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Perseverance Needed to Land the Equality Act

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Perseverance Needed to Land the Equality Act

The Equality Act: ‘Equal Dignity in the Eyes of the Law’ But queer Americans should not have to wonder whether we have rights or need to file countAlthough we now have marriage less lawsuits to equality, the very dignity that the Last year, the U.S. Supreme Court South Carolina's infamous Senator Strom Thurmond (right) holds the reestablish them Court recognized as our birthheld that employment discriminacord, 24 hours and 18 minutes, for the longest filibuster in the Senate one by one. We when he opposed the Civil Rights Act of 1957. right as LGBTIQ Americans is tion against LGBTIQ people constill denied us because federal law stitutes unlawful sex discrimination should not be subject to the whims of how difPersonally, we are not just San does not explicitly protect us from in violation of Title VII of the fedFranciscans or Californians; we ferent presidential administrations discrimination in myriad other eral Civil Rights Act of 1964. are Americans. When we travel interpret and apply federal law. aspects of our lives, from jobs to Logically, the Court’s reasoning to other states of our country, we The Equality Act would comprehousing to health care to education. would apply to federal civil rights should not have to fear whether hensively make these many vital statutes barring sex discrimination We can think of no better way a hotel could refuse to give us a protections explicit as a matter of in many other aspects of life. to affirm the dignity of room. We should be able to relofederal statute. LGBTIQ people and to cate to another state without losing mark the 17th anniversary A gender nonbinary any of our rights. of San Francisco’s “Winter teenager in Alabama How can any of us have true digof Love” than for Congress should no more fear nity when only some of us are proto enact the Equality Act, being treated unequally tected some of the time, and we are something that has been 46 in school than a gay stusafe in one part of the country, but years in the making since dent in Seattle. A lesnot another? the first version of the legbian in Idaho should islation was introduced in Today, the House of Represenhave the same access 1974. tatives stands poised to pass the to a loan as a bisexual Equality Act, and President Biden man in Massachusetts. A Today, where an LGBTIQ is ready to sign it. Everything transgender Oklahoman person lives determines depends on the Senate, which should be able to have whether legislation protects under the leadership of Republican gender affirmation surthem from discrimination in Mitch McConnell had previously gery safely at home in areas such as employment, blocked the bill. Today, things are housing, and public accom- Jimmy Stewart (right) brought the filibuster procedure to public atten- Tulsa and not have to (continued on page 18) move to Connecticut. tion in 1939 as the lead in Mr. Smith Goes to Washington. modations. Twenty-seven

6/26 and Beyond Stuart Gaffney and John Lewis Seventeen years ago this month— February 2004—San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom made history when he burst open the doors of City Hall for LGBTIQ couples to be able to marry. When we said, “I do,” we felt something transform within us. We experienced our government for the first time treating us as fully equal human beings as gay people. At that moment, we vowed to do everything in our power to make LGBTIQ equality—and most importantly, the respect and dignity that comes with it—available to all. When the U.S. Supreme Court established the freedom to marry nationwide in 2015, it declared that

GLBT Fortnight in Review Once More unto the Breach As this issue goes to press, the House is poised to pass our signature civil rights legislation, the Equality Act, for a second time. Last session’s efforts went nowhere in the Republican controlled Senate, where the Act was not brought to committee. But this time around we should at the very least get some hearings and attention. Will we get the required 60 Senate votes to defeat a filibuster? Well, you can count, can’t you? The answer to that is no. Even our friendly “moderate” Republicans are reluctant to support us. Mitt Romney worries about “religious freedom,” while our hardcore opponents hint at a range of anti-trans horrors featuring tough high school boys who barge in on the girls’ tennis team and prance around the locker room. These little bruisers, our adversaries imply, may be able to present themselves as trans-girls on their say-so alone, giving themselves legal permission to violate the full range of privacy issues like the kids in those summer camp movies who sneak peaks at the hot counselor in the shower. There are many other absurd scenarios that play out in the minds of anti-GLBT lawmakers, much as the notion of marriage equality triggered fears of marrying animals or several people at a time. Indeed, part of the difficulty in passing the Equality Act lies in its admirable breadth and power. The Act will amend the Civil Rights Act of 1964 to add sexual orientation and gender identity to those sections that outlaw discrimination in the workplace, in public accommodations, in education, and elsewhere. It will also amend the Fair Housing Act to prohibit GLBT bias in housing. And it makes clear that the federal Religious Freedom Restoration Act cannot be used as a defense against violations. (Recall that the infamous Hobby Lobby case, which allowed the crafts chain to avoid providing birth control under Obamacare, was based on that statute and its statebased progeny.) 2

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All this suggests that the Equality Act, like much of the Biden agenda, will require Congress to remove the filibuster and allow legislation to pass with a bare majority. That, in turn, requires conservative Democrats like Joe Manchin and Kyrtsen Sinema to change their minds about the idea, which itself requires a simple majority. There is also some talk of revising the filibuster rules to make it easier to sidestep rather than killing it outright. As you know, the Senate is already allowed to use a simple majority for budget-based legislation and for nominees. What if the filibuster required the old-fashioned speechifying, Frank Capra-style, and forced opponents to actually stand up in the Senate and hold the floor? For now, it just requires a few motions or something, I’m not really sure, but it’s an easy process. There are other tweaks to the rules that could open the door to passing partisan bills without leaving Democrats vulnerable to a future Republican majority. Perhaps Joe and Kyrsten would be more amenable to different types of revisions. After all, Democrats will be trying to pass a cascade of bills, from immigration to infrastructure, with no votes to spare and perhaps only two years to achieve our goals. Wasting time on fruitless Senate hearings is to no one’s advantage, and although Mitt Romney and Susan Collins might swing our way now and then, a sixty-vote decision on major bills is unlikely. Waiting for Congress The Equality Act is critical for a number of reasons. We were all pleased as punch when the Obama administration put GLBT civil rights in place throughout the federal government by executive order. Our happy faces turned to frowny ones when Trump reversed most of Obama’s helpful policies. Now, we’re smiling again after Biden reversed most of Trump’s nasty handiwork. FE B RUA RY 2 5 , 2 0 2 1

states do not explicitly prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity. Some cities within those states have some form of protection. Twenty-one states have extensive prohibitions against LGBTIQ discrimination.

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anything less than full marriage equality for LGBTIQ people would “disparage” our “choices” and “diminish” our “personhood.” Gay people deserve ”equal dignity in the eyes of the law.”

You can see that this is not a sustainable pattern. Second, I’m sure you haven’t forgotten our incredible Supreme Court victory from last June, when the 6–3 Court in Bostock v Clayton County ruled that GLBT people were covered by laws that outlawed sex discrimination. Surely, that opinion provided much of the civil rights protections we need, right? Well, yes. That is to say yes, if you want to file a federal lawsuit every time some agency or company fails to interpret this Supreme Court precedent the way we prefer. Keep in mind that the Trump administration simply ignored the Bostock ruling for the duration of its term. And keep in mind as well that Bostock’s author, Justice Gorsuch, left his opinion ambiguous when it comes to things like transgender access to facilities. But, more importantly, look at the rules on public accommodation, where sex discrimination isn’t a thing. Public accommodation, the right to do business with bakers and butchers and candlestick makers, is probably our major battlefield in the years ahead. The Equality Act will add us to the list of those protected under the Civil Rights Act of 1964 for access to the public marketplace. And here, Mitt Romney and his ilk will likely draw the battlelines. While the law makes clear that you can’t refuse to serve someone based on race, God forbid an uber-Christian business might be forced to accept a gay or trans client. In 2019, Republicans came up with a “compromise” to the Equality Act called the “Fairness for All Act,” which creates huge loopholes for religious actors in all aspects of GLBT civil rights. Sure, we’d be protected against discrimination. But anyone with a Bible and a “Jesus Take the Wheel” bumper sticker could opt out. And these are the very same people we need protection from in the first place. It’s like a race-based civil rights package that excludes Klan members and white power groups.

Hello? No thanks. I’m guessing that this toothless alternative might be brought up for discussion in the weeks ahead. Trans Is the New Gay It’s open season on transgender men and women, who are taking the brunt of society’s residual disdain for GLBT people. I say residual because gay men and women, particularly straight-acting Mayor Pete-type gays and lesbians, are out of the shadows. As long as someone’s not a complete nutcase, they probably no longer look down on regular old gay people. We’re fun and good neighbors! (Hey, I love Mayor Pete, but you know what I mean.)

no penis. Sorry to put it bluntly. But if you don’t like the rules, quietly leave.” Not surprisingly, the rules have drawn a backlash. What is it with Michigan and transgender men and women, anyway? It’s tough enough to fight for transgender rights without battling discrimination in our own community, but our own discrimination remains entrenched. Let’s be real, Bryan. Even the most straight-acting, church going, family man or lesbian mom is violating gender norms in his or her own way. This is what all GLBT people have in common and this is why the fight for transgender rights belongs to all of us.

Remaining on the margins are those who defy stereotypes, including super femme men, super butch lesbians, anyone transgender, and anyone non-binary. Mess with the hard borders of gender and you’ll have a red state legislature on your tail as quick as a bunny. I guess there are some 20 or more bills now pending across the land purporting to protect women’s sports or women’s bathrooms against the predations of their transgender sisters.

Whither Amy Coney Barrett?

People aren’t so scared of transmen, oddly. I don’t really care who joins me in the public bathroom, but I’d be a little taken aback by a burly bearded transman at the next sink. And yet he’s the one those red state lawmakers want to allow in the ladies’ room, while a transwoman is supposed to fix her makeup next to the urinals.

This is a question the Court has not addressed, and it’s one that is very much up in the air. As I said, Justice Gorsuch left the whole issue of transgender rights outside the workplace for another day in his Bostock opinion. Even so, the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Fourth Circuit relied on Bostock in ruling in favor of Grimm, the transgender former high school student who has been suing for a donkey’s age. The Fourth Circuit reasoned that if sex discrimination protections in the workplace include transgender people (as Bostock dictates), then sex discrimination protections in education likewise include transgender people regardless of Justice Gorsuch’s reticence on the matter. Makes sense, right?

One exception to that rule are the owners of the Camp Boomerang RV park in Orleans, Michigan, who won’t let transmen into their gay campground. Only people with penises and male-gendered paperwork are allowed to enjoy the many delights of Camp Boomerang. “Let’s be real here,” said owner Bryan Quinn on the Camp website. “If we let women that act like men in, and they go naked at the pool, that’s when it’s obvious that there’s

So, here’s a possible big story. The school district in Gloucester County, Virginia, has asked the High Court to hear the appeal of our old friend, the Gavin Grimm case. I know it rings a bell, right? To make a very long story short, the case asks whether or not a public high school is obliged to let transgender students use the facilities that match their gender identity.

At any rate, if the Court accepts review, it will be a huge deal. (continued on page 20)

Perseverance Needed to Land the Equality Act

Mission Control: All Systems A-Go to Land the Equality Act

Cross Currents Andrea Shorter Now that NASA has successfully landed the Perseverance rover on Mars in further search of other intelligent or not so intelligent life forms, perhaps we can now get down to the earthly business of finally passing the Equality Act. With a Democratic party majority in both the 117th Congress and the Senate, passing the latest Equality Act should not be an out of this world proposition. However, even with the constellation of landmark legislative stars lining up in favor of its passage past committee, perseverance is still needed to land a nearly 50 years in the making Equality Act on a supportive ally president’s desk for signature and to make it the law of the land. The very recent popular notion that the introduction of the Equality Act to provide federal non-discriminatory protections for LGBT peo-

The bill died in the House Committee in the Judiciary. Its next iteration came in 1994 as the Employment Non-Discrimination Act or ENDA, but rightfully suffered tremendous pushback from the community as it did not include protections for our transgender brothers and sisters, apparently for expected and misguided political expediency towards passage. Even with its revised version to include both sexual orientation and gender identity, ENDA met its fateful end in the Senate, never making it to the House. Fifteen years later in a renewed all of us or none, no one left behind inclusive LGBT liberation period, openly gay Representative David Cicilline of Rhode Island—yes, “that David Cicilline,” one of the recent House impeachment managers who robustly prosecuted the case for former President Trump’s conviction for inciting the violent insurrection to overturn his desperately lost election on January 6, 2021—introduced

The 2015 bills and their subsequent versions through the 114th, 115th, and the 116th Congress have died in committees of both houses, with the exception of having passed the House in the 116th session only to have been stalled in a Republican majority, Trump-McConnell strangle-held Senate. Along the way, in 2015, I had the honor, privilege, and delight of meeting and working with Rep. Cicilline to organize an Equality Act educational panel at the San Francisco Main Public Library, along with respective legendary lesbian and transgender icons Roberta Achtenberg and Theresa Sparks. At that time, the need was still great to educate our own LGBTQ communities about the Equality Act, with a few misinformed by the idea that marriage equality would cement or blanket us with all federal protections. Since then, the Equality Act has gained broad support from Congressional members, 63% of voters, the U.S. Chamber of Commerce and business and corporate sectors, and from dozens of social justice organization including the ACLU, NOW, NAACP, and the AARP. Of course, there remains opposition to its passage, mainly and predictably from religious leaders claiming the Equality Act would infringe on religious liberties to basically discrimi-

nate against LGBT people without deference or interference from the government. Religious objection to homosexuality or nonheteronormative realities in the spectrum of the human condition since the dawn of time will not likely be fully resolved into the 21st century. After all, we are still clearly reckRepresentative David Cicilline served on the House of oning and dealing with Representatives managers team during the second Trump suspect religious-basedob- impeachment trial. jections to racial and gender equality that still exist in a democratic society that proclaims equality of all men and women.

