaping our

relationship with the land,” Rodriguez shared. “Art and culture are our most powerful tools to inspire the social change these times demand. Our current relationship to the earth is based on destructive myths that have shaped our cultural imaginations since colonization. We need artists to help us imagine a future where together we thrive with nature.”

To make a free reservation to attend “Harmony Unleashed: Music and Art for Mother Earth” on August 13, go to: https://tinyurl.com/5ep2t99j

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Sister Dana Sez: Words of Wisdumb from a Fun Nun

Sister Dana sez, “Happy Transgender History Month!

Unfortunately and obviously, MAGA Republicans did not get the memo!”

On August 2, at City Hall, Mayor’s Balcony, Mayor London Breed joined elected and city officials, LGTBQ leaders, and community members to kick off TRANS HISTORY MONTH. There was the TRANSGENDER FLAG RAISING along with many moving speeches.

In San Francisco, the Tenderloin is home to THE TRANSGENDER DISTRICT, created in 2018 as Compton’s Transgender Cultural District, the nation’s first legally recognized district dedicated to the transgender, non-binary, and intersex community. Transgender History Month honors the 57th anniversary of the COMPTON’S CAFETERIA RIOTS, which occurred in August 1966 in San Francisco’s Tenderloin district, marking the beginning of transgender activism in San Francisco. A response to violent and constant police harassment, this incident was one of the first LGBTQ uprisings in United States history, preceding the better-known 1969 STONEWALL RIOTS in New York City.

Last week, the House Judiciary Committee convened a hearing on gender-affirming care for minors— and as expected, it was full of dangerous messages and misinformation from far-right committee members and several of their “expert” witnesses. EQUALITY CALIFORNIA noted that among the few moments of levelheadedness in the meeting was the testimony of Shannon Minter, Legal Director at the NATIONAL CENTER FOR LESBIAN RIGHTS (NCLR), and himself an out transgender man. During his remarks, he highlighted the disparities in the repeated attacks against the trans community—including the fact that the anti-trans laws extremist Republicans seem determined to pass would affect less than one percent of the population.

Sister Dana sez, “Congratulations to baritone Scott Hoying becoming a newlywed during a two-month break in the a cappella group Pentatonix’s world tour. He married model Mark Manio last month!”

GAPA presents Runway 2023: INTO THE LOOKING GLASS on August 19, 7 pm at Herbst Theatre. Join the QTAPI community in cheering on Mx., Ms., and Mr. GAPA contestants as they demonstrate their talents, show off their evening wear, and answer Q&A questions in competition to become GAPA Royalty. The reigning Mx GAPA 2022 Obsidienne Obsurd and reigning Mx GAPA 2022 Siam Pussie will be stepping down to welcome the next generation of titleholders.

GAPA Runway sprang from an underground dance party held in

1988 for QTAPI people to gather in safety, solidarity, and celebration. In the 35 years since the first Miss GAPA was crowned, GAPA’s annual pageant has become a signature event and the biggest QTAPI production of the year. It’s an incredible night of glamour, glitz, talent, and artistry.

https://www.gapa.org/

There is a point when extreme wealth is, by definition, extreme power. We have reached that point.

Concentrated wealth is suffocating our democracy, threatening our economic system, and undermining our social cohesion. A government that works only for billionaires while ordinary Americans suffer cannot withstand authoritarian forces and extremists. To combat this threat, Representatives Barbara Lee (CA-12), Summer Lee (PA-12), and other lawmakers have introduced the Oppose Limitless Inequality Gro wth and Reverse Community Harms (OLIGARCH) Act. The OLIGARCH Act would establish a wealth tax with four brackets.

https://actionnetwork.org/

We are all familiar with Drag Queen Story Hour, but did you hear about SEX WORKER STORY HOUR? It was at Fabulosa Books in the Castro on July 25. Two authors read from their latest biographies. Allen Silver wrote Man of Use: A Sensitive Texas Boy Finds Purpose and Fulfillment in Erotic Service Don Shewy wrote Daddy, Lover, God: A Sacred Intimate Journey It was a delightful event, especially since I got to hug my friend Allen Silver and take a photo with him.

Coming to Fabulosa Books at 489 Castro Street on August 17, 7 pm, are two authors reading from their books.

Daniel Curzon’s new book, All Creatures Sad and Funny, includes his drawings as well as writing. Richard May will read from his new short story collection, Because of Roses. There is usually wine and chocolate served with these fabulous Fabulosa affairs.

I write the following because it gives me hope for our democracy: Trump was arraigned in the D.C. Court near the site of the horrible January 6 attack on 4 counts. Those were:

Conspiracy to Defraud the United States, Conspiracy to Obstruct an Official Proceeding, Obstruction of and Attempt to Obstruct an Official Proceeding, and Conspiracy Against People’s Right to Vote and Have Their Votes Counted. Sister Dana sez, “Go, Prosecutor Jack Smith, go! Give us four convictions on August 28 and sentences to jail for Trump’s insurrection!”

And how does Trump respond after being warned against retaliation? On his social media, he states in all caps and bold: “IF YOU GO AFTER ME, I’M COMING AFTER YOU!”

THE SOUTHERN POVERTY

LAW CENTER has branded the right-wing funded Republican-led Moms for Liberty as an “extremist anti-government” entity, placing it

alongside the infamous KKK, Proud Boys, and the Patriot Front. They have organized support with the Proud Boys, the Oath Keepers, and other groups involved in the violent attack on the Capitol on January 6, to threaten, harass, and intimidate teachers, librarians, and even entire school boards across the country. Sister Dana sez, “Moms for Liberty are NOT for liberty— unless that’s freedom for critical thinking about racism, slavery, inclusivity, white supremacy, and homophobia!”

During a barbecue in New Hampshire, Ron DUH Santis offered up a bit of the old ultra-violence when boasting about what he would do to the “deep state.” DeSantis told

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Sister Merry Peter captured an engaging photo of Sister Dana behind the scenes during prepatations, with designer Bridget McCrakin, for the Sister’s Project Nunway show. (2022)

Film

The charming gay romance Red, White, and Royal Blue is the fabulous screen adaptation of queer writer Casey McQuiston’s irresistible bestseller about the unexpected love affair that develops between Alex Claremont-Diaz (Taylor Zakhar Perez), the First Son of President Ellen Claremont (Uma Thurman) and Prince Henry (Nicholas Galitzine), of Britain’s royal family. The scions, however, are enemies at first. It is only after they are forced to do damage control following an “international incident” that they realize they share feelings for each other. But then they have to keep their relationship from being discovered— especially as President Claremont is running for re-election.

In his directorial film debut, Matthew López, who co-wrote the screenplay, makes Red, White, and Royal Blue swoon-inducing as the two lovers engage in their clandestine romance. López recently spoke with me for the San Francisco Bay Times about his enchanting new film, which will be available for streaming at Prime on August 11.

Gary M. Kramer: This is your first feature film as a director following a very successful career as a playwright. What prompted you to shift into cinema, and why was this the right project for you?

New Romcom Red, White, and Royal Blue Is Swoon-Inducing

Matthew López: I had always wanted to make movies, ever since I became a movie junkie as a teenager. Theater was much more accessible to me as a creative person because of my family and the proximity of living in New York. I was looking for a film project and I had a couple of different things I was circling. Then my agent sent me this book, thinking I might want to turn it into a musical, and I said, “Sure, but let’s turn it into a movie.” It’s funny, when you know, you know. I read this book and could see the movie. I was filled with a very strong desire to be the person to make this film. I tenaciously went after the job. The two characters were too compelling not to want to live in their world and tell their story.

Gary M. Kramer: How did you lean into or away from romcom tropes? There are swoony moments, such as Alex and Henry dancing in an empty museum. How did you make the film romantic?

Matthew López: I think there is something inherently romantic about two people who want to be together but can’t. You can’t go wrong having two loves and putting a wall between them. That’s why there are apt references to Pyramus and Thisbe in the novel. The romantic infrastructure was already in place. The inherently romantic settings of palaces and the White House help. We used these locations to create an atmosphere of romance. It was a conscious decision that the movie needed to operate in a way that was lush and cinematic. At the end of the day, all of that is academic without Taylor and Nick. If I inherited a lot from the novel, and I engineered with my cinematographer and designers, the last thing was getting lucky with those two guys.

Gary M. Kramer: The film is about queer visibility. Can you talk about this theme, which is crucial to several emotional moments in Red, White, and Royal Blue?

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Matthew López: What always drew me to the novel is the idea of two people who have so much access to so much—as Henry and Alex do—having infinite choices about their lives. What I thought was so beautiful and painful about the book is the paradox they live in. They have fewer options than some people might. To be a Prince of England and gay you’d think, “Jackpot!,” but instead, that’s terrible, because he can never tell the world who he is. He can be one or the other, but not both. There is this beautiful tale within the fairytale. I never saw this story as a story of selfacceptance. I see it as finding a way of bending the world to the truth of who you are. We talked about this movie as being about young people in old buildings. It’s about people who find themselves up against the force of institutions that insist that they be one thing. And instead of bending themselves to these institutions, they bend these institutions to themselves. It is knowing who they are, and not budging on who they are as these seemingly immovable institutions bend around them.

Gary M. Kramer: What observations do you have with the issues of privacy in the film and how public figures must navigate their personal lives and the media?

Matthew López: It’s always been true, and the social media age hasn’t really changed it. We know as much

about public figures as they allow us to know, and a lot of public figures use the media and social media to be known in the world. But Alex and Henry are a perfect example of how you don’t really know a person because they are on your TV screen or in your cinema. A person’s heart is not the same thing as their Instagram page. What the novel does brilliantly, and what I wanted to capture in the movie, is what do public figures owe the people who follow them, and who are fans of theirs and what do we owe them in exchange for giving them the pleasure or thrill of seeing them operate in the world. For Henry and Alex, the big struggle for them is: How do I maintain a sense of individual self in the face of being one of the most famous individuals in the world? Just because we see them on our screens doesn’t mean we have a right to know everything about them—only to the extent that they are willing to share it. Most people choose to live publicly, but Alex and Henry are given no choice. Everyone has a right to privacy and an interior life. Red, White, and Royal Blue reminds people that public figures have an interior life that we do not have a right to access.

© 2023 Gary M. Kramer

Gary M. Kramer is the author of “Independent Queer Cinema: Reviews and Interviews,” and the co-editor of “Directory of World Cinema: Argentina.” Follow him on Twitter @garymkramer

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Bumpy Rides and Soft Landings: Stories From a No-Holds-Barred Male Flight Attendant

Words

Michele Karlsberg: James Pauley, Jr., who has been jet-setting around the world since the late 1970s as a flight attendant, keeps rapt readers turning the pages of Bumpy Rides and Soft Landings, with its stories about coming out, flying high, not learning how to play the piano, and more.

As someone whose innate filter doesn t always work, Pauley writes it exactly as he sees it. Crafted in his uniquely humorous, poignant, sarcastic, selfdeprecating, honest, and mildly outrageous style, the book has him recounting stories of growing up different, while learning important lessons from even the most unlikely of sources: a chili dog, a nasty queen, a cursing coworker, a Porta-Potty, a stranger’s judgment, a sore butt, a new piano, a tiny scar, a grieving widow, and a hateful bully.

With the millions of miles he’s logged in over the years, along with the thousands of diverse and colorful characters he’s met and observed along the way, he knows one thing for certain: On this journey called life, with no GPS or autopilot to help us navigate, no one truly knows what their final destination will be. And, because the

ride will undoubtedly be turbulent at times, it’s best just to fasten your seat belts, learn from the experience, and always hope for a soft landing. Please enjoy the following excerpt from one of the chapters, “A Smile or a Smirk,” included in Bumpy Rides and Soft Landings: Stories of Coming Out, Flying High, and Not Learning to Play the Piano: I have loved my career for almost forty-five years. I’ve met and interacted

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Lit Snax

Gay Lives by Robert Aldrich Aldrich has compiled over 80 mini-bios of LGBTQ+ people from throughout history and around the world. The book contains some lush color pictures, too!

Uranians by Theodore McCombs

This collection of short speculative fiction explores the social experience of queerness through the lens of a future world where relationships are even more driven by technology than our own.

https://www.fabulosabooks.com/

Daddy Boy by Emerson Whitney

After a decade-long relationship with a dominatrix, living as a submissive, Emerson Whitney forged a new identity by chasing storms. This is a memoir of transformation and exploration of gender.

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The Peach Seed (fiction - hardbound) by Anita Gail Jones

This is a sweeping multigenerational novel from a Bay Area author who shows the origins of one South Georgia family’s tradition of giving carved peach seed monkeys to all male descendants. It also shows how the family’s modern day sons and daughters navigate the legacies of America’s Civil Rights Movement and the far-reaching impacts of the 1800 slave trade from Northern Senegal to Charleston, South Carolina. An indelible portrait of a family, The Peach Seed explores how kin pass down legacies of sorrow, joy, and strength. It is a parable of how a glimmer of hope as small as a seed can ripple across generations.

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At once exquisite and expansive, and astonishing in its humanity and heart, Yerba Buena is a love story for our time and a propulsive journey through the lives of two women finding their way in the world.

What’s the T?: The Guide to All Things Trans and/or Nonbinary (YA/nonfiction - paperback) by Juno Dawson

From bestselling author Juno Dawson (This Book Is Gay) comes a candid, funny, illustrated guide that helps readers discover what it means to be a young trans and/or non-binary person in the twenty-first century. In What’s the T?, Stonewall ambassador Dawson defines a myriad of labels and identities. She offers uncensored advice on coming out, sex, and relationships with her trademark humor and lightness of touch.

Upcoming Events

Saturday, August 12 @ 7 pm (ticketedCorte Madera store) Andrew McCarthy, author of Walking With Sam

(This event is presented as part of the 2023 Travel Writers & Photographers Conference.)

When Andrew McCarthy’s eldest son began to take his first steps into adulthood, McCarthy found himself wishing time would slow down.

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TLC: Tears, Laughs and Conversation

Have you ever left a job and been invited back a year later to see how things are going in your absence? Well, that’s exactly what happened to me. Of course, I said, “Yes.” To put it in showtune speak, approximately five hundred twenty-five thousand, six hundred minutes after walking off the stage at Davies for the final time, I was back. But this time, I entered through the lobby, down the aisle, and into Orchestra Row C Seats 101 and 103. (Thanks, Chris.) I didn’t have on formal attire, was not carrying a baton, and my blood pressure was much lower than a year earlier. The last time I was invited to hear SFGMC (the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus) in concert was Christmas Eve, 2010, at the Castro Theatre. That night, I was introduced as the next Artistic Director beginning in January 2011. Just before that, in 2009, I guest conducted SFGMC at Davies. I took an Uber to the concert. The driver, a dead ringer for Bob Marley, asked where I was going. I told him I was conducting the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus. He immediately proclaimed, “Oh, they are good!” He emphasized and elongated the “good” for maximum effect. I asked if he had heard them. He said, “No, but I know they are good.” That is brand awareness you can’t buy. Well, I can tell you that in 2023, they are good—emphasize and elongate that, please. They are not just good, but amazing!

It was awe-inspiring to experience SFGMC from the pews of the Davies church house for the first time ever. I now understand the visceral experience of entering that enormous hall, witnessing that huge stage just waiting to be filled with singers, instrumentalists, and a conductor (or two). Holy smoke. Anyone who is not bowled over seeing the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus has obviously lost their bowl somewhere along the way.