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The Equality Act originated 47 years ago in 1974 with then and now late New York Representatives Bella Abzug and Ed Koch, and basically sought to amend the then decade-old Civil Rights Act of 1964 to include prohibition of discrimination on the basis of sex, sexual orientation, and marital status in federally assisted programs, housing sales, rentals, financing, and brokerage services.

the Equality Act of 2015 in the 114th Congress, along with Democratic Senator Jeff Merkley.

I would love to be able to impart some inspiring, deeply moving words about what the passage of the Equality Act means to me as a Black Lesbian in America. As someone whose very existence, identities, and expression of self are not fully granted equal Representative Cicilline wished then vice presidential recognition, status, and protection from discrimi- candidate Harris a happy birthday via Twitter (October 20). like me draw strength and persevernation under the law. I can marry on Sunday and get fired or not ance daily. hired on Monday because of whom Honestly, I’ll always be prepared to and how I love. Because of fear of fight for LGBTQ, gender, and racial the color of my skin, my right to vote equal rights. Frankly, I’m just tired is constantly under attack. My own of being sick and tired about not havbody is not mine according to those ing our right to exist freely as queer seeking to control my reproductive people not protected against discrimchoices. These are but a few of the ination. I can only imagine what we realities of being my natural beautiful self from which I and other sisters (continued on page 18)

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ple came about upon the heels of the 2000s’ same-sex civil marriage equality battles is not the case. The voyage actually started long ago.

The Harvey Milk Plaza project will be undertaken by SWA’s Sausalito and San Francisco studios. The firm, which practices landscape architecture and urban design from a network of eight studios worldwide, has produced significant high-profile memorial projects, including the S andy Hook Memorialin Newtown, CT; the H arry Truman Memorialat the Harry S. Truman Presidential Library and Museum in Independence, MO; and the Grand Candela Memorial, dedicated to the victims of the mass shooting in El Paso, TX.

“We understand the significance of developing the site to become the focal point of Harvey’s message and his importance not only for the Castro neighborhood but also for the national and international community”, said S WA Project Lead, Daniel Cunningham, who lived one block from the site for nearly a decade and even attended one of the early community meetings held in 2017. “We

According to Cunningham, “We believe the memorial should speak as loudly and unapologetically as Harvey did—not only about the progress he brought about but about the work that is still to be done. To be worthy of Harvey’s legacy, his memorial should be a living monument—relevant and impactful today—dedicated to realizing his vision of equality and authenticity for everyone, everywhere.”

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“Friends and SWA have already begun initial discussions around creating an unconventional and inclusive design process so these qualities of Harvey Milk and his legacy are inherently part of the design that is produced,” explained B rian Springfield, Interim Executive Director for FHMP.“Throughout this process, we have heard from the community that they want a ‘next generation’ memorial as unique and unconventional as Harvey himself. Now that SWA is on board, we are anxious to re-engage with the public to explore what’s possible to honor Harvey Milk in a way that draws attention to the ongoing activism around issues of social justice, which Harvey championed during his lifetime. The memorial will be alive with Harvey’s politics including his call to others to get involved.”

are excited by the potential for the redesign to properly capture the community’s ambitions and hopes, and we are committed to a dialogue that will help The Friends of Harvey Milk Plaza, a partner Harvey Miilk Plaza, 1939 of SF Parks Alliance, a 501(c)3 organization. San Francisco, CA 94114 express them.”

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“Harvey Milk Plaza has been at the heart of San Francisco’s LGBTQ community for decades, and our community deserves a plaza that reflects this rich history,” said Senator Scott Wiener. “A redesigned and more usable Harvey Milk Plaza will provide a gathering space for our community and educational opportunities for residents and visitors alike. I’m excited about the progress of this important project.” “Harvey Milk Plaza offers an opportunity to honor the history of the LGBTQ rights movement, while also providing a gathering space for the community and an inviting and functional gateway to our transit system,” said former San Francisco Bay Times columnist and District 8 Supervisor Rafael Mandelman,who represents the Castro and is the lone LGBTQ member on the Board of Supervisors. “Today’s announcement is a big step forward in achieving that vision.”

Crusin' the Castro Tours guide Kathy Amendola shows visitors the current historical display on the lower level of the Castro MUNI station at Harvey Milk Plaza. (2019)

BART Director and former Castro Supervisor Bevan Dufty expressed hope that the vision of a great Harvey Milk Plaza can soon be realized. “Harvey has inspired gener-

“Having grown up as a Black, bisexual woman in San Francisco I know how important the corner of Castro and Market is to residents and visitors from around the world, espe-

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The Friends of Harvey Milk Plaza (FHMP) on February 22 announced the selection of local design firm SWA to reimagine and redesign Harvey Milk Plaza, an important initial investment by FHMP made possible by a $1M state grant secured in 2019 intended to “support construction of LGBTQ space in Harvey Milk Plaza.” The selection of SWA comes after a robust proposal process that included inviting 17 design firms to submit proposals, and interviewing four shortlisted firms.

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ations of LGBTQ+ to be authentic and out. That’s what we want for Harvey Milk Plaza. So I am eager to see the community collaboration with SWA bear fruit!”

cially the LGBTQ+ community for whom Harvey’s legacy continues to inspire so much hope,” said Shanell Williams, President of Board of Trustees at City College of San Francisco. “W hen completed, the new Harvey Milk Plaza will be the perfect way to welcome the community to this amazing neighborhood! I (continued on page 18)

From Living a Double Life to Rediscovering Unconditional Family Love By Michael Tate

Coming Out Stories Photos courtesy of Michael Tate

My late maternal grandmother, Mary McKay, was born on February 12, 1912. For as long as I can remember, we would gather at her home every year to celebrate her birthday with a Valentine’s Day-themed party. It was all about Black love between my extended family of cousins, aunties, and uncles. After eating some of the best food you could imagine from Michael Tate the myriad covered dishes, my granny would read to us from the Call & Post, Cleveland’s local Black news weekly. Since it was Black History Month, she would focus on the special features that highlighted the achievements of nationallyacclaimed African Americans like MLK, Jr., Shirley Chisholm, Rosa Parks, and Sidney Poitier, to local unsung small business owners, teachers, and government officials like Carl and Louis Stokes. As we grew older, this one-way storytelling evolved into lively intergenerational discussions and the occasional argument as we reflected on the joys and pains of the Black experience.

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Michael Tate and his partner, Simon

that all of these men were gay. They were celebrated, but not seen. Admired, but not acknowledged. Revered, but not revealed.

As a result, I hid my true self from them and instead focused on being the quintessential “best little boy in the world.” I went to church with my mother, sang in the choir, stayed out of trouble, and earned good grades. Believing that as a gay Black man I would be a disappointment to my parents, I moved to Despite the freedom and ease we had to share as a fam- Michael’s the East Coast for college, graduate school, and my first job. Ultimately, ily, there was one topic that mom I moved to San Francisco in 1998. never came up: homosexuality. While we all loved the music While I remained close—to a of Johnny Mathis, Little Richard, point—with my family, I kept the fulland Luther Vandross, the dots ness of my identity a secret. were never openly connected In time, I found my voice and passion through my volunteer work with the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus and GALA Choruses (Gay and Lesbian Association of Choruses); as the owner of my own business, Michael Tate Auctions; and as a team director at the Stanford Alumni Association. Despite these accomplishments, I was leading a double life. In San Francisco, I was the out (and occasionally outrageous) confident Michael who was loved and respected by friends and colleagues. But when I went to visit family, I was the strangely muted, closMichael and Doris

eted, and insecure Mike. Just being was exhausting. With the help of amazing friends and a compassionate, but no-nonsense therapist, I slowly started opening doors to my family that had long been bolted shut from my side for years. To my surprise, my parents were waiting with open arms on the other side. Now, don’t get me wrong; it was not a bump-free sprint for them to the next PFLAG meeting. But I can say without hesitation that my journey to authenticity was well worth the raised voices and tears shed along the way. The mutual love and respect my parents and I rediscovered for ourselves was unconditional. So, while this month gives us all a chance to intentionally focus our attention on Black trailblazers, my personal Black heroes are my parents, Willie D. Tate and the late Doris M. Tate. With limited formal education, but hardearned means far beyond anything their parents could have imagined, they raised two strong Black children who always spoke their minds and stood up for justice. I hold the memory of my mother close to my heart and cherish the formally frayed, but lovingly mended, relationship I have with my aging father. With my loving partner Simon, a roof over my head, and food in my cupboards, in the words of The Clark Sisters standard, I am truly “blessed and highly favored.” Michael Tate is the Director of the Stanford Alumni Association. Since 2002 he has been a member of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus for which he has held several leadership positions.

Michael and Simon with their Irish family Michael (top row center) on the front page of the San Franicsco Bay Times (June 13, 2019) featuring the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus concert poster

Watch for Michael Tate performing as a member of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus at their next concert, Angels, streaming live and free of charge, Saturday, March 11, 6 pm. http://www.sfgmc.org Michael Tate with his partner, Simon S AN F R ANC IS C O BAY T IM ES

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Eviction Moratorium Extended January, has been extended through June. This allows residents to stay in their homes, if they declare under penalty of perjury that their inability to pay rent is due to COVID-19. Tenants must also pay 25% of all rent owed from September 2020 through June 2021 in order to be protected from eviction. These payments can be made either monthly or in one lump sum.

Assemblymember Phil Ting The numbers are striking. A recent U.S. Census Bureau survey found nearly two million adult Californians are behind on their rent. State budget officials estimate the tab of how much they owe is $400 million, but federal and independent researchers put that figure at more than $1 billion. As Chair of the Assembly Budget Committee, I ensured we took quick action last month to provide relief, leading state lawmakers to enact the strongest renter safeguards in the country—going even further than the federal order signed by President Biden on his first day in office. With the passage of SB 91, California’s moratorium on evictions, originally set to expire at the end of

The legislation also creates a State Rental Assistance Program, using $2.6 billion in funds from Congress to help both tenants and landlords pay off rental debt. It targets incomeeligible Californians who are most at-risk of becoming homeless, while also preventing property owners from foreclosure. But landlords have to agree to forgive 20% of arrears, or “back rent,” in order to qualify for subsidies that will cover the remaining 80% of what their tenants owe. Housing advocates say direct payment is the best strategy to keep a roof over people’s heads. If a landlord does not want to participate, any back rent owed by a tenant cannot be the basis for eviction. The application process for this new tenant and landlord aid is still being developed, but will be available no later than March 15th. When ready, information can be found at www.HousingIsKey.com

In addition to these state provisions, local resources can help further stabilize families. The San Francisco Rent Board, for instance, oversees all rental rules and regulations and can offer counseling in multiple languages. There are also nonprofits, such as Tenants Together and the Tenderloin Housing Clinic, which provide services including legal representation. Anyone served with an eviction notice during the moratorium can certainly turn to these groups for support. Tenants Together: COVID-19 Tenants Defense https://bit.ly/3qHd5iJ Tenderloin Housing Clinic: Legal Programs https://bit.ly/2ZDa6w4 We know more work needs to be done as many renters are still struggling and living on the edge. This is a time when people need their government the most, and we’re committed to not only preventing homelessness, but also to spurring economic recovery and ramping up vaccine distribution. These are the keys that will enable California to emerge from the pandemic stronger. Phil Ting represents the 19th Assembly District, which includes the Westside of San Francisco along with the communities of Broadmoor, Colma, and Daly City.

Making Sure Vaccines Are Available for Everyone California and in other parts of the country, the vaccine has not been equitably distributed in the community. Thus, we have been working—in a coalition including city and county leaders, along with community stakeholders, and now also state and federal officials, and other vital partners—to push for and implement meaningful solutions to the inequities in the distribution.

Out of the Closet and into City Hall Oakland City Councilmember At-Large, Rebecca Kaplan On February 16, 2021, the Biden Administration through FEMA, and Governor Newsom through the California Office of Emergency Services, together with local leaders, opened the first of 100 mass vaccination sites that will open throughout the country at the Oakland-Alameda Coliseum. The Coliseum site provides a way to meet a glaring community need. It is vital to take action to expand access to vaccination, especially for some of our hardesthit communities that have been left behind. It is well-established that the Black and Latinx communities, which have among the highest rates of suffering with COVID-19, have among the lowest rates of vaccination. Both in

For example, many vaccination sites have limited access to be drive-in only, so that people have to arrive by car to use the site. Limiting access only to those with cars tends to limit access only to people with more privilege. We were pleased to be able to work with both BART and AC Transit, as well as state and federal leaders, to resolve this. The Oakland Coliseum site includes access for pedestrians, people arriving from BART and AC Transit, along with extra special transit shuttles, provided by AC Transit, to improve direct access to the site for underserved communities. We have also worked to advocate for more direct outreach and distribution in partnership with local community-based organizations, and greater ease of access for those who do not have technological means to use online signup systems. The Oakland Coliseum site will improve the distribution of the COVID vaccines in Alameda County. The site is planned to give 6,000 vaccines a day. Most importantly, the site is located at the center of the neighborhoods with the highest COVID positive rates, making it accessible for the most affected communities. Portions of vaccines are directed to organizations in communities of concern in the effort to help in terms of rates of vaccination. In addition to the Coliseum site, there will also be two mobile vaccination vehicles that will go out into the community to increase the impact of the site. The coronavirus pandemic is continuing to harm our community, and we must keep working to improve access to healthcare, including vaccination, to improve the inequities and reduce suffering throughout our communities. To sign up to be notified when vaccination is available, go to https;//myturn.ca.gov or call 1-833-422-4255. Councilmember At-Large and Council President Rebecca Kaplan was elected in 2008 to serve as Oakland’s citywide Councilmember; she was re-elected in 2016 and 2020. She also serves on the Alameda County Transportation Commission (ACTC). Follow Councilmember Kaplan on Twitter @Kaplan4Oakland ( https://twitter.com/Kaplan4Oakland ) and Facebook ( https://www.facebook.com/Kaplan4Oakland/ ).

Mission Food Hub Says, “Thank You!” Volunteers at the Mission Food Hub, who were visited recently by actor Danny Glover at their 701 Alabama Street location, are sending their appreciations to San Francisco Bay Times readers who have donated to help eliminate food insecurity. The Hub was founded to assist those in need during the COVID-19 pandemic. You can help! Text the word “Comida” to 202858-11223 (via the Givebutter text-to-donate platform) for directions on how to give. Mailed donations are also accepted. Please make checks payable to CNA/Mission Food Hub and mail to 1333 Florida Street, San Francisco, CA 94110 6

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CELEBRATING FOUR DECADES (1978–2021)

Daddy’s Barber Shop 4102 19th Street 10 am–6 pm Tuesday–Saturday 415-552-5101 Contact: Arlen arlen@daddysbarbershop.com http://www.daddysbarbership.com Daddy’s takes great pride in its offering of the long-lost artistry of old school barbering by a team of expert barbers and stylists. Gay-owned and operated, Daddy’s Castro location was founded in 2008 and since then has developed a loyal following, rave reviews, and a second location in Palm Springs. In San Francisco, the shop has a long history of support for Leather community events. Founder Arlen Lasater served for more than ten years as a board member and volunteer for Folsom Street Events and the Mr. & Ms. San Francisco Leather Contests. Daddy’s is following all pandemic safety requirements and keeps all doors and windows open to increase airflow. All customer concerns are addressed. Check for appointments, and look for Surface and Hanz de Fuko haircare products on sale at the shop. Mention the San Francisco Bay Times and you will receive a $5 discount through April 16, 2021. Photos courtesy of Daddy’s Barber Shop

Human Rights Campaign San Francisco Store 575 Castro Street 11 am–6 pm Thursday–Monday; closed Tuesday & Wednesday Contact: John Winter 415-431-2200 http://www.shop.hrc.org The HRC Store on Castro Street offers branded (HRC equal sign logo) merchandise, including t-shirts, hoodies, water bottles, bangles, and much more designed to raise awareness of the fight for equal rights for the LGBTQ community. “Love Conquers Hate,” “Trans Rights Now!” and “United Against Hate” are examples of the expressive slogans featured on selected items. Key goals of the store are to inform the public on how they can join and support the ongoing work for full LGBTQ equality, to be aware of and end violence and discrimination against Trans and persons of color, and to support queer youth on their journey of coming out and future leadership. The HRC SF Store is located in the historic home of Harvey Milk’s Castro Camera shop. HRC staff inform the public about Harvey’s life, work, and legacy in the hope that his inspirational and historic life will spur the fight for full equality for all today. During the COVID-19 pandemic, the HRC SF store has made adjustments for the safety of customers and staff. Health Department guidelines are followed on restricted occupancy, masks, social distancing, safety barriers, and cleaning schedules, and hand sanitizer is provided to everyone entering the store.

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Hot Cookie 407 Castro Street 11 am–8 pm Monday–Thursday; 11 am–9 pm Friday–Sunday Contact: Paul Perretta 415-621-2350 paul@hotcookie.com http://www.hotcookie.com “Cookies, community, and customers!” That’s how Hot Cookies describes what makes this internationally known cookie shop a “must do” for locals and visitors alike. Since its founding in 1997, Hot Cookie’s dedication to reflecting and supporting the spirit of the Castro and its rich history—plus its fabulous products—have skyrocketed this shop so it sits among the most well-known of Castro locations. A self-declared “safe space,” Hot Cookie has offerings that reflect its dedication to celebrating queer identify and self-expression. Yes, those famous sexual organ shaped cookies are available on special order as are other custom items. Stop by any day and you will find a tempting selection of freshly-baked cookies, brownies, crispy treats, bars, and even t-shirts and underwear. For beverages, bottles of milk and water are always available. In response to the pandemic, Hot Cookie has adapted its in-store customer capacity, increased cleaning and sanitization practices, and implemented contactless payments. During 2020, Hot Cookie’s good news was the opening of a second location at 1817 Polk Street, the street where the first LGBTQ Pride Parade was held in San Francisco. Photos by Juan R. Davila

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F EBRUARY 25, 2021

Sister Dana Sez: Words of Wisdumb from a Fun Nun

Kim Corsaro Publisher 1981-2011

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By Sister Dana Van Iquity

The Bay Times was the first newspaper in California, and among the first in the world, to be jointly and equally produced by lesbians and gay men. We honor our history and the paper’s ability to build and strengthen unity in our community.

Sister Dana sez, "Cowardly Senators who did not convict at the Second Impeachment Trial are apparently on their way to Oz, because they are all in need of a brain, a heart, and some courage!"

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AIDS/LIFECYCLE presented TOGETHERIDE: A Drag Show on February 12, online. Showcasing the fiercest fashionistas in the TogetheRide community, special guest performances, and everything you needed to know about drag, this was a benefit for SF AIDS FOUNDATION (SFAF) and LOS ANGELES LGBT CENTER. Guest hosts were Sister Roma of the SF Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence and Sister Bearonce Knows of the LA SPI. We got drag tips from Salina EsTittlies, who gave original lyrics to “Please Mr. Postman.” Of course, Sister Dana did not need makeup tips, as my makeup is always flawless. NOT!!! So many folx executed perfect lip-synch— including Trudging Buddies doing Stevie Nicks’ “Edge of Seventeen”; Glenn Moreau with Queen’s “Bicycle”; drag king Vico Suave with a Spanish serenade on timbales; Dragula’s Landon Cider with a goth “We Are Golden”; LA SPI in a medley from Sister Act; and Backstreet Butches going country with “Ain’t No Place.” And the list continued with Sister Fancy Pants of Vancouver SPI; Dunka Shay Monroe; Mary Lou Pearl; Bobbee Trans Mooreman; Wendy Hiller; and even Anthony Laverde’s dog, Dudley. We heard inspiring speeches from org reps Tony Bradford of SFAF’s BLACK BROTHERS ESTEEM; Baruch

In Memoriam

We joined ICP Andrew Munrose and ICP The One And Only Rexy in conjunction with Emperor William Bulkley and Empress Mimi Osa and the IMPERIAL COUNCIL OF SAN FRANCISCO to celebrate a year of growth and community in the Court System during the annual ICP BALL:”MATCHED!” on February 13 (night before Valentine's Day), a fun game where Mx Cow Hand 2020–2021 Foxxy Blue Snacks/Dino Foxx and Duchess Kylie Minono searched for their perfect match! They also showcased performances by Empress LIV Baby-Shaques

I had the privilege and pleasure of participating in GRACE CATHEDRAL’s annual Mardi Gras fundraiser, CARNIVALE, virtually on February 16. I joined several of my fellow Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence in lip-syncing “Oh Happy Day” and “My God” (to the tune of “My Guy”) from both Sister Act movies. Hallelujah! The perfect belated Valentine’s Day, Presidents Day, Mardi Gras, Ash Wednesday, Lent, and/or Purim event was LOCKDOWN COMEDY, presented by “Kung Pao Kosher Comedy” comic

Sister Dana with Gary Virginia at Krewe De Kinque’s St. Patrick’s Day Celebration held at the Edge in March of 2018.

Lisa Geduldig on February 18. February’s show featured Jackie Hoffman (NY), Elvira Kurt (Toronto), Bernadette Luckett (SF), and Arline (her mom) & Lisa Geduldig (both from Flawrida). Every 3rd Thursday Lisa brings us Lockdown Comedy on Zoom, so we see the comics live and hear our own laughter complete with chat. Sister Dana sez, "It gives me great pleasure that the NAACP is suing Trump, Giuliani, the Proud Boys, and other extremist groups for inciting Capitol riots—citing the Civil Rights Act of 1871!” EMERGENCY CONTACT is a free live reading by THEATRE RHINO via Zoom on March 2, 7 pm. Shawn is pretty sure his onenight-stand with the troubled Derrick can’t get any worse after Derrick passes out and then pukes on his own bedroom floor. Things get even more interesting, however, when the concerned Shawn reaches out to Derrick’s so-called “Emergency Contact” in his cell phone and finds out that it is Derrick’s ex-boyfriend, (continued on page 18)

Photos by Rink

A memorial tribute for Hector Crawford was posted on February 14 at Hibernia Beach, located at the intersection of 18th and Castro Streets. Crawford was an active participant and supporter of community organizations, including Krewe De Kinque, the Imperial Court of San Francisco, and Mama Reinhardt’s benefits.

Mary Wilson Members of the Bay Area’s LGBT community are remembering the life of Mary Wilson, an original member of The Supremes, who performed at benefits, including REAF’s Health Is On the Way for the Holidays at Hotel Rex (2011) and the Maitri Bliss Gala held at the UCSF Mission Bay Conference Center (2013).

Lawrence Ferlinghetti Pivotal counterculture leader Lawrence Ferlinghetti, who was a renowned poet, painter, and the co-founder of City Lights Bookstore & Publishers, died on February 22 at age 101. Family and friends indicated that a memorial may be scheduled after the end of the coronavirus pandemic.

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Sister Dana sez, "Talk Radio's radical rightwing racist, misogynist, AIDSphobic, Trumpism extremist Rush Limbaugh is dead. I will RUSH right out to get a funeral wreath and sing an appropriate funeral hymn, ‘Ding Dong! The Witch Is Dead!’”

RICHMOND/ERMET AID FUNDRAISING (REAF) is known for producing outstanding live entertainment events, and in response to the COVID-19 pandemic, they presented a wonderful virtual concert utilizing some of the best archival performance clips from their 25 years of live concerts. Their Valentine-themed ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE: A Valentine Concert screened on February 13 on YouTube Live with a live chat. This special show raised funds for REAF’s Small Emergency Grants Program to support members of the theater community impacted by the COVID-19 pandemic. REAF’s Ken Henderson and Joe Seiler warmly welcomed us as usual. This stellar show featured stars from Broadway, film, TV and the music industry, including (in alphabetical order) Susan Anton, Petula Clark, Spencer Day, Sharon Gless, Leslie Jordan (as a hilarious Cupid), Kimberley Locke, La Toya London, Meg Mackay, witty Carly Ozard, Renee Taylor, the always uproarious Bruce Vilanch, and so many more. I loved reliving all those glorious moments I had enjoyed live and onstage for 25 years. I could even hear myself hooting and hollering after some of those most memorable performances from the past. https://www.reaf-sf.org/

Hector Crawford

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Statement from TogetheRide: “For more than 28 years, we’ve been focused on ending HIV/AIDS by riding bikes from SF to LA. Because HIV/AIDS is a global pandemic, and there are more things dividing us and keeping us apart than ever before, we’ve created TogetheRide. Together, we are a nationwide movement committed to ending AIDS by harnessing the collective power of our community.” They continued, “The power will come from moving 1.2 million miles, representing the 1.2 million people in the U.S. living with HIV/AIDS. Through this commitment, we are raising $5 million to support San Francisco AIDS Foundation and the Los Angeles LGBT Center. All people, of all ages, are welcome to participate from anywhere in the world.”

Munro, Grand Duchess XLIII Olivia Hart, Imperial Crown Prince 2020 Brent “Daddy” Munro, Queen Of Hearts 2019 Bama, Coco Buttah, and Scroto T Bagginz.

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The Bay Times is proud to be the only newspaper for the LGBT community in San Francisco that is 100% owned and operated by LGBT individuals.