But let me back up before finding our seats. The chorus has had a tradition since the nineties of singing “Irish Blessing” to family members backstage before every performance. It began in the peak of the AIDS pandemic when having family members attend a rehearsal or performance was rare. It meant the world to the entire chorus—even if not their own family member. I am told it would often be one or two. Well, that has grown. You may have seen it in the documentary Gay Chorus Deep South. For more than a decade, I was up on some random chair or small ladder leading this beautiful, intimate family moment. This time, I was the one invited to come backstage as a family member—no chair or ladder involved. There must have been more than 30 singers with family members backstage. Each is introduced (quickly). At that point, Jake introduced me as one of the folks being officially inducted! It was an incredibly special moment with singers’ arms around our shoulders surrounded by the gorgeous a cappella sound of the chorus. Magic.

My Trip Down the Yellow Brick Road

From there, Bobby Jo and I literally ran to our seats. The full San Francisco Symphony Orchestra was already there just waiting to accompany the chorus. You gotta love that! The singers entered to thunderous applause. Jake entered to even more thunder! He looked as if he had been conducting top-tier, world-class symphony orchestras his whole life. Of course, it’s a collaboration, a dance. But someone must lead, and someone must follow. For this night, SFGMC was Gladys Knight and the orchestra the Pips! He was in the lead every step of that dance. Jake masterfully led the symphony through the overture—a teaser of what the evening would hold. It was arranged by the amazing Nick Perez, Principal Accompanist and Music Supervisor. Then the chorus joined the orchestra in a rip-roarin’, fully choreographed “Saturday Night’s Alright (for Fighting).” There was no fighting going on. With that, I was finally able to calm my own nerves enough to sit back and revel in the experience. Everything was just fine at my old workplace! Throughout the years, I have heard this about SFGMC singers, “They sing with such passion and commitment. Their energy literally bursts from the stage.” They were right. I was taken aback by the discipline, the delivery, and the dynamism. Spectacular is a word that comes to mind.

The evening was a romp down all sorts of yellow brick roads for an audience filled with Friends of Dorothy and allies. How fun is that?

We had some Wizard, some Wicked, and some Wiz

I was happy Jake shared the podium with Mitch Galli, Associate Director of Music Education & Outreach. Mitch conducted the opening number at last year’s concert. That means he has conducted the symphony twice as many times as Jake or I have! The first half was filled with favorites including “Rocket Man” and “Popular.” It closed with the chorus defying gravity and soaring over the big gay rainbow. It was a crazy good and unexpected mashup of those two big gay anthems and it was a big wow!

Intermission was much different, too. This time around, I got to have a drink! Prosecco. And, even more surprising, I got to bring it to my seat—in a plastic cup with a lid.

Klassy with a K. I also got to see so many friends. A year before, I was

nervously going over the music for the second half.

While I was getting my Prosecco on, the symphony departed the stage allowing room for SFGMC to display more of its signature fun with dancers, ensembles, and production numbers. The Lollipop Guild, now 45 years old and under the direction of Paul Saccone, opened their set singing, “We represent the Lollipop Guild.” It brought the house down (not on the witch). They brought out the evening’s 1st (certainly not last) drag extravaganza with Elton John’s “My Strongest Suit” from Aida. It was a kaleidoscope of beauty (in the eyes of this beholder).

HomoPhonics wowed the audience with its amazing tight harmonies on “As Long as You’re Mine” from Wicked, arranged by their director Mitch , and kicked it up with “The Bitch Is Back.” (I thought for a moment this song was dedicated to me, but soon realized it was not!)

There were too many highlights to enumerate. The absolute joy of singing was evident on the faces of the singers. There is really nothing as exciting as hearing a couple hundred tenors and basses ring the rafters. The music selection was super fun and it was obvious to all that the chorus loved giving every one of its musical gifts to the audience. It was

also wonderful to hear an update from CEO Chris Verdugo that the renovations are almost complete at 170 Valencia, the home of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus and the Chan National Queer Arts Center. This is a dream come true. Please stay tuned for exciting things to come on this front. Among the highlights was the tribute to Steve Valdez, SFGMC’s longtime choreographer and show producer, positions he has held for 29 years. This is an incredible run in any arts organization. He is moving to Palm Springs but will continue being on the SFGMC team remotely. His best friend, Michael Tate, shared the tribute that included a proclamation that July 19, 2023, would forever be known as Steve Valdez Day in San Francisco. It is impossible to put into words the impact Steve has had on the chorus. Not only has he choreographed every number, but he has also been intimately involved in creating the shows themselves, selecting repertoire, and helping craft shows that would wow the audience at every turn. All of this he’s done as a volunteer, despite our attempts to pay him. His talent is only eclipsed by his character. He is one of the kindest, most gentle people I have ever known. I am so happy to know he is staying involved.

The show came to a huge climax with the chorus and band performing “Goodbye Yellow Brick Road/ I’m Still Standing.” This was also arranged by Nick Perez. It was bittersweet as it was announced he would be moving to New York City in the fall. He was a huge gift to SFGMC, helping us rise out of the pandemic. The medley was the perfect message and brought the audience to our feet.

So, how’s the old homestead?

They’ve made some changes, of course, such as new curtains (wardrobe), new paint (wicked green brooches), and new shining faces in the chorus. But the place looks fantastic. It is impossible to really compare standing on the podium to sitting in the audience. They could not be more different. That said, I am so happy it is Jake standing up there and I am also happy it is Tim in the seat! Both things are the way they are supposed to be. I am certain we will both be in those very same places for many years to come. I can’t wait for more. My heart is full.

Dr. Tim Seelig is the Conductor Laureate of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus.

http://www.timseelig.com/

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Dr. Tim Seelig Photos by Stefan Cohen/San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus

Hello Yellow Brick Road: San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus & San Francisco Symphony

The San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus (SFGMC) closed out Season 45 with the Chorus’ second collaboration with the San Francisco Symphony: an exceptional program entitled Hello Yellow Brick Road. The concert, presented on the evening of July 19 at Davies Symphony Hall, combined highlights from Elton John’s groundbreaking album, Goodbye Yellow Brick Road—marking its 50th anniversary—along with favorites from The Wizard of Oz, The Wiz, and Stephen Schwartz’s blockbuster musical, Wicked

As the performance start time neared, a wave of palpable energy stirred through arriving guests in the left side aisle of the Orchestra section at Davies. SFGMC devotees recognized the familiar form of

Conductor Laureate Dr. Tim Seelig, who is also a Bay Times columnist. Smiling, hugging, and greeting audience members, he moved not to the stage but to his seat, which was strategically selected for the best possible view. This was his invited guest return for the first time since retiring (that is to say, retiring “Seelig style,” meaning he is still very active in the arts and more) and relocating a year prior.

Then began the much-anticipated concert with SFGMC under the direction of Conductor Jacob Stensberg. Both Stensberg and the Chorus deftly presented the diverse array of music that still beautifully connected together as a dreamy, cohesive whole. Elton’s hits, in particular, were met with rousing

applause from the rapt audience. The songs included “Rocket Man,” “Tiny Dancer,” “Crocodile Rock,” “Your Song,” “Don’t Let the Sun Go Down on Me,” and much more.

SFGMC CEO Chris Verdugo joined Stensberg in expressing appreciation for the evening’s sellout success thanks to support from LGBTQ+ community members and allies as well as from Chorus members, donors, and volunteers. Also mentioned was the forthcoming official opening of the Chan National Queer Arts Center, a first of its kind facility, made possible by the generosity of Terrance D. Chan and Edward Sell along with many other supporters. https://www.sfgmc.org

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Steve Valdez Longtime choreographer Steve Valdez received heartfelt recognition for his decades of talented assistance, much to the delight of the chorus on stage and the audience in the house. Michael Tate, former SFGMC president, read the proclamation and expressed great appreciation for Valdez’s years of service. Photos by Stefan Cohen/San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus

This Month at the Castro Farmers’ Market Farmers’ Market Week - Celebrate the Best in Summer Produce

Farmers’ Market Week highlights the vital role that farmers’ markets play in our nation’s food system. We celebrate it the first week in August and this year it takes place through August 12. Each year a different theme is highlighted, featuring one of the many aspects of farmers’ markets. This year we recognize all the people it takes to put a farmers’ market together.