Porras Hernandez from SFAF’s STRUT; Joey Hernandez and Robert Ortiz of the LA LGBT Center; Tamika Butler of AIDS RIDE; and two folx on the power of drag: Urvay Ragland also known as Rotisserie Jackson and Petey Gibson. This incredible show closed with a rousing “You Can’t Stop the Beat” from Hairspray by The Cyclepaths! https://www.togetheride.org/

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Roland Schembari and Bill Hartman, Co-Founders Randy Alfred, Founding News Editor 1978

Change

“If you can’t change it, change your attitude.” Maya Angelou

TLC: Tears, Laughs and Conversation Dr. Tim Seelig ”Change” is a small word, but it holds more different meanings than most words in our vocabulary. It’s both a verb and a noun. After almost a year on Zoom, friends might say, “Please change your clothes.” Or, “A change of clothes is definitely needed here!” Almost everyone, from luminaries to the most definitely not luminaries, have opined about it. Some meanings are part of our everyday language, such as, “The only thing certain is change.” Looking back over my life, I can give a big amen up in there on that! There are others that should be part of our everyday experience. Here are just a few from some amazingly brilliant luminaries. Take a moment or two with each. “Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.” Jalaluddin Mevlana Rumi

“Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” Mahatma Gandhi “The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do.” Steve Jobs There are two kinds of change. One, we choose. The other is not chosen by us but comes our way at the hands of others—or fate. Sometimes we change jobs, friends, hairstyles (some of you), oil (if you own a car), and we change our minds. Sometimes things are changed for us. And, almost always, we are changed. The topic of change usually comes around each January. This January was such an incredible month of upheaval. The dust is just now settling so we can see things a little more clearly. My last article was about the fact that, under normal circumstances, “Hindsight is 20/20.” That usually means you can look back and see things more clearly than you ordinarily might while you are going through it. Hindsight for the year

2020 is anything but clear. What a mess it was. In this article, I will briefly share some thoughts on change in our country, city, chorus, my world, and me. Of course, I encourage you to consider your own changes along the way. January 2021 was definitely a month of change. It was one for the books—in so many obvious ways. We had a change in the president of the United States. That was not without unbelievable struggle with everyone holding their breath on January 20. And why wouldn’t we, since the former president led a coup attempt to overthrow the incoming, democratically elected president. That only led to him being impeached—a second time— and then not convicted on crimes documented by the Senate, even though they barely escaped with their lives. All of that was a big change! More is needed. Much more.

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For those you who guessed a 6, I love you, too. Nope, it’s a 7! Yup, I turned 70. That just can’t be. I waved my arms at SFGMC for the very first time the day before I turned 60. It’s been the most glorious 10 years. I never imagined that in my 10th season with the chorus, I would not conduct at all. I look forward to some more!

For those who have followed along for these years, thank you. You also know my life has been full of change—large and small. OK, huge and medium. Change has literally been the constant. In 1991, in the midst of the AIDS One thing changed about pandemic when losses our current situation “When you come were unimaginawith COVIDto the edge of all the light ble and I had 19, but many only been didn’t. Some you have and take that step into out for a businesses the unknown, faith is knowing one few years, remain shut of two things will happen: you will a friend down and sent me there was an step on solid ground or you these amazexodus from will be taught to fly.” ing words by our city. The folPatrick Overton: lowing was reported — Patrick Overton “When you come to the in SF Weekly: “According edge of all the light you have and to United States Postal Service take that step into the unknown, data, change-of-address requests Seventy seemed the perfect time faith is knowing one of two things originating from San Francisco will happen: you will step on solid to add a family member! Bobby Jo zip codes between March and ground or you will be taught to and I have been looking for a dog November 2020 suggest that fly.” nearly 90,000 households have for some time. OK, truth be told, relocated outside of the city since I’ve been the one scouring every This has been my constant comCOVID-19 swept into the United rescue organization in the Bay panion for these 30 years when States.” On the bright side, it has Area. We found the perfect one. facing change of any kind. The resulted in easier parking. More We adopted him from Muttville. If faith referenced has no religious than 10% of our San Francisco you don’t know them, you need to. connotation for me. It is one of Gay Men’s Chorus members have They rescue and place senior dogs the few verses in my own “Bible already relocated. This is a big and cats only. of Tim”! It is simply the faith in change. myself. It is the knowing I have it Most people adopting are looking inside me to face whatever comes. The one positive thing that has for a young dog or even a puppy. It is also the faith in those I have changed and brought indescribThe seniors are overlooked. We been lucky enough to gather able hope: the arrival of the vacadopted an adorable 7-pound around me. My angels. cine. Oh, what a relief it is. chihuahua mix. He’s around It is going to change everything as There is a beautiful song com12-years-old (we’re close to the it continues to roll out. posed by Andrew Lloyd Webber same age). The foster name they from Aspects of Love, “Love Changes In terms of the chorus, our last gave him was Mashed Potato. He Everything.” The lyrics were writperformances were March 7 is adorable! We thought TaterTot ten by Don Black and Charles and 8, 2020, in Charleston and was more our style. My other dogHart. It is beautiful and oh so true. Greenville, South Carolina. Our gie Gracey, whom you have seen Take a moment and think about last rehearsal was March 1. What in past articles, moved to Denver your own life. How many times a grueling year it has been. We with Dan. They both can’t wait to has love guided you, touched you, have not been able to sing in permeet TaterTot. That’s a big and changed you? son and certainly not for an audiwonderful change! https://tinyurl.com/1936d3ua ence. We exist on Zoom, as everyone else does. You can’t I leave you with rehearse on Zoom since multhat beautitiple voices cannot be heard at ful text. I also once. We’re creating virtual conleave you with tent as fast as we can. That process the suggestion is more difficult than you might that I can back imagine and certainly difficult for up with my own the singers to record themselves life. Change, singing only their part—alone! All while someof it is available times painful, has on SFGMC TV. always brought We are looking for new things, new life, change! and new opportunities. Personally, I’ve experienced some change. The first number of my age changed with a decade birthday. I know you guessed it was a 5. I love you.

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“Change is inevitable. Growth is optional.” John Maxell

As we all go through change to come, may we remember to face it with love in our hearts.

Dr. Tim Seelig is the Artistic Director of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus.

Donna’s Chronicles

By Donna Sachet

unday, February 14, 2021, 18th Street in the Castro, closed to vehicular traffic, was hopping with activity as pedestrians of every stripe strolled up and down, some grabbing seats at the outdoor parklets of Midnight Sun, The Mix, Lark, or other establishments to grab a bite and a cocktail or two. In front of the Mask Shop on the ground level below Poesia, a colorfully decorated table was selling Mardi Gras styled treats, created by members of the local Krewe de Kinque. Further up the street, Harvey’s did brisk business below sun umbrellas and The Edge had hardly a seat available at their parklet wrapping around onto Collingwood Street. Further up Castro Street, Café Mystique, 440 Castro, The Cove, and others beckoned passers-by. Strolling up Market Street, outdoor seating and the best fish and chips in town lured folks into Catch and a lively drag show spilled out of Beaux to the delight of guests seated outside, all generously tipping the performers. At the busy intersection of Noe Street, Lookout served jubilant folks relaxing on the sidewalk and dangling from the balcony above. A variety of retail stores along the way welcomed customer traffic and residential windows were flung open to the crisp, dry weather. Yes, it seems that this latest easing of COVID-19 restrictions was just what many were waiting for, resulting in a pleasant revival of laughter, merriment, and socializing (largely masked and safely distanced) in the Castro. Much has been written about the malaise this pandemic has created, not just in terms of medical dangers, personal isolation, and health paranoia, but also in economic terms. Loss of jobs, reduced income, and gloomy forecasts have followed us for nearly a year. In addition, the dire impact of COVID-19 and all its related restrictions have devastated many otherwise thriving neighborhoods in San Francisco, as across the country. A normal morning walk in the Castro has had a completely different feel to it, absent noticeable pedestrian and vehicular traffic, faced with boarded up businesses, and reflecting on friends and family challenged as never before. Casual lunches to catch up with friends had to be carefully planned in advance, limited in size, and fraught with safety measures. Weekend nights no longer beckoned with exciting crowds, ecstatic music, and strong cocktails often shared at the many bustling bars and restaurants, as one day simply bled into another. Last Sunday, however, we personally felt a delightful hint of hope in the air, as we experienced first-hand the scenario described in the opening of this column. Such infinitesimal hope is thankfully contagious. Smiles beget smiles, laughter encourages laughter, and social contact outside of the strictest restrictions imposed since March of 2020 opens one’s heart to new possibilities. These dark days are hardly behind us—far from it. But when you hear of a friend who has received a first vaccine injection, when a new neighbor moves in next door where an apartment has stood empty for months, or when a short visit to the Castro shows so many familiar characteristics of better days, it is hard to avoid the promise ahead. We can finally begin to entertain thoughts of live entertainment, stimulating nightlife, and genuine socializing. It will take a while to determine exactly what form many of our former activities will take as COVID-19 gradually fades from the main stage of the news, leaving us with lingering concerns. But now we encourage you to begin to consciously envision your own life and lifestyle, post-COVID. Will you return to work, maybe in a remote office setting, or will a new career beckon? Will you find old habits comfortably returning or will you do some serious self-examination and make some significant personal changes? After basically a year of a drastically altered lifestyle, what do you consider still important, even vital, and is this the time to reduce certain activities and increase the pursuit of new interests and even people? Nothing can ever make up for the severe mauling we received in 2020 and we should never lose sight of what we have lost, including lives battered by this virus and even lost to it. But this seems to be the right time to formulate plans. We envision reformulated celebrations, reenergized demonstrations, and refocused generosity. We look forward to the calendar listing in this column, including multiple events involving a variety of organizations and causes. We look forward to a robust column full of bold-faced names of those making a difference in our community. And we look forward to a column that leaves our readers with hope, smiles, and resolve. Keep reading, dear readers; we are turning the corner and hope is up ahead!

“We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.” –Martin Luther King, Jr.

Calendar

a/la Sachet Thursday, March 11 SF Gay Men’s Chorus’ Angels When We No Longer Touch AIDS Requiem’s 30th anniversary Includes video premiere celebrating the Artist Portal in the National AIDS Memorial Grove of Golden Gate Park 6 pm Free, contributions welcomed www.sfgmc.org Saturday, March 13 Application deadline for Emperor & Empress Candidates Details to follow www.imperialcouncilsf.org Saturday, March 20 Imperial Council Review Board of Candidates for Emperor & Empress Details to follow www.imperialcouncilsf.org Sunday, March 21 Imperial Council Gala & Introduction of Candidates for Emperor & Empress Details to follow www.imperialcouncilsf.org Saturday, April 10 SF LGBT Center’s Virtual Soirée Inspiration, entertainment, community Hosted by Liam Mayclem & Sister Roma Entertainment by Juanita MORE! 6 pm Sponsorships available, donations welcomed www.sfcenter.org

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Donna Sachet is a celebrated performer, fundraiser, activist and philanthropist who has dedicated over two decades to the LGBTQ Community in San Francisco. Contact her at empsachet@gmail.com

Donna Sachet, sporting a purple hoodie and gold accessories, celebrated Mardi Gras with Gareth Gooch and Krewe de Kinque at The Mask Shop on 18th Street.

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F EBRUARY 25, 2021

Bay Area Hikes During the Pandemic to Experience S

Sports John Chen How many of you have spent more of your time outdoors this past year? Raise your hand if you found yourself at one with nature, often to keep your sanity. Pump your fist if you got in better shape because you have become more active than ever. If you responded positively then somehow, in the most unlikely scenario, the pandemic has actually helped you to reshape and refocus your priorities. And, more likely, it has improved your overall health. If you answered negatively, then perhaps you may want to consider following what many of us are doing to keep us mentally, emotionally, and physically fit: hiking in the great outdoors! On social media, now more than ever, I see many friends taking selfies and posting photos of their scenic hikes. Come to think of it, I have done the same thing. My friend Kyle Thompson, a science teacher, is one of many who has discovered nature and tells me, “Hiking is one of the few great activities available during the pandemic lockdown because it’s great to get outside and breathe fresh air, and do a little ‘forest bathing’ (Shinrin-yoku).” Another longtime friend, Tom Todd, said, “[My husband Boris and I] really enjoy urban hiking because it keeps us busy for hours so that we aren’t tempted to go do things that, let’s just say, may not qualify under COVID-19 safety protocols.” We are fortunate to live in the Bay Area where natural wonders and beauty surround us amidst the concrete jungle. In fact, we don’t have to travel far to get away. Many of the best hikes are practically in our own backyards! For example,

Kyle Thompson’s dogs on the Leona Canyon Trail, Oakland

I really enjoy hiking the hills at Garin Regional Park in Hayward as well as Coyote Hills in Fremont. Both offer excellent views of the bay once you reach the top. There are many other great hikes within a short drive or even walking distance to wherever you are in the Bay Area for you to discover. Here are some of my “pandemic-turned-avid-hiker” friends’ favorite local hikes. Leona Canyon Trail, Oakland (recommended by Kyle Thompson) Leona Canyon Trail is a somewhat lesser-known hiking trail in Oakland and is a favorite spot for Thompson, his partner, and his two dogs. He told me for the San Francisco Bay Times: “One of our favorite secret spots is the Leona Canyon Trail, where the steep canyon walls shield the trail from excessive heat in the summer, and the stream running along the trail keeps the ground wet year-round to support large bay laurel and California buckeye trees. The trail also has unique features, such as an abandoned homestead with only a mossy stone chimney remaining.” The Presidio, San Francisco (recommended by Tom Todd and Boris Wang)

Tom Todd and Boris Wang

The Presidio, San Francisco

Many of you may have heard about The Presidio because it is a former military post that is now a National Park and a major recreation hub where people take in the history and the beauty that the city has to offer. Todd tells me that maybe it is time to go again and again. “[Boris] and I take

every opportunity to hike The Presidio,” he says. “It is our little national park with miles and miles of trails through forests, defunct forts, and military barracks overlooking the Golden Gate Bridge, Alcatraz, and downtown. There is always something to see and do. We love it!”

Claremont Canyon Regional Preserve, Berkeley

Claremont Canyon Regional Preserve, Berkeley (recommended by Orlando Baez and William Bir)

Baez and Bir have been hiking all over the Bay Area every weekend since the start of the pandemic. Baez is especially enthusiastic about finding more challenging hikes through the “AllTrails” app ( https://www.alltrails.com/ ) and recommends the scenic Claremont Canyon Regional Preserve Berkeley and the Oakland Hills. He explains, “This hike is fun bec and their ups and downs. Although somewhat of a strenuous hike, top, we are rewarded with an amazing panoramic view of downtow Francisco as well as the 5-mile connecting bridge.” Baez also cauti elevation, this hike is probably for the more active and experience h do it, it’s well worth the effort!”

Alum Rock Park, San Jose (recommended by Thang Asia Vuo

For those in Silicon Valley, my essential worker friend Thang Asia Alum Rock Park is the place for great hikes. The park has nearly 1 ing from easy walks on the valley floor to the most challenging clim you can see sweeping views of the Santa Clara Valley. Vuong says, beautiful views, especially during spring when wildlife and native p I really like all the different view points that give you great perspec Bay. Just goes to show that you don’t have to leave the Bay Area for experience!”

John Chen, a UCLA alumnus and an avid sports fan, has compet tennis, volleyball, softball and football teams.

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Shinrin-yoku (Forest Bathing)

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CELEBRATING FOUR DECADES (1978–2021)

‘Forest Bathing’ Improves Both Physical and Mental Wellbeing The term Shinrin-yoku, which translates to “forest bathing” or taking in the forest atmosphere, was coined in 1982 by the Japanese Ministry of Agriculture, Forestry, and Fisheries. While a refreshing soak in a natural setting can be restorative, the practice is more about letting nature figuratively wash over you. Many of us have been hoping for that natural rush while walking, hiking, biking, and enjoying other outdoor activities during this COVID-19 pandemic time. Once-quiet streets in the Bay Area on sunny days have seen numerous individuals either on leisurely strolls or power walks. Destinations such as Golden Gate Park have grown in popularity. The reopening of other local, state, and national parks has offered us a literal breath of fresh air. Other than such obvious benefits, we have been wondering how Shinrin-yoku really affects us. For the answer we turned to research from Chiba University, where investigators conducted field experiments in 24 forests across Japan. In each experiment, 12 subjects (280 total; ages 21.7 ± 1.5 year) walked in and viewed a forest or city area. On the first day, six subjects were sent to a forest area, while the others went to a more urban location. On the second day, each group was sent to the other area as a crosscheck. Salivary cortisol, blood pressure, pulse rate, and heart rate variability were used as indices that were measured in the morning at the accommodation facility before breakfast and also both before and after the walking (for 16 ± 5 min) and viewing (for 14 ± 2 min).

Alum Rock Park, San Jose Claremont Canyon Regional Preserve, Berkeley

Orlando Baez and William Bir

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The study, published in Environmental Health Preventative Medicine, showed that “forest environments promote lower concentrations of cortisol, lower pulse rate, lower blood pressure, greater parasympathetic nerve activity, and lower sympathetic nerve activity than do city environments.” The results are now contributing “to the development of a research field dedicated to forest medicine, which may be used as a strategy for preventive medicine.” While this particular study only looked at 280 subjects, the results of additional studies—and anecdotal evidence—come to similar conclusions. It is therefore important not only to spend more quality time in nature, but also to better protect our remaining undeveloped areas and to promote greening of urban areas whenever possible. As transcendentalist Ralph Waldo Emerson mentioned in Nature, an essay written in 1836: “[In the woods] I feel that nothing can befall me in life—no disgrace, no calamity, (leaving my eyes) which nature cannot repair ... I see all; the currents of the Universal Being circulate through me; I am part or particle of God.”

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Sister Roma of Roma’s Ristorante Italiano: ‘If You Love Someone, You Feed Them’ rant with him in the Castro. Our relationship ended in February 2020 and then I found this location (in the former Ruby’s on 3rd Street) and closed escrow in March 2020— just in time for the pandemic,” he said with a laugh.

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They’ve called her “the most photographed nun in the world.” She’s been the subject of a paper doll. And she presides over the annual Hunky Jesus contest every Easter. Who dat? Why, none other than the popular drag queen and Sister of Perpetual Indulgence, Sister Roma.

How did the restaurant come to be? “My love of hospitality came when I moved to Paris in 1998,” Leum told me. “I was lucky to live in a gorgeous neighborhood near the Luxembourg gardens and a restaurant up the street was like my

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kitchen. I experienced many different restaurants—but my favorite one gave me a brass plaque on my favorite table in Paris.” “My love of the industry comes from the customer side,” he added. “I had an Italian chef fiancée and was supposed to open a new restau14

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wine list from wine director Laura Pauli. There are lots of phenomenal Italian wines to choose from at reasonable prices. You can buy them at the grocery and they’re available on the menu as well. So, I had to ask Roma, “What’s your favorite selection on the menu?” Her response: “The local corn soup. Thank God Matthew’s food is so good, because can you imagine how embarrassing it would be when your name is on a restaurant and the food sucks? I can honestly recommend it without hesitation. I also love the Brussels sprouts. I love big meaty balls, so he put meatballs on the menu just for me. Even the salads are great. It’s all yummy.”

people were purchasing meals for the community and I was contacted by Family Mosiac, who saw my post and said they had immigrant families in need. On Thanksgiving, we delivered 25 meals, on Christmas Eve about the same, and on New Year’s Eve we had about 12–15 meals delivered to those at-risk families. I delivered those myself.” “Roma and I now have a ‘Roma delivery Wednesday’ where she’s in drag and it’s the two of us and it’s a great outreach to the community,” Leum added. “We’ve had amazing response. One person bought 20 dinners for Maitri Hospice. At Firehouse #3, we had pre-arranged a delivery for the ten fireman who worked there. That day, one of the team members died in an unex-

Queer Nightlife Fund and we’ll do a virtual version of that with drag on Sunday, April 4.” Added Leum: “I can’t wait for San Francisco to offer 100% indoor dining and then Roma’s can be the restaurant I thought I was buying. Long term, the restaurant next door closed permanently. It also was LGBTQ-owned. It’s the same landlord. My dream is to take that over, open an actual Italian deli (like Lucca’s in the Mission) and have both operations working at the same time. If I can pull off two businesses during a pandemic, that would be great.” ——————————————— And finally, from Chef Daniel, his recipe for that yummy Roasted Tomato Tagliatelle. Now, THAT’s Italian! The Tomato Sauce 1 28-ounce can San Marzano tomatoes, drained 1 large yellow onion, sliced

She’s had accolades for years. But she’s never had a restaurant named after her. Until now.

1 cup garlic, sliced (note: its flavor will mellow when caramelized and roasted) Caramelize the onion and garlic, add drained tomatoes, and roast in oven for 25 minutes at 400 degrees F. The Main Dish 70 grams (approximately 3 slices) of cooked bacon Parmesan cheese to preference PHOTO COURTESY OF MATTHEW LEUM

Matthew Leum, owner of recentlyopened Roma’s Ristorante Italiano in SOMA, explained: “Sister Roma and I have been friends for more than 30 years after meeting at The Stud. I found myself needing a name for the restaurant. I needed something that I could blend the Italian with but make it more local. Rome is my absolute favorite city. And then I thought, how about Roma’s? So, I called Roma up and said, ‘Can I name my restaurant after you?’ To which Roma responded, ‘At first, I was like—are you serious? And then I immediately said yes.’”

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“It was not my idea to do this alone, but then I found chef Daniel Kuuk,” Leum continued. “His heritage is Mayan, but he grew up in the Mission and is a San Francisco native. He has a great pedigree, having worked at Boulevard, Cotogna, and Cala. He is incredibly devoted to this project. I remember chef Mark Paladini said, ‘Most restaurant owners try to control their

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chef—you are not doing that and look what’s happening. Your chef is growing into his own. You are allowing the artwork and the creativity to grow.’” Leum summarized it this way: “I would never limit a chef.” That is certainly true. When my husband and I tried outdoor dining at Roma’s (bring your sweater and a down jacket, by the way), we started with a bottle of crisp Kerner white wine from Italy’s Alto Adige district that didn’t break the bank. We continued with a homemade corn soup that had just the right amount of creaminess, drizzled with olive oil and topped with crispy homemade croutons; then graduated to an innovative roasted tomato tagliatelle (for me) with bacon, chili flakes, and jalapenos (whoever heard of that, but it was delicious!). The homemade pasta was so light it melted in your mouth (think: as good as Acquerello). My husband had the chicken pomodoro with chili flakes and garlic on a bed of bucatini pasta—and apparently loved it, since there was none left for me. For a side, we tried the perfectly tempura-battered broccoli and also ordered feathery light homemade focaccia, served with Italian olive oil and a soupcon of green olives on the side. All the entrees are budget-friendly and boast family-sized portions. The restaurant also does delivery and has a well-stocked Italian grocery inside with all sorts of delicious Italian specialties. When indoor dining resumes, of course, Roma’s will offer that as well. By the way, a shout out to the carefully cultivated

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The Gay Gourmet asked Leum, “Why a grocery AND a restaurant?” He explained, “I closed escrow on the day that all restaurants closed—March 16. I was left holding keys to a restaurant I couldn’t open, plus I couldn’t apply for an SBA loan because I had no restaurant history. The city (at that point) thought indoor dining could re-open in July. I negotiated with landlords about deferred rent and partial payments. On July 6, the city announced the continuation of indoor dining indefinitely. I had a bit of a cry. And then I said, ‘I’m going to open an Italian grocery.’ My father owned supermarkets in Los Angeles. I call Roma’s a ‘grocerant.’ We opened on August 1 with a grocery and full takeout/delivery menu.” One of the big differentiators for Roma’s is its community focus. Said Leum, “I had always intended on having a large community theme. One of the nicest things is that it has grown organically from people who are supporting me and my journey. Roma’s did a Thanksgiving meal kit for sale and I sold more kits to give to the community than people who came and picked up dinner. I put something on NextDoor about the fact that

pected accident and we still delivered the meals. It was a very moving thing we did.”

Roma said, “The firemen had been at services all day so we got there at the end of the day—they were so tired and hungry, they were very touched that we did that. We also served meals to the hospital at UCSF: the frontline workers, the people who are suffering because of COVID-19. It’s a blessing to have this opportunity with something so tangible and real as a warm, hot meal. If you love someone, you feed them.” I asked both, “When you’re not eating at Roma’s, where do you like to eat?” Without taking a breath, Roma responded: “I’m a huge fan of Rocco’s—another family-run business. That was the place that I featured when I was on Check Please, Bay Area. I’m friends with Chef Don.”

10 grams (about 3 cloves) of sliced garlic 8 grams (about 1/2 tablespoon, or to taste) sliced jalapeño A pinch of chili flakes One heaping scoop of the roasted tomato sauce 80 grams (about 1/2 cup) of chicken stock Cooked homemade tagliatelle (or use DeCecco dried pasta) Render bacon in a sauté pan, add sliced garlic, and let it get slightly brown. Once garlic has some color, add jalapeño, tomato sauce, and the pinch of chili flakes. Bring back to the stovetop and add the chicken stock. Season to taste, adjusting heat to your preference. Finish off by grating cheese in the pan. Add cooked tagliatelle, homemade if possible. Give it a few tosses and serve.

Said Leum: “I tend to be very Castro-centric because I like supporting the LGBTQ community. I stole my manager Roasted Tomato Tagliatelle Eric from Harvey’s—it’s my go-to. Harvey’s is all about the Roma’s Ristorante Italiano: https://www.sfromas.com/ people. I love going and supporting them. I also love Osaka Sushi and Sister Roma and the Sisters of Anchor Oyster Bar.” Perpetual Indulgence: I then asked, “What’s next for Sister https://www.thesisters.org/roma Roma? And Roma’s?”