The campaign is centered on the essential role that farmers’ market operators play, both in our local food systems and in our communities. For more than fifty years, farmers’ markets have influenced the way Americans eat, shop, and connect to their food, their farmers, and one another. Farmers’ markets are more than market places. They are places where neighbors learn, grow, and work together.

Greg Pursley, Regional Manager, states, “Most customers who go to their local farmers’ market don’t think about the fact that someone had to organize and fill this event and make it happen week after week. There are many others, besides the market manager, who make it happen—marketing, administration, and others. There are state and city regulations we have to follow as well.”

So, this month we celebrate all those behind-the-scenes folks who put a farmers’ market together to bring you the best experience, the best produce, and a fun time each week.

This month we’re featuring sweet corn, one of summer’s favorite veggies. Sweet yellow, white, and bicolor corn is the star of summer picnics and barbecues. There’s nothing better than sitting down to a big crisp ear of sweet summer corn on the cob. Grilled or boiled, corn on the cob is a real treat that’s hard to top for flavor, freshness, and just plain deliciousness. Corn is now available at your local farmers’ market through early August.

Corn has a long and varied history and it wouldn’t exist if it weren’t for the humans who developed it. Corn as we know it does not grow in the wild. It was developed from a grass called teosinte. Most people think of corn as a vegetable, but it’s really a grain. Scientists believe that corn was developed by the native peoples living in central Mexico over 7000 years ago. Also known as

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AIR FRYER (OR OVEN) CORN RIBS

2 ears fresh corn on the cob

1 tbsp ghee butter, room temp

1 tbsp olive oil

½ tsp coarse sea salt

½ tsp smoked or sweet paprika

½ tsp garlic powder

½ tsp each parsley and oregano, plus more for garnish

Garnish with mayonnaise

Prepare the corn: remove from the husk and cut off the ends. Microwave the whole corn on the cob on high for 2 minutes. Let cool to the touch.

Slice whole corn into ribs with a sharp chef’s knife and a steady cutting board by placing the corn vertically (stand it up) and carefully and slowly dice it in half, then dice those halves into quarters.

Combine seasonings from butter to parsley. Brush the ribs with the seasonings on all sides.

Air fry: Place the ribs in a single layer with some space in-between. Air fry at 400°F (204°C) for 12 minutes total (flip after 6 minutes).

Oven: Place the ribs on a lined baking sheet. Bake at 425°F for 12–15 minutes or until they are lightly charred and a little crispy.

Serve: Brush the corn ribs with a thin layer of mayo and sprinkle with more parsley on top. Serve hot or at room temperature.

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When I was in high school in Boston

I had a best friend, G, who became my lover when we were sophomores and that continued for four more years. I slept with her the night before her first marriage (1 of 3) and I knew he was a lying scoundrel. But you can’t say that to your lover as she marries somebody else! During the aftermath of the several times he broke her heart, I was happy to be a comforting shoulder (only the shoulder, I swear).

I watched her raise her children with her mother as back-up (when #1 evaporated) and admired the way love seemed to run in her maternal line. She’s a Black church-going Christian; over the decades we’ve stayed connected. I’m proud she’d say we were sisters. She came to San Francisco when Diane Sabin and I wed, and I guessed that was the largest crowd of queer people she’d ever experienced.

Jewelle Gomez

Let’s Eat Cake Now

When I told her there was a photo of her and her mother in the documentary about me

( https://qwocmap.org/jewelle/ ) and that I was having their faces masked, she insisted that wasn’t necessary. She had no understanding of the problem—a distant relative or church

friend could mysteriously see the film and attack her or her children. Her husband (#3) could see the film and go berserk. She lives outside the concerns of homophobia.

Maybe because she’s from my past and we see each other so infrequently, I’ve never tried to break through to her so she knows the pain or the danger. My bad. Still I’m saying happy birthday to her this August as I have for fifty years, this time in print. I appreciate how much of who she’s been has made me who I am as a lover and as a lesbian/feminist activist.

Another birthday this August is James Baldwin’s. In 2011, I wrote my play about Baldwin, Waiting for Giovanni, after spending a couple of years rereading his entire oeuvre as well as critical essays about his work. Finding a way into the story of such a fabled thinker, activist, and writer

intimidated me, but two things opened the door.

In an interview, he talked about how nervous he was to go south to demonstrate in the 1950s during the Civil Rights Movement. Then, in a serendipitous meeting, I got to talk with one of Baldwin’s editors from the 1950s, who mentioned how upset Baldwin was because of disapproval of his novel, Giovanni’s Room. The fact that two gay, white characters were at the center of the story seemed to annoy those on the right and the left. It was then that I appreciated Baldwin even more—his human instincts, fear, and anxiety made him heroic to me. He wrote and persisted despite his fears. This gave me the courage to tackle a play that might do some justice to his brave and poetic life and to write what I wanted to, no matter what the opposition might be— whether from left or right.

The third August birthday to celebrate is for the Black Lesbian Feminist Press ( https://www.blfpress.com/ ).

Founded by Dr. Stephanie Andrea Allen—a writer of speculative fiction, a humanities scholar, and university professor—the press is in its ninth year with ten publications, including

August Update, and Looking Back on June Pride

my own new collection of poetry. With editors Lauren Cherelle and Andie Hayes, the press has enjoyed enormous popularity by filling a space lesbian/feminists of color have hungered for since Kitchen Table Women of Color Press closed.

It’s impossible to imagine the ingenuity, fortitude, and love it takes to start an independent press at any time, but especially in this period when the fallout from the #45 continues to infect conservatives around the country and they try to smash any progress made for women, queers, and people of color of the previous century. I celebrate the press’ birthday as the progeny of a feminist movement that survives and has given voice to so many whose voices were stolen, including my own.

Jewelle Gomez is a lesbian/feminist activist, novelist, poet, and playwright. She’s written for “The Advocate,” “Ms. Magazine,” “Black Scholar,” “The San Francisco Chronicle,” “The New York Times,” and “The Village Voice.” Follow her on Instagram and Twitter @VampyreVamp

Dykes on Bikes®

Tales From Two Wheels

Hello, Summer! Hopefully the beauty of June’s Pride Sunday carried forward through July and into August for everyone. As I reflect on Pride Weekend, I would like to say a heartfelt thank you to all of the volunteers who help make the San Francisco Dykes on Bikes

Women’s Motorcycle Contingent’s ride down Market Street such a success.

We had people assist with unloading and categorizing our equipment from our storage unit at—you guessed it—U-Haul. And I want to thank all of the DOB volunteers who helped make our fundraiser at The Academy SF a great success: DJ Rockaway, who provided amazing music for the community to dance to, and the many local community businesses that supported us with items for our annual fundraiser, and to DOB members who purchased items from these shops to help round out our auction baskets. Here’s a list of the amazing donors. If you are inclined, please help thank these supportive businesses with your dollars, too.

• San Francisco Harley-Davidson (Mission Street & Cesar Chavez Location);

• Cycle Gear (Harrison at 12th);

• Press & Mortar Gourmet Lifestyle;

• Succulence;

• Souvla;

• San Francisco Tequila Shop;

• Goorin Brothers;

• Laughing Monk Brewing;

• Bernal Beast;

• Bernal Star Restaurant;

• 12 Small Things;

• Gratta Market & Winery;

• Butchertown Gourmet;

• Tallios Coffee & Tea;

• Flora Grubb;

• Hard Knox Southern Homestyle Cooking;

• Love Socks and DOB Patchholders Ellen and Judith!

To those of you who joined us bright and early on the morning of Pride to help us set up, get riders registered, direct riders to their lineup location, put helmets and gear in boxes, and participated as Road Captains during the Parade, thank you! Our ride on Pride Sunday truly is the culmination of many months of planning and organizing.