“I’m hosting the SFLGBT Center’s Soirée Saturday, April 10; then Easter is coming up and it’s our big Sisters anniversary party—normally, we would welcome 10,000 for the Easter Bonnet/Hunky Jesus Contest at Dolores Park,” Roma replied. “The event benefits SF

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Local Neighborhood Organization Attempts to Save Cliff House Collection The organization OutsideLands is now working with A.C.T. Conservation, The Great Highway Gallery, and other art handlers and galleries in an attempt to save the Cliff House collection from auction. OutsideLands, which is a Western Neighborhoods Project (WNP), recently issued this statement, in part, from Executive Director Nicole Meldahl: “The recent closure of the Cliff House is the end of an era, and our shared heritage is now being sold off, piece-by-piece, despite valiant efforts, by longtime owners to save their beloved business. An auction is set to take place March 11–13th and we need your help to pick up these pieces. Priority works to save include but are not limited to: The Cowboy statue from Playland by the Beach; Sutro Bath bathing suits; The wooden carved California Grizzly bear; The Whitney family totem pole; A wooden Sutro carousel horse; Italian porcelain and tile Muse reliefs;

San Francisco Bay Times team members will miss seeing the Cliff House staff, including Michael Anderson and Demitrios Vafiadis, affectionally known as “The Dinner Maven” and “The Lunch Queen.”

Oil painting portrait of Mr Sutro; Photographs; Historical documents; Promotional banners from Sutro Baths and Playland. Our collective is working directly with the auction company to acquire these items. They even delayed the auction date to give us more time to fundraise. Once acquired, they will be a permanent part of the WNP collection.” Tourists and locals alike who enjoyed visiting the Cliff House over the years may recall at least some of these iconic items that represent California history and specifically the scenic Ocean Beach-Land’s End area. The San Francisco Bay Times supports the OutsideLands effort that, if successful, would safeguard the memory of The Cliff House, Sutro Baths, and Playland at the Beach for years to come and for all to enjoy. To make a tax-deductible donation, go to: https://tinyurl.com/4ztbqfm5 OutsideLands will not be able to save all of the Cliff House items. Some hold historic importance, but others reflect more utilitarian aspects of the formerly bustling restaurants and bars that operated within the Cliff House. As of this writing, ovens, refrigerators, appliances, dinnerware, flatware, drinkware, and front and back of house items are set to be auctioned off by Rabin Worldwide on March 11. On March 12, Cliff House, Sutro Baths, and Playland memorabilia, plus gift shop merchandise, will be on offer. On March 13, 200+ vintage autographed movie star photos will be sold.

Laura Reid, Director of Marketing and Business Development for Rabin Worldwide, shared more about the auction. San Francisco Bay Times: Why is this such a significant auction? Laura Reid: The auction of the Cliff House is an opportunity to buy a memento or memorabilia from a historic restaurant and event space that so many hold near and dear to their hearts. It is also an opportunity for history buffs and proud San Franciscans to purchase a piece of San Francisco history and ensure that these unique pieces stay in the region. San Francisco Bay Times: Please tell us about the items that were stolen in early February and if they were previously slated to be in the auction. Laura Reid: The stolen items were previously part of the auction and include vintage Sutro Bath swimsuits from the early 20th century, a carved wooden carousel horse from Playlandat-the-Beach, and several Sutro Bath posters. In a wonderful turn of events, the stolen items have very recently been recovered. After some restoration work to the pieces, we will add these items back into the auction. San Francisco Bay Times: What are some of the most noteworthy items in the auction and why they are important? Laura Reid: The collection of Playland-at-the-Beach and Sutro Baths pieces are all one-of-a-kind items from these San Francisco landmarks. The two large Italian porcelain and tile reliefs of muses were commissioned by Adolph Sutro in 1890 and are stunning pieces of art in perfect condition. A 10-foot-tall cowboy statue that once stood at Playland’s Frontier Arcade is another rare piece from the seaside amusement park that closed in 1972. The vintage Sutro Bath bathing suits and posters would be of interest to many collectors while the vintage postcards and antique photographs give a feel for San Francisco from 100 years ago.

Some of the items for auction; (top) Mozaic wall statues, (bottom) various celebrity autographed pictures, (inset) lobby bar, (center left) totem pole, (center right) bathing suit.

For more information about the auction, go to https://rabin.com/Overview/Auction/the-cliff-house/

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Jewelle Gomez film Mildred Pierce maybe four times before I was sent to bed! I had read the James Caine novel on which the movie was based by the time I was 10 years old, but I was bereft that I couldn’t see little Vida get her comeuppance. And I could never get enough of wisecracking Eve Arden.

Leave Signs Jewelle Gomez I’ve always loved movies and television. When I was a kid, I even did my homework while I watched television, figuring that if I couldn’t get the classwork done during the commercials there was something wrong with me. (I don’t recommend it for parents today.) My great grandmother, Grace, and I watched anything from the original Start Trek to Perry Mason. One of my great tragedies as a young child was that my bedtime was 9 pm. I think I saw the first half of the

My crush on Arden would have alerted me that I was a lesbian if I didn’t already know it. I kept hoping that it would be revealed in the second half of the movie that she rescued Joan Crawford from her conniving, two-timing boyfriend and they lived happily ever after, baking pies in their Post Warm roadside restaurant. I finally bought my own copy of the film so I’d never be left hanging again. Spoiler alert: Eve and Joan don’t end up together. The pandemic shutdown has given me the time to watch almost all the TV and movies I could possibly want, including a relaxed evening with Mildred Pierce, which I’d already seen about 40 times. But everything looks so good on a giant TV screen! There have been some extraordinary new things too. Yes, I binge watched Watchman—who can resist the way it reveals some real and devastating Black history? Who can resist Regina King in a mask?

African American women whose skin color might allow them to “pass” for white. Two childhood friends are featured—one does, another doesn’t. How such decisions can twist and taint the path of life is patiently revealed and embodied by two amazing actors: Ruth Negga (Loving) and Tessa Thompson (Creed).

And yes, I swallowed Lovecraft Country, almost whole, kind of like the scary, multi-armed succubus it features. Our own Cheryl Most significant is that the film Dunye (Watermelon Woman) is also directed by Rebecca directed episodes of the Hall who acted in Vicky Crisshow, so I was going to tina Barcelona, and who idenwatch it even if the succutifies as biracial. Hall, who bus sprang out of the TV is British, has in interviews at me. The series amplidiscussed rooting out her fied what we learned about the difficulty of travel for ancestry through her AfriCheryl Dunye African Americans in the can American mother. Her own 1940s and 1950s. It features story is cinematic. She and her characters who create the “Green Rebecca cinematographer, Eduard Grau, Books” that informed Black folks Hall capture the vibrant beauty of Harwhere they can eat or sleep safely lem in the 1920s in the textured when travelling. Of course, the black and white film in ways book didn’t point out superone wouldn’t believe possible. natural beings! And it’s wonderful that the I’ve wanted to go to the film’s appearance in 2021 Sundance Film Festival allows for Hall’s exploration since I was in college and of the erotic tension between understood that movies were like going to church the two women characters for me. This year I was that, needless to say, wasn’t Tessa Thompson and Ruth Negga to star in Rebecca Hall's directorial debut able to “go” ... online. But encouraged when the novel the virtual visit was just fine; was published. Even when the I avoided the mile-high snow Eduard novel was rescued by the Black Arts drifts. The movement in the 1960s, there was Grau Festival feano recognition of that erotic contured a counection between the two main charple of amazing acters. Of course, there is no way that films that I’m oversight happens today. The film is one assuming will be long caress. seen streaming soon. I have a couple of other things from SunOne extraordidance I’ll save for later. nary film is PassPassing by Nella Larsen Jewelle Gomez is a lesbian/feminist ing, based on the activist, novelist, poet, and playwright. She’s written for “The novel by Nella Advocate,” “Ms. Magazine,” “Black Scholar,” “The San Francisco Larson pubChronicle,” “The New York Times,” and “The Village Voice.” Follow lished in 1929. Nella Larsen Joan Crawford and Eve Arden starring in Mildred Pierce her on Instagram and Twitter @VampyreVamp It is the story of

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Bruce Is the Best!

Off the Wahl Jan Wahl He’s often called “a gay icon.” The internet lauds him as a six-time Emmy winner. His appearances on Hollywood Squares and writing for the Academy Award shows are the stuff of comedy legend. To get the details of the work of Bruce Vilanch, find Get Bruce, a 1999 documentary with everyone from Lily Tomlin to Nathan Lane, Whoopi Goldberg, and so many more explaining working with this man who supplies them with comedy, magic, and wit. After another night with a fundraiser for one of my favorite organizations, the Richmond Ermet Aid Foundation, Bruce and I chatted about showbiz from his unique point of view. We began with a couple of famous actors, both in the closet and both miserable for it. He also told me the kind of movies he enjoys now: “I go for special effects, superhero movies because the guys sleep with me afterward. Go with a Marvel guy and you get laid. There is a whole new generation that worships Britney Spears and Taylor Swift. Who gives a rat’s ass? Britney is a big ol’ Ann Margaret knockoff. Madonna is all the same, the Judith Anderson of rock and roll.” (See Anderson in Rebecca.) Of course, we had to get into some recent controversy surrounding one of my favorite movies recently, The Prom. He said, “I saw The Prom on Broadway; it was much sharper. The movie was pitched to a different audience. The edges were shaved a bit.” When I asked about the idea that James Corden, who is straight, should not play a gay character, Bruce replied, “That is anti-art. Liz Taylor should only play someone married seven times? Zachary Quinto is a great Spock. Who knew Spock was gay? You play characters you are not.” Over the years, Bruce has worked or known everyone (OK, maybe not William Haines or Gable, but close!) “I knew Rock Hudson," Bruce said. "He was such an unhappy person; he made others unhappy. He was so conflicted, could never be authentic. Paul Lynde was absolutely hateful to people; his career didn’t happen the way it had to his colleagues. Also, he drank. Two drinks and he turned into the Nazi High Command.” When I worked with Lynde, I had the exact experience. I also agree with Bruce that sometimes meeting stars today is not terrific. “The stars I meet now are submissive or exhausted," he said. "But it always depends when you meet them. I met Katharine Hepburn and instead of Pat and Mike I got Coco Chanel. [Heburn played Chanel in the Broadway musical Coco.] Bette Davis was more bitterness than Margo Channing. But Elizabeth Taylor was amazingly funny and all the things I wanted her to be.”

The Castro Theatre marquee on Opening Night for the 21st California Independent Film Festival announcing Bruce Vilanch. (2018) Photo by Rink

Bruce wrote for Olivia de Havilland. I like to think Olivia and Errol Flynn got between the sheets, or “in the feathers,” as Ava Gardner called it. He didn’t get to that with her, but did ask Alexis Smith (costar in my favorite Flynn flick Gentleman Jim) a similar question. “She didn’t let on, of course. She was a lesbian.” That led to a few quips on the subject of marriages between gays in Hollywood. At a time when being out of the closet was nearly impossible, Bruce referred to these as “a lavender marriage, twilight tandem, a Boston marriage.” Janet Gaynor and Adrian, Lilyan Tashman and Edmund Lowe, Hudson and Phyllis Gates. There are many examples.

(Left to Right) Emcees Sister Dana and Sister Roma with Hunky Jesus Contest winner Forrest Gump Jesus, and special guest Bruce Vilanch at the annual Easter Pageant in Dolores Park hosted by the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. (2019) Photo by Rink Special guest Bruce Vilanch with host Donna Sachet at the Songs for No Reason comedy benefit produced by REAF at the Russian Center. (2018) Photo by Rink

“I had two pugs named Tallulah and Hattie," Bruce said. "But I think McDaniel’s and Bankhead’s relationship was mythical. I don’t think they were part of the same lesbian underground. It seemed unlikely, but who knows?” Bruce and I both loved the Netflix series Hollywood (“fantasy and reality”) that has sequences with the two women together. For more information on this and other LBGTQ in Hollywood stories, one of my favorite books ever is Behind the Screen: How Gays and Lesbians Shaped Hollywood 1910–1969 by the gifted William Mann. I am waiting for more to come from Bruce. He is working now, of course, but we always want more from this warm and wonderful man! Jan Wahl is a Hollywood historian, film critic on various broadcast outlets, and has her own YouTube channel series, "Jan Wahl Showbiz.” She has two Emmys and many awards for her longtime work on behalf of film buffs and the LGBTQ community. Contact her at www.janwahl.com

Bruce in Hollywood Squares

Bruce Vilanch shared a hug with Michael Vega at a REAF After Party. (2010) Photo by Rink

Paul Lynde

Special guest Bruce Vilanch was surrounded by a pair of bunnies at the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence Easter event held in Dolores Park. (2018) Photo by Rink

Katharine Hepburn as Coco Chanel

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Bruce Vilanch performed at REAF's Songs For No Reason comedy benefit. (2018) Photo by Rink

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Manny, who still has a key, a nearby apartment, and is all too eager to come over and save the day. http://therhino.org/

different with Majority Leader Chuck Schumer now in charge of a Democratic-controlled Senate.

Mayor London Breed and City Administrator Carmen Chu have appointed Vallie Brown as the new Director for San Francisco’s GRANTS FOR THE ARTS. Brown most recently served the City and County of San Francisco as Supervisor of District 5. GFTA, a division of San Francisco’s City Administrator’s Office, strives to be a stable, dependable resource for nonprofit arts and culture organizations who successfully meet funding criteria, and is committed to supporting the full spectrum of art and culture in San Francisco. Sister Dana sez, "The House of Representatives has re-introduced the Equality Act. (See pages 2–3 of this issue for more information.) With pro-equality majorities in both chambers of Congress and President Biden in the White House, we finally have a chance to pass this key piece of legislation!” When H.R. 5 Equality Act is passed, this historic legislation will bar discrimination against LGBTQ individuals, women, and people of color in education, employment, housing, credit, public accommodations, and other aspects of everyday life. Happiest Season, Disclosure, Ma Rainey’s Black Bottom, Schitt’s Creek, We’re Here, Sam Smith, MSNBC, and CNN are among the nominees for the 32ND ANNUAL GLAAD MEDIA AWARDS. Awards will be presented virtually in April. https://www.glaad.org/ I highly recommend the gay love story of all time, SUPERNOVA, streaming digitally. Sam (Academy Award winner Colin Firth) a concert pianist, and Tucker (Academy Award nominee Stanley Tucci), a writer, are loving, passionate partners of twenty years. They take a road trip in a camper van across the beautiful British countryside to visit friends and family. This gay vacay turns into a real tear-jerker when we discover Tucker has early onset dementia. This is a writer who is gradually losing his ability to write. And Sam has to put his music career on hold to be Tucker’s caretaker. Their love for each other is tested like never before. This poignant tale can be summed up in one of the movie’s gripping lines: “It’s not about fair; it’s about love.” SAN FRANCISCO GAY MEN’S CHORUS will present ANGELS on March 11 to commemorate the 30th anniversary of “When We No Longer Touch,” the world’s first requiem dedicated to those lost to AIDS, with a rebroadcast from SFGMC’s momentous 40th anniversary concert that took place on October 26, 2018, at SF’s St. Ignatius Church. This moving work was commissioned by SFGMC Artistic Director Dr. Timothy Seelig and the Turtle Creek Chorale in Dallas, Texas. The evening will also include the premiere of a video celebrating the creation of SFGMC’s Artist Portal at the National AIDS MEMORIAL GROVE in Golden Gate Park. The memorial includes the names of regional, national, and international arts organizations from all disciplines who have also lost members. https://www.sfgmc.org/angels More power to Pennsylvania State Rep. Malcolm Kenyatta (D), who has announced that he’s running for the U.S. SENATE in 2022. If he wins, he would be the first out gay man in the Senate. Kenyatta announced his campaign with a video posted to Twitter, which opened with him leaving his home and getting a kiss from his fiancé, Dr. Matt Miller. Sister Dana sez, "Mitch McConnell emphasized one very important word twice in a row: [Trump] 'didn't get away with anything yet ... yet!’ Well, we shall see ... see!”

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C) lambda Lambda was chosen as a queer symbol by the Gay Activists Alliance of New York in 1970. It holds many meanings, going back to a symbol of certain courageous Greek warriors, but also as a signifier of scales (balance), unity, and more.

Take Me Home with You! “My name is Rufus! I’m a country boy who is new to the big city, so I love going for walks and exploring San Francisco! I’ve gone on some field trips with shelter volunteers and they have remarked on my stellar behavior. I’m a friendly, easygoing fella who enjoys meeting strangers, human and canine alike. I’m hoping to meet someone special who will open their heart and home to me!” Rufus is presented to San Francisco Bay Times readers by Dr. Jennifer Scarlett, the SF SPCA’s Co-President. Our thanks also go to Krista Maloney for helping to get the word out about lovable pets like Rufus.

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Getting 50 Senators to vote in favor of the Act may be within reach and potentially give Vice President Kamala Harris the opportunity to cast the tie-breaking decisive vote, a task she would no doubt relish. However, current Senate rules require 60 votes to break a likely filibuster. Opponents’ primary arguments are newfangled versions of scurrilous claims they have made many times before. They center on stoking fear of transgender people and legitimatizing discrimination under the subterfuge of “religious freedom.” The predominant purpose underlying opponents’ tactics is political fundraising, and keeping their base engaged and motivated by feeding them the lie that LGBTIQ people are somehow a threat to them. This age-old strategy, cultivated in the Lavender Scare of the 1950s, has been reworked from Anita Bryant to Proposition 8 to the present day. Tragically, it feeds senseless division.

It doesn’t have to be this way. President Biden’s primary message in his inaugural address was “bringing America together” and “uniting our people.” He observed that American “history has been a constant struggle between the American ideal that we are all created equal and the harsh, ugly reality” that, in addition to racism and nativism, “fear and demonization have long torn us apart.” Establishing equality and dignity for those denied it need not result in loss to others. Enacting the Equality Act and bringing dignity to millions of LGBTIQ Americans from all walks of life across our country would truly further our collective quest to make the American ideal a reality. Stuart Gaffney and John Lewis, together for over three decades, were plaintiffs in the California case for equal marriage rights decided by the California Supreme Court in 2008. Their leadership in the grassroots organization Marriage Equality USA contributed in 2015 to making same-sex marriage legal nationwide.

SHORTER (continued from page 3) could accomplish as a nation and as a species without being further encumbered by the costly fears and tired prejudices we spend so much energy either propagating or resisting. It is time for the Equality Act to pass, to be signed by President Biden, and to become the law of land. With this constellation of Congress, Senate, and presidential stars in alignment, if not now, when? Well, it is a long wait until we land on Pluto. Andrea Shorter is a Commissioner and the former President of the historic San Francisco Commission on the Status of Women. She is a longtime advocate for criminal and juvenile justice reform, voter rights and marriage equality. A Co-Founder of the Bayard Rustin LGBT Coalition, she was a 2009 David Bohnett LGBT Leadership Fellow at the Harvard Kennedy School of Government. HARVEY MILK PLAZA (continued from page 4) am confident that the SWA team will be able to translate Harvey’s legacy of hope into an inspiring memorial to his life.” FHMP has proposed a robust community outreach and engagement effort to unfold during Spring 2021. “The ability to have conversations online represents a new opportunity to engage with even more people than inperson events might otherwise,” said Springfield. “It is our goal to engage the community in the process of creating this new type of memorial, as Harvey’s message of the ‘us’s and the them’s’ has ongoing relevance to what’s happening today. We view online information gathering and creative engagement with as many people as possible as having immense benefit to the project.” SWA will lead a Bay Area team that shares their desire for an inclusive, pragmatic, and energetic design process. The team includes Civic Edge, an engagement firm that has cultivated partnerships with numerous SF agencies; Volume Inc., a creative agency known for skill in leveraging visual communication and experience-based design to tell the story of a place; Peoples Associates Structural Engineers and Telamon Engineering (Engineer of Record), which bring technical knowledge; and WSP, which will provide lighting design that balances safety, security, and sustainability needs with an artistic touch. The Harvey Milk Plaza project is expected to be funded through a public-private partnership. Explained

Springfield, “As the outlines of the project come into focus, we expect we will receive cooperation from the various stakeholder agencies involved to fund transit and infrastructure upgrades, as well as the creation of public space. The Castro remains an iconic neighborhood, as well as an important symbol to other communities around the world. Investment in the plaza will assist the neighborhood and the city to once again attract visitors from around the world where they will learn about Harvey and his mission.” A separate—but interconnected—SFMTA projectto improve accessibility at Castro Station will include the installation of a new elevator connecting the existing plaza with both levels of the transit station below. But now that project has evolved to include a new fourth stop at Market Street to improve access for commuters who use the bus stops there, an idea first proposed by the FHMP. “The SFMTA team has been great partners to this project. They have listened to the community, who wanted no part of the site named for Harvey Milk to be inaccessible to anyone,” explained Springfield. “They totally get it, and have been incredibly supportive.” This initial phase of improvements at the site is expected to break ground in late 2021/early 2022. For more information: w ww.harveymilkplaza.org

Love Our People - Heal Our Communities Rally, San Francisco & Oakland

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During the Valentine’s Day weekend, rallies in response to recent violence against Asian American communities were held on Saturday, February 13, in Oakland, and on Sunday, February 14, in San Francisco at the Civic Center. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I4QhmbmDC9g Organized and co-hosted by the Coalition for Community Safety and Justice and other social justice and community organizations, the events brought together multiracial and multigenerational groups standing together against violence and to offer space for healing from grief and pain following recent attacks against Asians. The socially distanced events were livestreamed with Cantonese and ASL interpretation included. A joint statement signed by 72 organizations from across the Bay Area was released: https://tinyurl.com/96hn123q

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Speaking to Your Soul ARIES (March 21–April 19) Release the past and create space for new beginnings just around the corner. Give yourself permission to pause. When you hurry, you never get there. When you’re still, you arrive. Guidance comes from within. Inspiration and insights are strong now. TAURUS (April 20–May 20) Appreciating what you have comes easy to you. But so does getting stuck in your comfort zone. Break free and be pulled by an uplifting vision of your ideal future. The weight of the world has been holding you captive for too long.

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GEMINI (May 21–June 20) A portal opens through which you can access pertinent information regarding your mission on Earth. However, this information will bypass your intellect. Therefore, conclusions and decisions around such will not be made by deductive reasoning as you’re used to, but by intuitive awareness.

Elisa Quinzi To the degree that we acknowledge the validity of astrology, is the degree that we acknowledge the existence of a mysterious intelligent ordering of the universe. This month’s planetary promptings point to that part of us that knows that there is more than meets the eye. If collectively we are to evolve beyond humanity’s current state of affairs, it will require each of us to make contact with that mysterious intelligence underlying all that we see playing out in the physical world, and to grasp that the seeming separation between each of us is illusory.

CANCER ( June 21–July 22) Magic, miracles, signs, and synchronicities are the breadcrumbs pointing you toward an evolving landscape of reality. Life takes on deeper meaning as your perspective is lifted to a higher frequency. LEO ( July 23–August 22) Ego gets a bad rap. A healthy ego keeps us sane and is the driver of our purpose in life. As a Leo, your distinct personality is the interface between the great mystery of the universe, and your audience. So it serves you, and your audience, to periodically inspect the line for debris that is interfering with a clear connection. Otherwise you risk being reminded by the universe itself, that your ego cannot run the show on its own. VIRGO (August 23–September 22) Self-sacrificial Virgo walks a fine line in relationships now. The balance you seek is, on the one hand not giving up too much in partnership. On the other, not letting your inner critic delude you into holding partners to impossible standards. The way forward is to contemplate the highest good for everyone involved.

Elisa Quinzi is a certified professional astrologer who brings a strong spiritual perspective, as well as over 20 years of experience, to her work with clients. Contact her at futureselfnow@gmail.com or at 818-530-3366 with your exact birth time to schedule or to ask questions.

LIBRA (September 23–October 22) Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hanh in his book Peace Is Every Step wrote: “Walk as if you are kissing the earth with your feet.” The planets are encouraging you to be devotional about the tasks at hand. As you create ritual in your days, the sense of order you experience connects you to a larger field of awareness. When you drop into awareness of the present moment, washing a dish becomes as significant as closing a deal. SCORPIO (October 23–November 21) Let go of any addictive or compulsive patterns that are blocking you from expressing more of your light. The creative force is strong with you now. You need only clear your channel to receive inspiration. SAGITTARIUS (November 22–December 21) Even adventurous Sagittarius needs to power down sometimes. There are stirrings in your soul now that can only be heard as you get still. Reign in your gypsy and follow the map of your inner terrain. Important clues are found within. CAPRICORN (December 22–January 19) Your pragmatic nature prefers facts and physical proof over unicorns and rainbows. But why should you miss out on life’s magic? You shouldn’t. Keep your feet on the ground but stay curious and open now as you engage in dialogue with mystical messengers. You’ll recognize them by the “a-ha” you experience when something said becomes that missing puzzle piece that propels you forward. AQUARIUS ( January 20–February 18) Your distinct gifts are needed in the world, and there is a market for what you offer. Whether just getting started, or considering a career change, this isn’t about gambling your life’s savings away, but rather taking concrete, consistent actions toward your dream. Don’t wait to be ready; you’ll gain confidence along the way. PISCES (February 19–March 20) As the sign of cosmic consciousness, you often find yourself standing at a crossroads. World-weary and highly sensitive, the path of escapism from this harsh world lures many a fish into its whirlpool. But every birth is the answer to a problem. Every life, a piece to the great puzzle. And so it is that you were born to be here, not half-here. As you rebirth into full, clear presence, the way is illuminated, life responds to you in kind, and the world is brightened for it.