To our Patch-holders and our Prospects, to our fellow clubs that ride, to all of the Dykes who join us with their motorcycle engines roaring, and to all of our allies and supporters there to cheer us on as we roll down Market Street, thank you!

While July is typically a slow month for us, members of Dykes on Bikes continued to be out and about, helping to kick off the Reno Pride Parade in mid-July. And I’m excited that, at our last meeting, we had the opportunity to spend time with people from Salt Lake City, Utah; Reno, Nevada; Honolulu, Hawaii; and Vancouver, Canada, who are interested in starting Dykes on Bikes chapters in their areas. I’m looking forward to helping these individuals bring Dykes on Bikes to their hometowns as the national and international community that is

Dykes on Bikes continues to expand. And, I would be remiss if I didn’t welcome as part of this article our newest official chapter, Dykes on Bikes Seattle, which became official at the beginning of June and just in

time for their Pride Parade.

Kate Brown, Ph.D., is the President of San Francisco Dykes on Bikes® Women’s Motorcycle Contingent.

https://www.dykesonbikes.org/

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Bar Sprezzatura and Fattoria e Mare: Now, That’s Italian!

The Gay Gourmet

Italy might well be my (and perhaps your) global destination of choice. The people, the art, the history—and, of course, the food and wine—are like that of no other place in the world. But traveling there, especially during the high tourist seasons, can be a challenge.

Thankfully, two new spectacular Italian eateries have emerged, one in San Francisco, and one coastside. They both transport you to the culinary offerings of that alluring peninsula nation without the airfare. Their names? Bar Sprezzatura here in the city and Fattoria e Mare in Half Moon Bay.

Bar Sprezzatura, One Maritime Plaza, San Francisco

I know this building well, as one of my first offices was located in this stylish, modernist edifice. Chef Kathy Fang of FANG restaurant introduced me to this new find, as it is one of her favorite haunts. The minute you walk into Bar Sprezzatura at One Maritime Plaza you know you’re in for a special, ultrachic, luxe, and buzzy evening. As you enter from the plaza, this joint is jumping! With all the talk about offices leaving downtown, it’s nice to see a hot and popular gathering spot and watering hole in the Financial District.

TableOne Hospitality (a Michael Mina spinoff) is the brains behind this enterprise, soon hoping to expand to New York and Miami. This Italian cicchetti (appetizer) and cocktail bar/restaurant is located one level up from the street, looking out through soaring, two-story windows at the iconic building’s plaza and fountain. As you walk into the captivating space, your eye catches the dazzling turquoise, gold, and marble design. Many of the furnishings are imported directly from Venice, and the sophisticated fabulosity shows. There’s even a lovely patio directly overlooking the 60s-era outdoor fountain, where you can dine al fresco.

Let’s start with the cocktails. San Francisco bar virtuoso Carlo Splendorini oversees the Italianleaning concoctions (and wine, and beer) with mixology magic. Fans of this column know that one of my drinks of choice is the Negroni. Bar Sprezzatura has honed their

selection—four of them—to perfection. The Negroni offerings include: a classic Negroni with Tanqueray gin, Carpana Antica vermouth, and Campari; a Rosé Rosse per te, with Hendrick’s Flora Dora gin, Rosalio bitters, and Chinato di Torino; a White Truffle Negroni with Fords gin, Carpano Bianco, Enrico Toro Genziana, and Urbani truffle cordial; and a Norcal Sbagliato (the hot new drink) with Mommenpop Meyer Lemon, Lo-Fi sweet vermouth, and GF Lemon Sour Ale. I opted for my own tasty creation, which they were happy to supply: regular Hendrick’s gin, Campari, and Cocchi red vermouth. My husband selected the “Captain Barry,” with Buffalo Trace bourbon, and Branca Menta Gentian Amaro, Montenegro—and dubbed it “sublime.”

Moving on to the food, Executive Chef Joseph Offner (previously of

The Trident in Sausalito and the Bungalow Kitchen in Tiburon) has created an exciting and imaginative new menu that bridges the gap beautifully from happy hour to fine dining. Sprezzatura means “studied carelessness,” as if one’s artistic creations happened without effort. Chef Offner’s approach captures that carefree spirit with gusto. Rather than ordering the bigger plates, I’d recommend ordering several different types of appetizers: they’re perfect for sharing, and it helps continue the ongoing conviviality of the evening.

We started with a selection of super fresh Hog Island oysters (which change regularly), chilled with Prosecco mignonette. The restaurant’s “Tower Experience” is a great way to sample more of the cicchetti, so we opted for that. The Tower included: the Hawaiian big eye tuna carpaccio, enhanced with Castelvetrano olives and preserved tomato. It was a light, flavorful, and promising start to the meal. Other Tower offerings include: the establishment’s deviled eggs, which are anything but normal, topped with Scalia anchovy and marinated sardines; a signature Brokaw avocado, served Italian “toast” style, but with Meyer lemon gel, opal basil and, if you like (which we did), topped with Santa Barbara uni and reserve caviar. It’s a refreshing mixture of land and sea. The Tower also includes: a whipped salt cod with shaved zucchini that was so creamy I couldn’t stop eating it; and the “Forest Floor,” a savory kind of mushroom paté with porcini sformato, glazed

Hen of the Woods mushrooms, morels, and Beech mushroom saor. Even though they’re not part of the “Tower,” the guanciale (Italian bacon) meatballs are a must— juicy and tender. I’d also recommend sampling a selection of house-curated salumi and formaggi: the luscious mortadella with pistachio was a winner and I’ve never had such a velvety pecorino di Montalcino that practically melts in your mouth. You can also choose bigger plates, including a sablefish, a Wagyu strip steak, and a variety of pastas. And, at lunch, they serve some interesting pizzas, including both a mortadella and a whipped artichoke pie. Go now to Bar Sprezzatura and you’ll see for yourself why Esquire Magazine has just named it one of the best bars in America.

Fattoria e Mare in Half Moon Bay

For something still Italian, but completely different, there’s Fattoria e Mare in Half Moon Bay. It’s a delightful half-day excursion south from the city where you’re rewarded with picturesque cliffside and ocean views on Highway 1 along the way. As you enter this burg’s charming Main Street, surrounded by wine tasting rooms and Victorian splendor, you’re a world away. We decided to venture down for a diversionary Sunday brunch. Even though it’s a bit of a schlep, I guarantee, you won’t be disappointed. Chef-owner Pablo Estrada has the pedigree. Even though he’s Mexican, he’s worked at some of the best Italian haunts around,

including: Lulu, Palio d’Asti, and Rose Pistola. He also worked at Luce Restaurant and was awarded a Michelin star four years in a row. He first opened Fattoria e Mare in the old Kuleto’s space in Burlingame and then decided to expand to Half Moon Bay, closer to the farms that supply his restaurant. But during the pandemic, he closed Burlingame to concentrate on Half Moon Bay. We’re happy he did. Fattoria e Mare, which translates to “Farm and Sea,” is a surprisingly cosmopolitan addition to the dining scene in Half Moon Bay. Housed in a remodeled old cottage, the inviting design is a modern coastal vibe, with the airy space dominated by skylights and local art. We opted to dine outside in the lovely parklet on the river, with our canine pals at our side.

Our repast began with a lovely 2020 Suditrol Italian white wine from the Alto Adige, clean and crisp. Then we sampled a variety of salumi and formaggio, including La Tur cheese

from Piedmont, Mimolette cheese from France, Pecorino with truffle, Mortadella, olives, local baby artichokes with peppers, prosciutto di Parma, and more. A smoked burrata followed, served under glass with enough smoke for a dramatic unveiling, yet it didn’t overpower the main dish. Accents included crostini, fava beans, lemon zest, arugula, and extra virgin olive oil.

Our attentive waiter Giovanni served a mid-course of deliciously peppery bucatini cacio e pepe pasta (not often seen on menus), which was prepared tableside in a parmesan round for stylish effect. For our main, we split the most delicious and tender short rib hash, served generously with poached eggs, potatoes, green beans, tomatoes, and artichokes. The brunch menu also boasts avocado toast with over easy eggs, an egg white frittata, yogurt parfait, huevos rancheros with white beans, and a caprese Italian omelet. For regular lunch, the menu offers

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up a variety of locally-harvested salads, several types of pasta (including some gluten-free), sandwiches, and mains like a grilled whole branzino with salsa verde. Dinner offers even more choices, including crispy calamari, Wagyu carpaccio, pizzas, pastas, and mains such as a Muscovy duck breast (only available on weekends).

The cocktail program is notably inventive, with a number of tempting but not-too-sweet options, including: a butterfly pea gin lemon drop; a prickly pear mojito; and “Fattoria in Love,” with Ketel One vodka, Saint Germain elderflower liqueur, strawberry, lemon, and basil. Hideout in Scotts Valley supplies the restaurant with

locally-made spirits and bartender Alfredo (formerly with the W Hotel) is the talented mixologist, who creates and serves with aplomb.

So, make a day of it (or a night of it and Uber home) and head to Fattoria e Mare for a very special Italian meal.

Bits and Bites

Globally-renowned Nikkei restaurant Chotto Matte will open its first West Coast location at the newly-developed indoor/outdoor rooftop terrace atop the former Macy’s men’s store September 23 (reservations open September 1).

The acclaimed restaurant will feature Peruvian cuisine with Japanese influences and has been a hotspot in London, with other locations

in Miami, Toronto, and Doha.

Dirty Habit , located on the 5th floor of Hotel Zelos, has partnered with the San Francisco LGBT Center and its new cultural department to launch a monthly music series that promotes and supports BIPOC artists from an array of musical backgrounds. The new “Vibin’ Live” music series features live performances at Dirty Habit every third Thursday of the month from 6:30–9:30 pm. Admission is free with a dinner reservation.

Nationally acclaimed Chef Matt Horn just opened his latest venture, Matty’s Old Fashioned His third concept, Matty’s is an interpretation of new American cuisine and an “homage to the traditional American diner,” nestled in the heart of old town Oakland.

Matty’s Old Fashioned follows Horn’s highly acclaimed openings of Horn Barbecue, Kowbird, and recently opened Kowbird at The Sundry in Las Vegas.

Wente Vineyards is celebrating its 140th harvest and uninterrupted year in business. Surprisingly, it’s America’s longest, continuously family-owned and operated winery. To mark the occasion, the estate is hosting a special 140th Harvest Dinner on September 9. And San Francisco’s great Gold Alley supper club Bix is celebrating 35 years. They still have live music every night. Congratulations!

Bar Sprezzatura:

https://www.barsprezzatura.com/

TableOne Hospitality: https://tinyurl.com/btwjvx5v

Fattoria e Mare:

https://fattoriaemare.com/

Hideout Vodka: https://www.hideoutvodka.com/ Chotto Matte: https://chotto-matte.com/

Dirty Habit: https://tinyurl.com/4czuaa8a

San Francisco LGBT Center: https://www.sfcenter.org/

Matty’s Old Fashioned: https://tinyurl.com/8uwf3u9a

FANG restaurant: https://www.fangrestaurant.com/

Wente Vineyards: https://tinyurl.com/2vma4hys

Bix: https://bixrestaurant.com/ David Landis, aka “The Gay Gourmet,” is a foodie, a freelance writer, and a retired PR maven. Follow him on Instagram @GayGourmetSF or email him at: davidlandissf@gmail.com Or visit him online at: www. gaygourmetsf.com

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SAN FRANCISCO BAY TIMES LGBTQ News & Calendar for the Bay Area CELEBRATING FOUR DECADES (1978–2023)

SISTER DANA (continued from pg 22)

the audience he would start “slitting throats on day one.” What the hell does that mean? Sister Dana sez, “Is Ron trying to be more macho than Trump? Is this a notch up from public stoning of homosexuals? Is he bringing back the guillotine? Should we start banning steak knives?!”

The annual GLIDE Legacy Gala is at Terra Gallery, 511 Harrison on August 18, 8 pm to 12 am. There will be uplifting music from the Glide Ensemble with Vernon Bush and Zoe Ellis, hot beats by DJ King Most, and a special performance from the fierce Newoncé. Two awardees will accept recognition. Honey Mahogany is a performer, small business owner, and activist who grew up in San Francisco. Honey received her Master’s in Social Welfare from UC Berkeley. Her work as an advocate, culture creator, and change maker has earned her recognition from the City of San Francisco, the State of California, Sainthood from the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, and awards from numerous organizations including the Imperial Court of San Francisco,

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with thousands of people over the years, and when I finally retire from this gig, I might become a therapist. I have no formal training but plenty of hand’s-on, life training.

I’ve had that same smile plastered on my face for over forty years now. I’ ve smiled so much I’ve pulled muscles in my face. I’ve smiled through the threats of belligerent passengers who wanted the beef we just ran out of.

I ve smiled as passengers have foamed at the mouth over seating assignments. I’ve smiled as children spewed their SpaghettiOs all over me. I’ ve smiled while being propositioned by the wine-guzzling woman in 4J whose husband just went to the bathroom.

I’ve smiled as I threw out three vertebrae while trying to lift a little old

BOOK PASSAGE (continued from pg 26)

Looking to create a more meaningful connection with Sam before he fled the nest, as well as to recreate his own life-altering journey decades before, McCarthy decided the two of them should set out on a trek like few others: 500 miles across Spain’s Camino de Santiago.

Monday, August 21 @ 5:30 pm (free - online event) Norman Solomon, author of War Made Invisible

More than twenty years ago, 9/11 and the war in Afghanistan set into motion a hugely consequential shift in America’s foreign policy: a perpet-

Harvey Milk Democratic Club, Trans Day of Visibility, and the Women’s Foundation of California. Honey is a co-founder and served as the inaugural Executive Director of San Francisco’s Transgender District. She is a founding queen of “Drag Story Hour,” a co-owner of the Stud Bar, a singer with nu-metal group Commando, and recently ran a historic campaign for District 6 Supervisor in San Francisco. Currently, Honey is working as the District Director for Assemblymember Matt Haney and serves as Chair of the SAN FRANCISCO DEMOCRATIC PARTY

Also receiving an award is Eddy Zheng, the President & Founder of NEW BREATH FOUNDATION. He works to mobilize resources to support Asian American, Native Hawaii, and Pacific Islanders (AANHPIs) harmed by violence and the unjust immigration and criminal justice systems. A 2019–21 Rosenberg Foundation Leading Edge Fellow and a 2015–17 Open Society Foundation Soros Justice Fellow, he served as Co-Director of the Asian Prisoner Support Committee and co-

lady’s hundred-pound carry-on bag into the overhead bin. I’ve smiled when I realized that I d been up for twenty-seven hours. I ve smiled when a four-hundred-pound man said, “I don’t feel so good” just before landing on top of me as he passed out. I’ ve smiled upon realizing that the couple in 16A and 16B are not sleeping under the blanket they re sharing. I ve smiled as the captain announced, We seem to have a hydraulic leak and will have to make an emergency landing in Iceland.” I’ve even tried to smile through tears as a young wife told me that the body of her husband, who was killed in an automobile accident, is in the cargo area below. I ve smiled reassuringly as two hundred people nervously watched my reaction to severe turbulence at thirty-five thou-

ual state of war that is almost entirely invisible to the American public. War Made Invisible, by the journalist and political analyst Norman Solomon, exposes how this happened, and what its consequences are, from military and civilian casualties to drained resources at home.