ROSTOW (continued from page 2) Actually, it will be a pretty huge deal if they avoid review, which would imply that they agree with the Fourth Circuit’s legal logic. We’ll see. Meanwhile, we’re waiting for a High Court decision in the case that pit the city of Philadelphia against a Catholic services group that discriminates against gay foster parents. The case was argued in early November, just in time for Justice Barrett to have been seated, and the ruling will clarify where this Court may go on questions of religious freedom and GLBT rights. Are you excited? I know, I know! Giddy times.

Cray Cray Let’s see what else. I should have found room in my comments about state legislators to tell you about one lunkhead from Arizona, state senator John Fillmore, who is sponsoring a bill to make clear that state identification papers must designate male or female, and cannot reflect non-binary status. “What’s going to happen when someday someone wakes up and they want to go to a far extreme and identify as a chicken or something, for crying out loud,” Fillmore asked in a recent hearing. “Where do we draw the line?”

You know what bugs me about guys like this? It’s not even the ridiculous remarks. It’s the energy they expend on pointless legislative showboating. Just the other day, the QAnon congresswoman, Marjorie Taylor Greene, co-sponsored a bill called the “Old Glory Only Act,” which will prohibit U.S. consulates and embassies from flying anything other than the American flag. I’m not sure who initiated this waste of time, but, for the record, no flag is ever allowed to replace or surmount the stars and stripes. On the other hand, American outposts have often flown other flags below the main one, including Pride flags during June. So, I guess Greene and company think it’s worth spending some political capital to ban that innocuous practice. Speaking of QAnon, I must confess that I ignored them for a long time, assuming that the ideology represented only a tiny fraction of damaged people, who were getting a lot more media attention than they deserved. But, given the number of articles I’ve read about people struggling with a QAnon adherent in their families, it seems as if a disturbingly large chunk of Americans are dipping into this menu of conspiracy theories. I’ve read about normal individuals being sucked into sheer lunacy like fragile teenagers—parents, siblings, or spouses gradually losing their grip on reality and entering a world that cannot be reached through reason, facts, or evidence. And it’s happened quickly. Over the last year or so. Is this what we’re coming to? arostow@aol.com

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Gripping Documentary Chronicles LGBT Lives at Risk in Chechnya describes worse; it involves a rat on a man’s back trapped under a pot that is heated.)

Film Gary M. Kramer Shortlisted in both the Best Documentary Feature Oscar as well as in the Visual Effects category, the urgent, cogent film, Welcome to Chechnya, is now available on DVD and streaming services. One of the most powerful moments in this documentary has a young gay man recalling his arrest and torture. When he went to visit a guy he met online, policemen hiding in the bathroom arrested and detained him. They tortured him in hopes of getting the names of other gay men. He was subjected to electric shocks and batons, and his nose was broken. He claims it could have been worse. (He

The report is just one of many disturbing moments in out gay director David France’s devastating film that shines a critical light on the antigay purges in Ramzan Kadyrov’s Chechnya. But this film also chronicles the courageous efforts of activists David Isteev and Olga Baranova, who help members of the LGBTQ+ community by finding them safe houses and arranging their escape. A note in the film’s opening moments explains that all of the subjects in the film have had their faces digitally disguised to protect them. And a pretitle sequence has a young woman, “Anya,” calling David seeking safety. Anya explains that her uncle found out about her sexuality, and he will tell her father—a high ranking Chechen official—unless Anya has sex with him. She wants to flee. Anya’s story is picked up later in the documentary, when France explains how difficult it is for lesbians to be safe. Many women are battered at home. Because they cannot travel alone, there is greater risk in getting

them out of the country. The extraction of Anya plays like a thriller, complete with secret meetings, distractions, and even checkpoint passport drama. Other stories in Welcome to Chechnya are equally compelling, such as a segment dedicated to Zelim Bakaev, a popular Chechen singer who is believed to have been tortured and killed because he was gay. But the film’s most significant story chronicles “Grisha,” a 30-year-old Russian man who was working in Chechnya when he was arrested for being gay. He is being protected by the Russian LGBT network, and soon reunites with his boyfriend, “Bogdan.” Their affection, especially when they meet at the airport, is palpable. But their story is complicated. Since Grisha was released from

detention (where he was tortured), his family is not safe; they all must evacuate. Moreover, Grisha bravely agrees to file a criminal complaint and speak publicly about his torture. During his emotional press conference in Moscow, Grisha discloses his real identity—Maxim Lapunov— and France reveals his real face. Lapunov becomes both a symbol and a target for speaking out against the antigay campaign.

France does an excellent job capturing the fear the LGBTQ+ Chechens face during this crackdown. The mood in the safe house where these men and women live ranges from supportive to intense. Grisha, Bogdan, and Akhmad— another gay man featured in the film seek asylum—each experience fears and doubts about adjusting to a “new life” that frays their already worn nerves. In contrast, Anya is playing a waiting game and is kept under lockdown until a host country is found. She struggles with being isolated, even as she is told leaving the apartment just to take out the trash could end her life. Welcome to Chechnya also gives voice to the heroic efforts of folks like David (continued on page 22)

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Point Reyes Station visual and performing artist Ernesto Sanchez’s phone booth/altar can be viewed in front of the West Marin Pharmacy located near the Point Reyes Community Health Center. http://www.ernestosanchezart.com Abby Zimberg is a licensed California Marriage Family Therapist with training in art therapy. She formerly worked as a graphic designer and has always been a photographer. https://theartoftherapysf.com/

Love, Bravery, and Tragedy

Words Michele Karlsberg Flower of Iowa, an historical novel by Lance Ringel, is a sprawling tale of battle, courage, the resilience of the human spirit, and the transformative power of love. The grand epic showcases unforgettable characters, meticulous research, and exhilarating storytelling. Recently, I had a chance to speak with Ringel about this work. Michele Karlsberg: What was the inspiration for Flower of Iowa? Lance Ringel: As a teenager, I was introduced to the Great War through Barbara Tuchman’s amazing book

The Guns of August and a CBS-TV series called World War One. They both made a great impression on me, spurring a fascination with the war that changed our world so completely. Fast-forward Lance Ringel three decades later. I was stuck in bed, recovering from a near-fatal bout of hepatitis, and the local PBS station began re-airing the CBS series. At the same time, controversy arose over Bill Clinton’s campaign promise that eventually resulted in the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy. I don’t know if it was inspiration or delirium, but an idea came to me: How about writing an historical novel in which two soldiers fall in love in the First World War? Michele Karlsberg: You embarked on an ambitious period of research for Flower of Iowa. How far did it take you? Lance Ringel: My research took me across America and through Europe. To tell this story properly, I needed to see with my own eyes the actual Great War battlefields of France and Belgium, as well as their

surrounding towns. I scoured Iowa to find the most suitable town to be Tommy Flowers’ birthplace, eventually choosing the village of Brooklyn. And I sat for countless hours in libraries and museums on both sides of the Atlantic. The best source for my research was the extraordinary Imperial War Museum in London. The staff was immensely helpful to me, an American nobody who’d just wandered in. Within minutes, I was seated at a research table holding an original Great War trench map from 1918—one that had been handled by British soldiers. That just made my mind spin. Michele Karlsberg: What evidence is there of homosexual relationships during WWI? Lance Ringel: There are plenty of tantalizing clues. The Great War and Modern Memory by Paul Fussell (continued on page 22) S AN F R ANC IS C O BAY T IM ES

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Round About - Black History Month

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Rainbow Grocery has an impressive array of posters installed in observance of Black History Month.

Original murals on Hayes Street honor jazz artists Louie Armstrong and Nina Simone.

A colorful Black Lives Matter poster, by three-yearold artist Maya, is featured at the Zen Center in Hayes Valley.

Bus stop signs, in observance of Black History Month, include quotes by Maya Angelou, Bayard Rustin and Barbara Jordan.

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Isteev and Olga Baranova. Isteev sits for a series of interviews where he explains the background of the purges and Kadyrov’s relationship with Putin. He also touches on the financial and logistical help the Russian LGBT network faces. He is obviously weary as the toll his work takes is visible, but his hope, support, and patience are also evident.

includes a chapter called “Soldier Boys” about homoeroticism in World War I British literature. But since he wrote his book in the early 1970s, Fussell stressed the romantic rather than the sexual nature of these relationships. In Henry Berry’s oral history Make the Kaiser Dance, conservative Republican Congressman Hamilton Fish (a former Doughboy) noted that the Moroccans would not kill young German prisoners of war, but kept them “for boyfriends.” (I use this in a subplot in my novel.) The famous German scholar Magnus Hirschfeld, arguably the founder of the modern gay movement, wrote a “Sexual History of the World War” in the 1930s that documented sexual activity between soldiers. Homosexual relationships in the Great War certainly happened, but were largely erased from history due to the mores of the time.

Likewise, Olga’s efforts to assist members of the LGBTQ+ community are laudable. Her story, however, develops an interesting wrinkle that is best left for viewers to discover. Welcome to Chechnya is not an easy film to watch. Periodically, France includes video intercepts that depict gay men being beaten, tortured, and even raped. There are upsetting images seen on cell phones of gay men’s bruises and scars, which are the results of the electric shocks they received. But these scenes, like the personal stories recounted by the protected subjects, are necessary to illuminate the human rights violations of LGBT people in Chechnya. Such evidence can only help hold the men who order and execute the torture and killing accountable. As one subject in the film says, “It could be your son or daughter next.” And if these crimes are allowed to happen, says another subject, what will happen next? These are the chilling thoughts that viewers are left with at the end of this gripping documentary. © 2021 Gary M. Kramer Gary M. Kramer is the author of “Independent Queer Cinema: Reviews and Interviews,” and the co-editor of “Directory of World Cinema: Argentina.” Follow him on Twitter @garymkramer 22

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A journalist and writer for four decades, Lance Ringel has penned five novels and three plays. www.LanceRingel.com Michele Karlsberg Marketing and Management specializes in publicity for the LGBTQ+ community. This year, Karlsberg celebrates 32 years of successful marketing campaigns. For more information: https://www.michelekarlsberg.com

Round About - Valentine’s & More

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CASTRO

STREETCAM presented by

Cassie Blythe, Deana Dawn, Mark Paladini, Don Ho Tse and Gary Virginia presented the Krewe De Kinque Valentine’s Bake Sale, benefiting the Q Foundation, during the Castro’s 18th Street Shared Spaces on Sunday, February 14.

Valentine’s themed red velvet cake donuts were on sale at Bob’s Donuts on Polk Street on Saturday, February 13.

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Chocolates and other treats for Valentine’s Day were offered for sale at Cheese Plus on Russian Hill.

Items of the week

Owner/operator Juan Reynoso displayed the bundles of Valentine’s roses, red ones and other varieties, for sale at the popular Flower Corner stand at the corner of Market and 16th Streets.

Classic Snuffles Teddy Bears from Gund In desperate need of something to hug? Classic Snuffles teddy bears from Gund make for the perfect quarantine buddy. They are soft, cuddly, and non-judgmental of your Zoom meeting attire. The Mask Shop’s Michael Petri presented a selection of masks designed for Valentine’s at the shop on February 14. In the shared space area on Noe Street, florist Nicole Whitten posed with plants and a Valentine’s Day bouquet on February 14.

A Valentine’s bouquet at Polk Street Market on Russian Hill, February 13

This Le Creuset round Dutch oven with a heart knob is great for romanatic meals or just for fun!

The front window at Jeffrey’s Natural Pet Foods on Noe Street included a display of festive hearts for Valentine’s Day.

A long line of shoppers waited to get in on February 12, at the Good Vibrations Polk Street store where gifts for Valentine’s Day were offered.

Le Creuset Round Dutch Oven

Phil Kim, Supervisor Rafael Mandelman, and Ben McGrath presented custom t-shirt designs at the Stud Collective’s booth during Shared Spaces on Noe Street on February 14.

can honestly say that 2021 hasn’t started out how we would like. Normally we would start the year out at buying shows picking out all the latest and greatest things for the year to come, but this year is starting out different. The first week of the year saw an attempted takeover of our government, two employees with health situations, and we were burglarized twice, all in one week! Since pulling the covers over our heads and hiding out until this is all over isn’t an option, we keep on keeping on, because that is what we do. And we know we aren’t perfect and we aren’t always going to get it right, but we are trying. So, we ask that you be kind to yourself and spread some extra kindness to others; we all need a little more right now.

As Heard on the Street . . . February is Black History Month. Who would you like to honor?

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Troy Brunet

Shaun Haines

John Weber

Dee Spencer

Steven Lloyd Mann

“My mother, Georgianna Brunet, always told me, ‘Only the strong survive,’ and I have lived that all my life.”

“San Francisco Supervisors Board President Shamann Walton for becoming, I believe, the first African American male Board President in city history.”

“Brett Andrews, Director of PRC. He has been a rich embodiment of this community celebrating African American men in a deeply meaningful manner.”

“Kamala Harris”

“Frederick Douglass”

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