Wednesday, August 23 @ 5 pm (free - Ferry Building store) Chris Guillebeau, author of Gonzo Capitalism

Join New York Times bestselling author Chris Guillebeau on a fascinating tour of this brave new world where novelty and creativity

FARMERS’ MARKET (continued from pg 30)

maize, the natives throughout North and South America eventually depended on maize for most of their diet. Corn spread throughout the Americas and was discovered by explorers from Europe who had never

founded the first-ever ethnic studies program in San Quentin State Prison—ROOTS. Eddy is the subject of the award-winning documentary Breathin’: The Eddy Zheng Story, is a TEDx Speaker, an SXSW featured speaker, and a contributor to the book Contemporary Asian American Activism: Building Movements for Liberation. He was featured in the December 2021 New Yorker article “An Education While Incarcerated.”

https://www.glide.org/

The August installment of LOCKDOWN COMEDY ON ZOOM takes place on Thursday, August 17, and features Greg Proops (LA), Scott Blakeman (NY), Hilary Schwartz (NY), Lisa Geduldig and her 92-yearsyoung mom, Arline Geduldig (both mom and daughter in Florida). www.koshercomedy.com

Sister Dana sez, “I wish I could rave about last Sunday’s DORE ALLEY FAIR, but I guess I have become a jaded nun who has seen it all. With the exception of the kiddie pool, which was definitely NOT for the kiddies!”

sand feet. I’ve smiled through my own personal crises, simply because it felt better to smile than curl up into a little ball.

All these years later, I’ll probably keep on smiling. It just seems easier to do so in hopes that the whole world, or at least a part of it, will smile right back. For more information on James Pauley and his work: https://www.jpauleyauthor.com

Michele Karlsberg Marketing and Management specializes in publicity for the LGBTQ+ community. This year, Karlsberg celebrates 34 years of successful marketing campaigns. For more information: https://www.michelekarlsberg.

are currency, and the creators are in control. From the community of gamers getting paid to play, to the armchair pundits beating the bookies in online prediction markets; to TikTok “Sleepfluencers,” AI artists, and the band of renegade entrepreneurs and investors upending the rules of finance, in the world of Gonzo Capitalism, anything goes. Along the way, Guillebeau shows how we can all capitalize on the new tools and platforms at our disposal to discover how to turn our time, talents, and creativity into income—on our own terms.

seen corn. There are numerous varieties of cultivated corn now.

The Bay Area is known for sweet Brentwood corn, some of the best and sweetest corn available. This year

corn arrived early because of the drought and the warm weather, but the flavor is still amazing. Grill, roast, boil—whatever you do, get your hands on some Brentwood corn and enjoy!

G&S Farms is now at your Castro Farmers’ Market with sweet Brentwood corn. It is perfect for making Air Fryer (or Oven) Corn Ribs. They are delicious!

Debra Morris is a spokesperson for the Pacific Coast Farmers’ Market Association (PCFMA). Check out the PCFMA website for recipes, information about farmers’ markets throughout the region and for much more: https://www.pcfma.org/

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Speaking to Your Soul

ARIES (March 21–April 19)

Your need for freedom could come up against feelings of restriction in a significant relationship. As you courageously express your truth, you honor the other person and invite the possibility of moving forward in a fresh form. Let the chips fall where they may and trust the process to lead you in the right direction. A seeming loss could very well lead to a greater gain.

TAURUS (April 20–May 20)

Astrology

The norms and expectations of our environment have a powerful influence on the choices we make in life. Our need for love and belonging is primal and so compelling that to some degree it inhibits the development and expression of our authentic nature as it steers us toward beliefs and actions that win approval and acceptance from those around us. Fortunately, the planets support our evolution as currently we are encouraged to claim more freedom from outside influences. Cosmic configurations cause us to confront our urges to awaken to the truth of our essential nature. A portal opens and we gain access to creative ideas and sudden insights about ourselves, and about the very nature of reality itself that may appear to threaten the status quo. We must give ourselves permission to express our truth, as this is how the universe works through humanity to solve our earthly dilemmas.

Elisa Quinzi is a certified professional astrologer who brings a strong spiritual perspective, as well as over 20 years of experience, to her work with clients. Contact her at futureselfnow@gmail.com or at 818-530-3366 with your exact birth time to schedule or to ask questions.

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The Roman emperor-philosopher Marcus Aurelius wrote in his journal, “... is this what I was created for? To huddle under the blankets and keep warm?” Many a Taurean would answer a resounding, “Yes!” But now is not the time for that. This is a wakeup call! Love yourself so deeply that you give birth to a new and greater version of yourself. You are truly starting a brand-new cycle in your life and breaking free from the past. Don’t look back.

GEMINI (May 21–June 20)

Pull back from the barrage of stimuli and make a little time to be alone. You have an enormous opportunity to receive downloads from higher dimensions. You could potentially crack open and receive a spiritual awakening. Once received, generously share your experience and information with those around you. The universe wants to use you as a mouthpiece.

CANCER (June 21–July 22)

Your earning power and your self-esteem get a boost as you trust your intuition. Cosmic signposts encourage you to be vulnerable and express your authentic self at a group level. As you love yourself and take loving action on your own behalf, you will experience the sense of security that you’ve been seeking.

LEO (July 23–August 22)

You are embarking on a brand-new cycle as your newly awakened self. As such, some things could change in your life, including your mission. Whatever you do, do it with all the love in your heart, and trust that you are supported. The only requirement for the journey is that you put into practice all that you’ve been learning.

VIRGO (August 23–September 22)

The universe is knocking on your door with a message: Your routine has grown stale. There is much more waiting for you outside your comfort zone. Expand your horizon with great expectations and you will be rewarded. In moments of doubt, simply ask the universe for guidance and pay attention to the signs you receive.

LIBRA (September 23–October 22)

Sudden events that seem disruptive in fact open possibilities for your future. Join a support group or surround yourself with like-minded souls where you will find love and friendship that alter your direction in life for the best.

SCORPIO (October 23–November 21)

A new responsibility, interest, or project might seem to conflict with a current relationship. Allow yourself to be honest with yourself and with your partner, about your needs and desires, and you will likely discover you are supported in taking on your new venture.

SAGITTARIUS (November 22–December 21)

Honor your need for more freedom in your daily routine. A 9–5 job might not be right for you. Or perhaps you need to work from home, or create your own schedule. A trip far from home can bring much needed perspective to help you sort out your next big decision.

CAPRICORN (December 22–January 19)

Something unexpected wants to be expressed through you. A coming-out of sorts may or may not be related to your romantic tastes, but a more authentic version of you is ready to shine forth. Follow your heart this time instead of your head.

AQUARIUS (January 20–February 18)

Revelations can shake your foundation, but a blessing arises in the rubble. Relationships are renewed based on greater honesty and mutual support.

PISCES (February 19–March 20)

Creative insights are pouring through you now. Tune in to your higher mind and trust the guidance you receive. Love yourself enough to structure your day based on this inner guidance and soon enough your new routine will bear golden fruit.

Take Me Home with You!

“Weighted Lunges are the optimal exercise for sculpting your hamstrings and glutes. Start with light weights to get your muscle memory down, then increase!”

“My name is Chia! I am a six-year-old, female terrier who shows off my friendly and eager personality with the SF SPCA staff and volunteers. While I can get overexcited when I see dogs—I bet many of you do too!—I am super social with people and am always ready to hang out or be out and about. I have been doing so well learning basic commands like sit, and I am very treat motivated and trainable. I will brighten anyone’s day!”

For the entire month of August, the SF SPCA is offering free adoptions for adult pets (+5 months) like Chia! Come visit the SPCA’s Adoption Center to meet your new family member. Another bonus! Visit the SF SPCA’s Community Event on August 26 and receive a special gift with your adoption.

Chia is presented to San Francisco Bay Times readers by Dr. Jennifer Scarlett, the SF SPCA’s CEO. Our thanks also go to Paradise Osorio for helping to get the word out about lovable pets like Chia.

Tore Kelly, Director of Creative & Social Media for Fitness SF, provides monthly tips that he has learned from professional trainers. For more information: https://fitnesssf.com/

To meet Chia in person, visit the SF SPCA Mission Campus @ 201 Alabama Street. It is open for appointments from 10 am–6 pm (Monday–Wednesday, Friday–Sunday) and 1 pm–6 pm on Thursdays.

For more information: https://www.sfspca.org/adoptions/

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Dr. Jennifer Scarlett and Louie Chia Dara at Fitness SF Filmore

Sports

In the last issue of the San Francisco Bay Times (July 27, 2023, https:// tinyurl.com/3ncpmrhs ) I covered three picturesque Bay Area clothing optional beaches frequented by our fellow LGBTQ+ sunbathers: San Gregorio, Laguna Creek, and South Rodeo Beach along with some important “before-you-go” advisories. In a continuation of my summer clothing optional beach series, I would like to introduce three additional beautiful beaches: Marshall, Little Muir, and Devil’s Slide.

Marshall Beach

Often confused with Baker Beach, an easily accessible public clothing optional Presidio beach, Marshall is less visible and is a predominately gay beach at the foot of the iconic Golden Gate Bridge. What makes Marshall Beach so special is its up-close and spectacular view of the bridge, and golden sunsets. Many moons ago, Marshall Beach was a hidden gem, relatively unknown among tourists

Summer Fun at Clothing Optional Beaches: Marshall, Little Muir, and Devil’s Slide Beach

and sightseers. The local gay community successfully kept it a secret partly because the path down to the beach from high above was unmarked, steep, slippery and somewhat treacherous. Today, the reinvigorated Presidio has clearly marked and safe trails winding down to the beach that even people with little hiking experience wearing flip flops can manage given a little time.

Once on the beach, visitors are immediately rewarded with a postcard view of the Golden Gate Bridge anchoring the Pacific crashing into San Francisco Bay. At medium to high tide, you’ll notice that the beach itself seems limited and unassuming. However, upon closer examination, you’ll see that Marshall Beach is divided into three distinct sections.

The first section is the immediate beach at the end of the trail. Facing the vast Pacific Ocean, to your left, is

a tall, impassable rocky, cliff-like barrier that separates Baker Beach from Marshall. To your right is a small beach that appears to end at a low rocky wall highlighted by a giant standalone boulder. This is where most tourists and sightseers frolic and

take selfies before heading back up the hillside.

If you walk the entire length of the beach, at the other end, you’ll notice people magically appear and disappear around the lower rocky wall. You guessed it. People scale and climb the low rocky barrier to reach the second and much larger section of Marshall Beach where you will clearly see naked sunbathers walking along the beach and tanning in relatively hidden spots along the cliffside. This is also where the vast majority of the gay beachgoers end up due to a more private and intimate feel. On a clear day, sunbathers can wave and smile in their birthday suits at stunned passengers crammed to the starboard side of cruise ships heading into San Francisco.

The final section is the “forbidden” area of Marshall Beach. Continue strolling on the beach towards the

bridge and you’ll encounter many large boulders and rocks that prevent beachgoers from venturing further unless armed with the proper rockclimbing tools and boots. However, at the lowest of low tides, even a toddler can waddle from the first section all the way to the third section without so much as touching one drop of the Pacific Ocean. This “forbidden” section is instituted and heavily surveyed after the tragic events of 9/11 for a good reason. In this area, anyone can casually walk up to the base of the Golden Gate Bridge and touch it, climb it, or do harm to the structure. So, my recommendation is just to admire the bridge from a reasonable distance unless you secretly want to be arrested in the buff.

Little Muir Beach

The tiny, secluded beach town of Muir Beach is located in Marin and about two miles from the entrance of

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John Chen Photos courtesy of John Chen Devil’s Slide Beach at sunset Devil’s Slide Walkway down to the beach Devil’s Slide Bunker in the distance Little Muir Beach, the north end

Muir Redwoods National Monument.

The beach itself is one of the cleanest in California. Just to the north of Muir Beach, separated by a low rocky barrier and a narrow strip of a defunct fort wall, lies Little Muir Beach, a widely accepted clothing optional beach. Little Muir Beach is truly a serene getaway from the hustle and bustle of nearby urban life. The sand on the beach is somewhat coarse, but clean. The water is shallow and cold but surprisingly clear. Although Muir Beach can get a bit crowded on sunny and warm days, Little Muir Beach is the road less traveled and is directly connected to the community above. Most of the nude sunbathers gather around the area next to the low defunct fort wall mostly because this area of beach provides the greatest privacy.

Devil’s Slide Beach

Devil’s Slide was a particularly treacherous, narrow, and windy stretch of California Hwy 1 south of Pacifica where numerous cars have accidentally driven off the steep and eroded

slopes. Today, this part of Hwy 1 has been converted into a wide walking trail with stunning and sweeping views of the rugged coastline high above the deep blue turbulent waves. Just a little south of the Devil’s Bunker—a former military lookout— and far below the cliffs lies the Gray Whale Cove with a beautifully preserved beach. Although the official name of the beach is Gray Whale Cove State Beach, a short stretch of

the beach to the right of the long wooden stairway is known as Devil’s Slide Beach where, for years, beachgoers often bathe in the buff. Devil’s Slide Beach has a truly unique feel due to its pristine soft sand, granitelike backdrop, and its isolated and enclosed setting.

John Chen, a UCLA alumnus and an avid sports fan, has competed as well as coached tennis, volleyball, softball, and football teams.

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Marshall Beach overview from the south Golden Gate Bridge as seen from Marshall Beach before security increased post-9/11 Marshall Beach rocky cliff barrier separating it from Baker Beach

Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence Benefit at Beaux Pitted the Judy’s vs. the Liza’s Photos by Rink

On Saturday, July 29, the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence hosted a benefit at Beaux, 2344 Market Street, featuring the “Battle Between the Judy’s and the Liza’s” with a special appearance by Connie Champagne as Judy Garland.

Performers included Donna Sachet, Suppositori Spelling, Katherine Rose, Jamie Bauchery and many more. Emcees for the event were Sister Carrie Me Away and Mr. Sister Leather L.A., Victor Ongpin. DJ Jimmy Strano spun tunes.

The event benefited the Sisters’ Grants Fund, which awards grants to community organizations and projects. The Bay Times is grateful for it, the Sisters, and for the fact that Liza Minnelli is still with us. The actress, singer, dancer, and choreographer is now 77. Garland, her mother, was just 47 when she passed in 1969, but her musical and movie legacies live on. https://www.thesisters.org/

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Samuel Gray “I found a feeling of community in Hayward.” Tony Rojas “Guerneville in the summer, where everyone needs sun screen” Lara Hueter “Oakland, which has lots of outdoor adventures, and a welcoming queer community” Dani Siragusa “I love living in Petaluma.” Community Ambassador Daniel Cherry distributed copies of Out and About, the Castro Community Benefit District’s guide, at his table set up in Jane Warner Plaza on August 2. A bright red “Boss Lady” apron and matching cowgirl hat were on display in a front window at Cliff’s Variety. A tribute and celebration of the life and legacy of Beat poet Diane di Prima, author of more than forty books, was held on Sunday, August 6, at the Castro Theatre. Di Prima’s daughter, Dominique di Prima, spoke about her mother, and filmmaker Melanie La Rosa introduced her film about di Prima’s life for a special screening. On Saturday, August 5, two men, dressed in undershirts and yellow hard hats, attracted the attention of tourists when they climbed on top of a large utility box near the intersection of Castro and 18th Streets and sat there for a while. A large crowd gathered on Wednesday, July 26, at the Embarcadero Plaza to view the game between USA and Netherlands teams competing in the Women’s Soccer World Cup on large screens. Congresswoman Nancy Pelosi was a special guest on Sunday, July 30, at the Jewish Film Festival’s screening of the documentary Bella about the life of Congresswoman Bella Abzug. She was welcomed by the festival’s Executive Director Lexi Leban and Program Directors Jay Rosenblatt and Jeff Lieberman, and received a standing ovation from the large crowd attending at the Castro Theatre.
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